w**********e
发帖数: 557 | 1 如果他们一直谈系里的八卦，是应该插话加入还是应该敷衍一下大多旁听就好？ | e*****s
发帖数: 273 | | n****g
发帖数: 1063 | 3 晚餐不大讲话会不会被认为不能融入
【在 e*****s 的大作中提到】
: 小心为妙。
| a*****2
发帖数: 308 | 4 if you have a Nature, Science or Cell, you don't give a damn about 融入,'
lol
【在 n****g 的大作中提到】
: 晚餐不大讲话会不会被认为不能融入
| A***a
发帖数: 73 | 5 You may want to dominate some part of the coversation. You can 八卦 too. No
negative 八卦 though. You can ask them what they do in their spare time,
which GYM they go, how far away from the campus they live, housing price,
weather, TV shows, or students. Or course arrangements. Or food. Anything.
People want to work with someone who is amiable and a fun to be with. That
is the key. So take it easy and treat them as your friends. Don't drop your
guard though. |
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