m********g
发帖数: 40 | 1 刚才看到“被公公打了，婆婆火上浇油”这么个贴，很火爆。结果进去一看，错了，
是“被老公打了，婆婆火上浇油”。又是家暴，又是鸡同鸭讲，讨论得很热闹。其实大
妈们和wsn们争论的不是一个论点。总结起来就是两点。
1）家暴，无论男暴女，还是女暴男，都是错误的，性质是严重的。
2）对家暴是否0容忍？
大妈们在宣扬的是第一点（或者是把女暴男部分给排除了的第一点），而wsn们主要讨
论的是第二点。
其实有争论性的就是第二点。当然了，美国法律是0容忍。所以很多大妈们（或苦主们
）见到这类贴不份青红皂白就来劲了，“你去告啊，你去告啊。”恨不得把你地址问清
楚了替你拨911。不过你想啊，你要选择0容忍自然是合法的。那么wsn们也有对把自己
送进局子里爆菊的人0容忍的权利。所以一来二去，你就加入那些单身大妈俱乐部了。
大妈们还恭喜你：你应该高兴啊，你失去的只有枷锁，得到的是整个世界。真是这样吗
？晚上人群散了的时候，还得你自个儿品味品味。反正单身大妈们对你曾经的另一半没
有任何交集任何感情，对有人加入她们的俱乐部那是真的高兴。至于她们在晚上有所感
触辗转反侧之余有感而发的叹息，你是听不到的。
扯远了，所以 |
k***0
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d*******a
发帖数: 385 | |
m********g
发帖数: 40 | 4 我这不是吸引那些以除暴安良为己任的大妈们进来扔砖的嘛．也欢迎来灌水．
现在房价虚高．我再配点水泥就自己砌墙造房子了．
【在 d*******a 的大作中提到】
: 我还以为有个被公公打了呢。赶紧进来看，切。
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g*****9
发帖数: 621 | 5 not easy to 商斟
Although cultures weigh, 家暴 seldom stops with no help from outside ( be it
911 or pastor or ...)
【在 m********g 的大作中提到】
: 刚才看到“被公公打了，婆婆火上浇油”这么个贴，很火爆。结果进去一看，错了，
: 是“被老公打了，婆婆火上浇油”。又是家暴，又是鸡同鸭讲，讨论得很热闹。其实大
: 妈们和wsn们争论的不是一个论点。总结起来就是两点。
: 1）家暴，无论男暴女，还是女暴男，都是错误的，性质是严重的。
: 2）对家暴是否0容忍？
: 大妈们在宣扬的是第一点（或者是把女暴男部分给排除了的第一点），而wsn们主要讨
: 论的是第二点。
: 其实有争论性的就是第二点。当然了，美国法律是0容忍。所以很多大妈们（或苦主们
: ）见到这类贴不份青红皂白就来劲了，“你去告啊，你去告啊。”恨不得把你地址问清
: 楚了替你拨911。不过你想啊，你要选择0容忍自然是合法的。那么wsn们也有对把自己
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d*******a
发帖数: 385 | 6 股市终于收盘了，有时间打酱油喽。
【在 m********g 的大作中提到】
: 我这不是吸引那些以除暴安良为己任的大妈们进来扔砖的嘛．也欢迎来灌水．
: 现在房价虚高．我再配点水泥就自己砌墙造房子了．
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m********g
发帖数: 40 | 7 Just to make a comparison, speeding, which might cause serious consequence,
is not likely to stop without help from JCSS. So if the husband is speeding
, will the wife on the passenger side call 911 asking for a ticket?
it
【在 g*****9 的大作中提到】
: not easy to 商斟
: Although cultures weigh, 家暴 seldom stops with no help from outside ( be it
: 911 or pastor or ...)
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m********g
发帖数: 40 | 8 哈哈，你就是冲着公公婆婆进来打酱油的
【在 d*******a 的大作中提到】
: 股市终于收盘了，有时间打酱油喽。
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g*****9
发帖数: 621 | 9 Taking a defensive driving lesson may also do.
The point is your partner is hurt and that behavior can not be tolerated,
how to stop it is your choice.
speeding
【在 m********g 的大作中提到】
: Just to make a comparison, speeding, which might cause serious consequence,
: is not likely to stop without help from JCSS. So if the husband is speeding
: , will the wife on the passenger side call 911 asking for a ticket?
:
: it
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m********g
发帖数: 40 | 10 I agree with you that home violence is wrong and should be stopped. However,
the augment here is that if zero tolerance is the best way to achieve your
goal.
【 在 guy8619 (jiao sha dou xing) 的大作中提到: 】 |
g*****9
发帖数: 621 | 11 0 is between you and your partner
A female can be shocked if she has witnessed none such behavior in her
family life, another may not think it is a big deal, but either way, it is
like a emotional bank wipe out.
However,
your
【在 m********g 的大作中提到】
: I agree with you that home violence is wrong and should be stopped. However,
: the augment here is that if zero tolerance is the best way to achieve your
: goal.
: 【 在 guy8619 (jiao sha dou xing) 的大作中提到: 】
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m********g
发帖数: 40 | 12 I see many family violence victims are in really bad situations and agree
the zero-tolerance policy is applicable to those serious situations. However
, should family violence be treated differently according to the extents of
the violence? Too many examples that women abused or were instigated to
abuse the zero-tolerance policy which leaded to adverse consequences for
both parties.
【在 g*****9 的大作中提到】
: 0 is between you and your partner
: A female can be shocked if she has witnessed none such behavior in her
: family life, another may not think it is a big deal, but either way, it is
: like a emotional bank wipe out.
:
: However,
: your
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