g*********s
发帖数: 280 | 1 3岁半娃回家告诉我LP，daycare有一娃跟他说，you are Chinese, I am not sitting
next to you。感觉被种族歧视了一把，该如何对待呢？我们想就告诉娃那个小朋友这
样说是不对的，下次别跟他玩，这样是否避重就轻？是否需要跟daycare老师或
director去complain？ |
h*********e
发帖数: 6997 | 2 是否需要跟daycare老师或
yes.
The kid repeated what he heard or was told from his parents. This is bully
from adults, more severe than hitting-pushing bully from kids.
sitting |
r*f
发帖数: 39119 | 3 talk to the teacher
sitting
【在 g*********s 的大作中提到】
: 3岁半娃回家告诉我LP，daycare有一娃跟他说，you are Chinese, I am not sitting
: next to you。感觉被种族歧视了一把，该如何对待呢？我们想就告诉娃那个小朋友这
: 样说是不对的，下次别跟他玩，这样是否避重就轻？是否需要跟daycare老师或
: director去complain？
|
d****o
发帖数: 3197 | 4 必须告诉老师，而且要求孩子道歉。
如果老师做不到让那个孩子道歉就告到director那里去，要求孩子和老师都道歉。
sitting
【在 g*********s 的大作中提到】
: 3岁半娃回家告诉我LP，daycare有一娃跟他说，you are Chinese, I am not sitting
: next to you。感觉被种族歧视了一把，该如何对待呢？我们想就告诉娃那个小朋友这
: 样说是不对的，下次别跟他玩，这样是否避重就轻？是否需要跟daycare老师或
: director去complain？
|
j***u
发帖数: 92 | 5 这个比较严重了吧。我会去complain。
sitting
【在 g*********s 的大作中提到】
: 3岁半娃回家告诉我LP，daycare有一娃跟他说，you are Chinese, I am not sitting
: next to you。感觉被种族歧视了一把，该如何对待呢？我们想就告诉娃那个小朋友这
: 样说是不对的，下次别跟他玩，这样是否避重就轻？是否需要跟daycare老师或
: director去complain？
|
a*****b
发帖数: 298 | 6 the kid does not like Chinese because thinking that Chinese are coming
from outside of US and minority.
it will be good to act just as yourself, do not be frustrated and impacted
by such action. At the same time, telling the teacher is also good to block
this action, but I am not sure the teacher will take care of it. it will be
better than none.
sitting
【在 g*********s 的大作中提到】
: 3岁半娃回家告诉我LP，daycare有一娃跟他说，you are Chinese, I am not sitting
: next to you。感觉被种族歧视了一把，该如何对待呢？我们想就告诉娃那个小朋友这
: 样说是不对的，下次别跟他玩，这样是否避重就轻？是否需要跟daycare老师或
: director去complain？
|
n***p
发帖数: 7668 | 7 三岁半的孩子还懂得“Chinese are coming from outside of US and minority”，
天才儿童真是不一般的多。
block
be
【在 a*****b 的大作中提到】
: the kid does not like Chinese because thinking that Chinese are coming
: from outside of US and minority.
: it will be good to act just as yourself, do not be frustrated and impacted
: by such action. At the same time, telling the teacher is also good to block
: this action, but I am not sure the teacher will take care of it. it will be
: better than none.
:
: sitting
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z********i
发帖数: 703 | 8 要和daycare老师说啊，一定要先告状滴。下次两娃若要因此冲突被告到老师那儿了，
你娃不吃亏。如果告诉老师了，情况好转就算了。下次那娃还说的话，就要告诉家长了。见到家长的面，很礼貌很平和地说一下事实。就说：某某，你家孩子在daycare和我家娃好几次说了“。。。”然后就此打住，不带任何感情色彩。别人肯定要道歉，这个时候千万别微笑说啥啥啥的。要目无表情地说我现在要忙着干嘛干嘛去，再见。那娃多半是家里教育的问题。
告诉娃做为中国人很自豪。告诉自己的孩子下次别的娃那么说，就回应：That's just what I
am thinking about also. I don't want to sit with you too because you are not
Chinese.
sitting
【在 g*********s 的大作中提到】
: 3岁半娃回家告诉我LP，daycare有一娃跟他说，you are Chinese, I am not sitting
: next to you。感觉被种族歧视了一把，该如何对待呢？我们想就告诉娃那个小朋友这
: 样说是不对的，下次别跟他玩，这样是否避重就轻？是否需要跟daycare老师或
: director去complain？
|
z********i
发帖数: 703 | 9 看到网上有的贴子说有些美国人趾高气扬地教训有些国人，大意是也是说you are
coming from outside of US and are minority.
我就想这个时候难道咱不会心平气和地和白人们说：你们的祖先不也是从欧洲移民过来
的吗？印第安人才是这儿的主人。咱们是平等滴--- 都是外来滴！说这样的话你们还没有资格。只有印第安人才配这么说我。（中文如此，随便你怎么翻译）
拜托大家以后遇到这样的事情，抬头回应得响亮一点，呵呵。
block
be
【在 a*****b 的大作中提到】
: the kid does not like Chinese because thinking that Chinese are coming
: from outside of US and minority.
: it will be good to act just as yourself, do not be frustrated and impacted
: by such action. At the same time, telling the teacher is also good to block
: this action, but I am not sure the teacher will take care of it. it will be
: better than none.
:
: sitting
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