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发帖数: 30882 | 1 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: TravisBickle (Travis), 信区: Military
标 题: 黑女的单身母亲竟然占72%
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Dec 18 17:44:10 2012, 美东)
黑男把黑女搞的真惨，黑男是极品，screwing up 全社会。
Blacks struggle with 72 percent unwed mothers rate
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/39993685/ns/health-womens_health/t/
Why black women are justifiably bitter: The bleak relationship picture for
African-American females
By Ralph Richard Banks
Stereotypes of black women as angry or bitter are pervasive. They are also
more accurate than many people would like to acknowledge: many black women
have perfectly good reasons to be angry or bitter.
Black women are the most unpartnered group of people in our nation, a
dubious distinction reflected in their low rate of marriage. More than 2 out
of every 3e black women are unmarried, and most unmarried black women do
not have a committed partner. It's not only economically disadvantaged black
women who find themselves alone. College educated black women are twice as
likely as their white counterparts to be unmarried.
This low marriage rate translates into a high rate of single-parent black
families. Roughly 7 in 10 black children are born to unmarried parents.
Although many of these unmarried parents are in a relationship, or even
living together, at the time of their child's birth, most of these
relationships dissolve within a year or two.
Typically, the mother ends up raising the child. Although many fathers may
hope and attempt to remain involved in their child's life, all too often
fathers who don't live with their children eventually become distant,
leaving the mothers to make it on their own. Raising a child can be a
challenge with two parents; with one, it can be overwhelming.
The marriage decline not only burdens black women who have children. When
confronted with an unplanned pregnancy, single women are more likely than
married women to abort. Because black women are so much more likely to be
single, they are also more likely to have abortions.
Black women can also become dispirited because they confront a relationship
market with too few black men who are stable and employed. Unprecedented
numbers of black men spend some portion of their young adulthood
incarcerated. More than 1 in 10 black men in their 20s or early 30s is
behind bars; a black man's lifetime likelihood of losing his freedom is 1 in
4. And however much they understand the social circumstances that lead
black men to criminal activity, most black women, like women of all races,
don't want an ex-convict as a husband.
The paucity of desirable black men is most glaring on college campuses.
Nearly twice as many black women as black men earn college degrees. Twice as
many. Even those black men who might seem to be the most appealing marriage
candidates - affluent college graduates - are less likely to marry than are
their white counterparts. And when they do marry, they often marry women
who are not black.
As a result, highly educated black women who marry wind up more likely than
any other group of women to marry a man who is less educated than they are -
or who earns less money than they do. These relationships are often
conflicted. A man may be insecure about being economically subordinate to
his wife, and a wife may not be too happy about the situation either.
Research has found that when the husband is unemployed, a couple's
likelihood of divorce increases substantially.
And if all this weren't enough to leave black women on the wrong side of
happy, unmarried black women have to contend with black men who, according
to social science data, are more likely than any other group of men to
maintain relationships with multiple women.
It's not surprising, then, that some black women are bitter or angry; it'd
be more perplexing if they weren't. They experience another emotion as well,
one so at odds with the image of the strong black woman that it seldom
enters the conversation: sadness.
Read more: http://www.nydailynews.com/opinion/black-women-justifiably-bitter-bleak-relationship-picture-african-american-females-article-1.953496#ixzz2FRiyDEuL |
b*******h
发帖数: 2585 | 2 好像白人女的更不满，更生气， 不理性，乱咬。
而且统计似乎也不对。以前看的，美国大学生男女必列就是１：２，除了像麻理这样的
极少数精英理工大学，大学校园里男女很明显的不成比例。黑人大学生男女比例以前看
的是１：１０。如果是１：２， 那说明大大改善了。
黑人男大学生，喜欢找白女，而且也不困难。剩下黑女，找白男虽然也不困难，但是黑
女很多不原意找。 |
p**j
发帖数: 7063 | 3 这又是哪来的狗屁数据？现在大学生女生比例比男生多一点点，也远远没有达到2比1的
地步。
【在 b*******h 的大作中提到】
: 好像白人女的更不满，更生气， 不理性，乱咬。
: 而且统计似乎也不对。以前看的，美国大学生男女必列就是１：２，除了像麻理这样的
: 极少数精英理工大学，大学校园里男女很明显的不成比例。黑人大学生男女比例以前看
: 的是１：１０。如果是１：２， 那说明大大改善了。
: 黑人男大学生，喜欢找白女，而且也不困难。剩下黑女，找白男虽然也不困难，但是黑
: 女很多不原意找。
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P*C
发帖数: 6109 | 4
“剩下黑女，找白男虽然也不困难，但是黑女很多不原意找。”
你sure 吗？
【在 b*******h 的大作中提到】
: 好像白人女的更不满，更生气， 不理性，乱咬。
: 而且统计似乎也不对。以前看的，美国大学生男女必列就是１：２，除了像麻理这样的
: 极少数精英理工大学，大学校园里男女很明显的不成比例。黑人大学生男女比例以前看
: 的是１：１０。如果是１：２， 那说明大大改善了。
: 黑人男大学生，喜欢找白女，而且也不困难。剩下黑女，找白男虽然也不困难，但是黑
: 女很多不原意找。
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b*******h
发帖数: 2585 | 5 反正我知道的白男要找黑女找不到的人多得很。
黑女确实比白女好看多了，脾气性格也好
不能成功一个很重要的因素是黑女的大家族观念。
【在 P*C 的大作中提到】
:
: “剩下黑女，找白男虽然也不困难，但是黑女很多不原意找。”
: 你sure 吗？
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P*C
发帖数: 6109 | 6
那是你喜欢，不等于白男喜欢黑女，我似乎从来没见过一个白男黑女的，如果白男喜欢
黑女，黑女很容易嫁白男，那不可能总是白女黑男，几乎没有反过来的。
【在 b*******h 的大作中提到】
: 反正我知道的白男要找黑女找不到的人多得很。
: 黑女确实比白女好看多了，脾气性格也好
: 不能成功一个很重要的因素是黑女的大家族观念。
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r******g
发帖数: 4002 | 7 白男和东亚男极少会喜欢黑女的。找黑男，主要是性需求，美国女多男少，所以有人找黑
男。
【在 P*C 的大作中提到】
:
: 那是你喜欢，不等于白男喜欢黑女，我似乎从来没见过一个白男黑女的，如果白男喜欢
: 黑女，黑女很容易嫁白男，那不可能总是白女黑男，几乎没有反过来的。
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l****z
发帖数: 29846 | 8 黑女比白女好看?
这位的口味太重了. 怪不得你叫blackmoth,专找黑女啊.
【在 b*******h 的大作中提到】
: 反正我知道的白男要找黑女找不到的人多得很。
: 黑女确实比白女好看多了，脾气性格也好
: 不能成功一个很重要的因素是黑女的大家族观念。
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b*******h
发帖数: 2585 | 9 我早年读书的时候，见过的白男几乎就没有不喜欢黑女的。
但是黑女愿意嫁白男的极少。
主要是黑人的大家庭观念，和黑人结婚等于和一大堆人结婚。
黑女普遍感觉，如果一个白男愿意娶她但是不肯接受她的大家庭，几乎就是以前的白人
老爷
玩弄黑女的翻版。 这是一个族群的群体意识。
【在 P*C 的大作中提到】
:
: 那是你喜欢，不等于白男喜欢黑女，我似乎从来没见过一个白男黑女的，如果白男喜欢
: 黑女，黑女很容易嫁白男，那不可能总是白女黑男，几乎没有反过来的。
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q******e
发帖数: 960 | 10 你在唐人街福州餐馆上的大学？
【在 b*******h 的大作中提到】
: 我早年读书的时候，见过的白男几乎就没有不喜欢黑女的。
: 但是黑女愿意嫁白男的极少。
: 主要是黑人的大家庭观念，和黑人结婚等于和一大堆人结婚。
: 黑女普遍感觉，如果一个白男愿意娶她但是不肯接受她的大家庭，几乎就是以前的白人
: 老爷
: 玩弄黑女的翻版。 这是一个族群的群体意识。
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