c*******5
发帖数: 263 | 1 I'm surprised that 版主s haven't delete this post that is full of
vituperation.
I quote cosine's language:
"mind your own f*cking life";
"i am rather sleepy, but you do come through as a rather stupid person with
an under educated mind";
"ciao";
"you want to live a life eating and f*cking, do it. shut your mouth up on
occasions of academic discussion. you're just an underling unqualified to
handle such BIG issues"; |
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j******0
发帖数: 258 | 2 A couple days ago I had a phone interview with a four-year literal art
college. One of the search committee member asked "how do you bring
undergraduate student into your research program?"
I was lost a second at this question, wondering why I would hire an
undergraduate to do research. Suddenly I realized they only have
undergraduate students. There is no time for me to reinvent the answer. So I
"blah blah" how to integrate a graduate student in my research.
Then the guy at the other end of lin |
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a**********y
发帖数: 2367 | 3 It looks like all folks have 2+ years of prelim. work that went into the
proposals, but I do see a lot of funded proposals without substantial prelim
. work. How do I know if a proposal failed because it lacks prelim. work? |
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A******y
发帖数: 2041 | 4 If you can say that my field is hot but no one is doing what I have proposed
to do because they didn't realize that it is a gold mine etc. |
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A******y
发帖数: 2041 | 5 No one is doing what you proposed to do in a hot field...very hard but it is
possible. For example, if a very hot pathway and enzyme that tons of
people are publishing, but everyone is focus on its one function but you
have found another function, which is also very important. Especially if
once the function is realized, it will resolve some of the debate in the
field. |
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b******h
发帖数: 2732 | 6 我迄今为止：
1. 改了两篇paper，一篇已经接收了，一篇还在review中，还有两篇要改，一直拖着；
2. Review了n篇paper，都是欠了人情债的；
3. 投了一个小proposal，4w块的，就算拿到也不够版上牛人塞牙缝的；
4. 收集preliminary data的工作做了1/3，还在焦头烂额中；
5. 投了也不知道多少conference proposal出去，都不是一作；
6. 受牛人highly的启发，开始写小说（只敢写中文的），目前大概写了两万多字？
7. 我一手打造的veggie garden，so far收获了一颗西红柿，三根黄瓜。
To-do-list就实在太长了，到处都是untied knots. 老天保佑秋天给我减一门课吧！ |
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H****y
发帖数: 2992 | 8
我是个引用狂。
I write entirely to find out what I'm thinking, what I'm looking at, what I
see and what it means. What I want and what I fear. ~ Joan Didion
Sharing our stories can also be a means of healing. Grief and loss may
isolate us, and anger may alienate us. Shared with others, these emotions
can be powerfully uniting, as we see that we are not alone, and realize that
others weep with us. ~ Susan Wittig Albert
Get it down. Take chances. It may be bad, but it's the only way you can do
anything ... 阅读全帖 |
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n****g
发帖数: 1063 | 9 She is not going to do big science, but whatever she does,she will do well.
推荐信的话，是夸奖，还是有保留？ |
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F*Q
发帖数: 3259 | 10 Opinion of a jerk! But it will definitely serve its purpose I.e. to hurt the
applicant's job search. Discard such a jerk reference.
She is not going to do big science, but whatever she does,she will do well.
推荐信的话，是夸奖，还是有........ |
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F*Q
发帖数: 3259 | 11 这事让我想起当年我自己找的一个推荐人。那之前我一直是做方法的（外人说是理论）
。他的推荐信总是说：如果您要找一个理论家，FAQ是一个理想人选。但是他没有实验
方面的训练。就那么样浪费了好多个机会。在我偶然得知他写的推荐信后，把他从推荐
人里去掉了，然后立马就有了interview和offer。而且马上转到试验性的方向，第一个
课题是一个实验室在之前10多年里都一筹莫展的课题，我接手后几个月在实验室上就取
得突破进展。
She is not going to do big science, but whatever she does,she will do well.
推荐信的话，是夸奖，还是有........ |
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l******r
发帖数: 18699 | 12 Why you people are doing low level research?
[在 aram (阿拉木大叔) 的大作中提到：]
:onsite面试，估计肯定会被问到do you have any questions for us
:我能想到的有：
:1） tenure timeline and criteria
:欢迎在market上的同辈集思广益
:提前感谢前辈指点迷津 |
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c*********0
发帖数: 226 | 13 I agree with every thing you are saying. I found a therapist 3 weeks ago,
but she is so booked up, so my first session isn't until next week. I am
ready to move on. I am trying my best to forget the past. My issue is I
don't know ho w to deal with them in the future. To be honest with you, I'm
still afraid of my parents, especially my mom. I don't want to go to China
to see them, because i know while I am there, they will continue to abuse
me. And if I don't obey them (including eat the f... 阅读全帖 |
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c*******r
发帖数: 334 | 14 “My issue is I don't know how to deal with them in the future. To be
honest with you, I'm still afraid of my parents, especially my mom. I don't
want to go to China to see them, because i know while I am there, they will
continue to abuse me. And if I don't obey them (including eat the food
they require me to eat, visit the relatives they demand me to visit, call
their friends who I have no desire to associate with), they will be
emotionally beating me to death. I know exactly what they wou... 阅读全帖 |
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a******o
发帖数: 261 | 15 the question is why are you still afraid of them? why are you - a well
functional adult human being who does not live with them - still afraid of
them?
if your mother pulls a knife on you again, are you that weak physically that
you couldn't even respond physically? what's more - if you know that's
what they gonna do, why subject yourself to that environment?
seems to me you are afraid of the "bu2 xiao4" label that they might put on
you. and this is why i said deep down you are still seeking a... 阅读全帖 |
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c*********0
发帖数: 226 | 16 Thank you so much!
I have read every single reply. I am really surprised that so many people
actually understand me, and support me. For the 1-2 people who are on my
parents side, I thank you too, for offering a different perspective, however
, please do not abuse your kid(s), do not abuse them in the name of love. |
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t********3
发帖数: 567 | 17
want
no one has a perfect plan when doing confrontation like this, you did well.
I am depressed, I need an outlet, I need them to
.
at least you now know what kind of person your parents are ( denying,
cowered, blame everyone else but themselves) .
In their mind, if I am depressed, that's
probably they will blame you if you hurt yourself. They don't have the
courage to face themselves, blaming you the the easiest way for them. I'm
sorry I have to say this, but your parents are not wise or brave... 阅读全帖 |
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c*********0
发帖数: 226 | 18 I agree with every thing you are saying. I found a therapist 3 weeks ago,
but she is so booked up, so my first session isn't until next week. I am
ready to move on. I am trying my best to forget the past. My issue is I
don't know ho w to deal with them in the future. To be honest with you, I'm
still afraid of my parents, especially my mom. I don't want to go to China
to see them, because i know while I am there, they will continue to abuse
me. And if I don't obey them (including eat the f... 阅读全帖 |
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c*******r
发帖数: 334 | 19 “My issue is I don't know how to deal with them in the future. To be
honest with you, I'm still afraid of my parents, especially my mom. I don't
want to go to China to see them, because i know while I am there, they will
continue to abuse me. And if I don't obey them (including eat the food
they require me to eat, visit the relatives they demand me to visit, call
their friends who I have no desire to associate with), they will be
emotionally beating me to death. I know exactly what they wou... 阅读全帖 |
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a******o
发帖数: 261 | 20 the question is why are you still afraid of them? why are you - a well
functional adult human being who does not live with them - still afraid of
them?
if your mother pulls a knife on you again, are you that weak physically that
you couldn't even respond physically? what's more - if you know that's
what they gonna do, why subject yourself to that environment?
seems to me you are afraid of the "bu2 xiao4" label that they might put on
you. and this is why i said deep down you are still seeking a... 阅读全帖 |
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c*********0
发帖数: 226 | 21 Thank you so much!
I have read every single reply. I am really surprised that so many people
actually understand me, and support me. For the 1-2 people who are on my
parents side, I thank you too, for offering a different perspective, however
, please do not abuse your kid(s), do not abuse them in the name of love. |
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t********3
发帖数: 567 | 22
want
no one has a perfect plan when doing confrontation like this, you did well.
I am depressed, I need an outlet, I need them to
.
at least you now know what kind of person your parents are ( denying,
cowered, blame everyone else but themselves) .
In their mind, if I am depressed, that's
probably they will blame you if you hurt yourself. They don't have the
courage to face themselves, blaming you the the easiest way for them. I'm
sorry I have to say this, but your parents are not wise or brave... 阅读全帖 |
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L*******g
发帖数: 80 | 23 re
发信人: CDN (mimi), 信区: Family
标 题: Re: 现代社会男女平等的误区
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Jul 1 17:58:20 2014, 美东)
Hehe, in Chinese families, more male earn more than female, and more female
control the financials, this is 现实, what you have in mind is just nonsense
in your dream.
In the US, those who deny the other party the access of the common property
in marriage is against law and can be treated as abuse if brought up in the
court.
Either by law, or by fact in most families, earn money or not, earn more or
... 阅读全帖 |
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m********e
发帖数: 3562 | 24 【 以下文字转载自 ebiz 讨论区 】
发信人: microknife (小刀切馒头), 信区: ebiz
标 题: alert!!! ------- do NOT buy hp 8500 pro in the near future
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Dec 1 17:02:37 2010, 美东)
it is not valid for trade in any more. so do not buy!!
Purchases made December 1, 2010 or later are not eligible for the Trade-In
and Save 2010 Promotion.
send me baozi if you find it useful. |
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q****i
发帖数: 6923 | 25 100 Things Restaurant Staffers Should Never Do (Part 2)
By Bruce Buschel
Start-Up Chronicle
This is the second half of the 100 do’s and don’ts from last week’s post.
Again, this list is for one particular restaurant, mine, which is under
construction in Bridgehampton, N.Y., and will, with any luck, open this
spring. I realize that every deli needs a wisecracking waiter, most pizza
joints can handle heavy metal, and burgers always taste better when
delivered by a server with tattoos and tongue pi |
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a********e
发帖数: 547 | 26 My husband bought 12*20=420 eggs. we only have 2 people. After some
calculation, i think we can't finish all
the eggs until a year later. Will the eggs stink? He intended to save money
this way, but i think we will either
have to throw away many eggs or we get sick by eating stink eggs.
Sigh! He is such a nusance! always tries to save money. I want to kick him
away to Africa! He has no job, I earn
all the money, yet I can't even eat fresh eggs. I hate him.
Whenever I want to buy something, like ... 阅读全帖 |
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t*****c
发帖数: 1 | 27 I contacted one professor recently about chance to do research in his group.
Maybe he knows my present advisor's name from the publication list. He
contacted my present advisor without telling me, to ask if my present advisor
knows I am planning to leave. Is this professor doing OK?
Fortunately, my present advisor forwarded the email to me. He is out of
funding and knows I am planning to leave. But I feel a little bit
uncomfortable with what that professor did. Can I guess something that he wil |
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a******n
发帖数: 96 | 28 so i have this relative who has a daughter who'll soon be a 11th grader. she
's a smart girl and because of that, she doesn't really study hard. her
grade is like hovering top 20 out of a class size of 400. she spends tons of
free time online, chatting and playing games. so my relative is thinking
that she may better use her time if she can do some preparation and apply to
college in the us.
so i'm wondering if anyone knows what kind of things she has to prepare fore
if she is to do that. i only |
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f******l
发帖数: 27 | 29 If i applied last year and I don't know if it is good to tell them that I
have previously applied for their program. Do i need to indicate
reapplication?Do they care?? |
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c***g
发帖数: 484 | 30 They sound very nice, but they are still tricky. Just can't figure out why
they do this.
Good Day,
How re you doing? I hope all is well. I'm Anabella, am 28 yrs old and Am
originally from Glasgow,Scotland,I work full time,Monday through Friday and
have weekends off except for once a month. I am a professional, A Computer
Consultant and I deal in various kinds of computer applications and soft
wares. I graduated in University of Glasgow-Scotland 4 years ago and I have
my B.sc in Computer Science. |
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d********e
发帖数: 30 | 31 【 以下文字转载自 Stock 讨论区,原文如下 】
发信人: diphontine (Hello World), 信区: Stock
标 题: Why do i smell a crash coming
发信站: Unknown Space - 未名空间 (Sun May 23 02:50:15 2004) WWW-POST
Historically, most market crashes happen on mondays, because people often
spend the weekend re-assessing their positions and the market, just what I did
this weekend.
I simply do not see a bright spot on the market, except that stock prices have
dropped some in the last couple of months. Are stocks cheap now? certainly
not. The |
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s********n
发帖数: 1962 | 32 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
diva98 (diva) 于 (Fri Dec 14 11:41:17 2007) 提到:
Hi,
I'm new to investment. Hope some guru can give me some advice. Thanks a lot
in advance.
I currently have about 50k in my 401k. I'm leaving the company and starting
a new job early next month. What should I do? Should I put the money in my
Roth IRA account(with Fidelity) or do I need to open another account? BTW,
my new job is with microsoft. How's their 401k (with Fidelity, Vanguard, etc
?)? Should I |
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x***y
发帖数: 633 | 33 "do while" is a loop itself and if it's not allowed to use some loop command
, can you really realize "do while" with "if else" and some sequential stuff
? |
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a****f
发帖数: 944 | 34 【 以下文字转载自 Overseas 讨论区 】
发信人: abcdef (aa), 信区: Overseas
标 题: being tortured by my advisor, what should I do?
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Feb 9 10:55:16 2010, 美东)
I have done a lot of academic related things without asking for his approval
. I think he is really mad at me now and starting to torture me.
However, he wouldn't allow me to do anything except working in the lab. If I
make connections with other professionals in order to build my career, or I
apply for attending an academic symposium, etc, h |
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e**c
发帖数: 95 | 35 Can implict system destructor do everything? When do we need explictly to define our own destructor?
FYI. |
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b********e
发帖数: 693 | 36 My H1B will be expired in 30 days (first three year)
Do I still have time to do H1B transfer?
Thanks |
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c**********e
发帖数: 2007 | 37 【 以下文字转载自 Programming 讨论区 】
发信人: careerchange (Stupid), 信区: Programming
标 题: Which C++ compiler do you use on your home computer?
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sun Sep 26 11:21:24 2010, 美东)
I want to install C++ on my home computer. I do not want to spend a lot of
money on it, would like to have a free or low cost one.
Any suggestions? Thanks a ton. |
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m******i
发帖数: 9 | 38 I am waiting for my H1B approvement. And as I know, I have to do background
check, physical test, education check...after my H1B get approved, and
beofore I start my job.
How about you? I saw a lot of people can start working right after H1B is
approved, they have done with all checks during the H1B processing?
Do you know how long it takes to finish all checks?
Thank you so much. |
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p****m
发帖数: 860 | 39 一定要多准备几个问题。
我上次面试，见了4个人，我准备了8个问题，结果最后一个director 上来就问我有什
么问题，然后不停的“Any more questions?" "Anything else you want to ask me?"
我只好把问过其他人的再问她一遍，那个尴尬啊。
我问的问题都是网上找来的，
像“What's your expectation for this position?" "How long have you been
working here?" "What do you like the most about this company? Anything you
don't like?" "How do you evaluate employee's performance?" |
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j********1
发帖数: 42 | 40 公司让我去面试前把consent form打出来签名，可是这个文件是.do文件，我试着用
WORD2003打开是乱码，用PDF打不开。请问如何才能打开.do的文件呢？ |
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m******t
发帖数: 273 | 41 【 以下文字转载自 Quant 讨论区 】
发信人: myregmit (myregmit), 信区: Quant
标 题: how to do data fitting to find distribution
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sat Mar 15 11:02:05 2014, 美东)
Hi,
I need to do data fitting to find the distribution of a given data.
I need to find the pdf funtion of the distribution.
I can use data fitting functions in matlab and python.
It looks like a truncated gamma.
But, how to find the paramters of the distribution ?
What if the data cannot fit the truncated gamma well ?
The QQ-plot (qunatile-qua... 阅读全帖 |
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b******x
发帖数: 826 | 42 【 以下文字转载自 CS 讨论区 】
发信人: bbcsrgsx (七星汪汪), 信区: CS
标 题: What do you think of open AI?
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Jan 26 10:47:35 2016, 美东)
Sorry for not being able to use Chinese input at work.
Do you think this organization is going to last long? Is it going to be a
real research lab? Has any one contacted them for job opportunities? |
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w*****i
发帖数: 151 | 43 跳槽拿到offer后，Employment Verification: If you select “Do Not Contact”
for any of your previous employers, you will be asked to provide
documentation by 新东家。
请问可以选do not contact现在的公司吗？concerns如下：
1. 现在的公司比较mean，怕小老板说坏话。（除非只会联系HR——HR应该是保持中立
的吧？）
2. 怕现在的公司知道了，就不给我发年终bonus了……
请大家支招，谢谢！ |
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c********t
发帖数: 4527 | 44 There is an opening in China for a program manager, the major duty is like
coordinate the two developments (US team and CHINA team) and may manage the
CHINA team. I have no idea what kind of position it is. I am now working for
the company as a senior developer. Not sure it is a good chance for me. Do you
guys have idea whether this kind of job is interesting or not, what kind of
package normally we will look at? I am trying to find out whehter I want to do
the kind of transfer.
Gurus, please he |
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r******l
发帖数: 30 | 45 If your rate:
1. 5.75% or higher 30yr fix,
2. ARM rate or
3. 15 yr fix 5.375% 0r higher,
You need refinance. But you need these to get a good rate:
1. Credit score >=740
2. All income document good
3. Loan Amt <= 80% of new appraisal value
4. Your state don't charge refi tax(VA charge a lot)
After you decide to do:
1. Get ready your docs: pay stubs,W2, bank statements, title and insurance,
2. Choose a good Chinese agent. You need becareful:
a. Some agent tell you a lower rate but can not do, |
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a******e
发帖数: 197 | 46 I did a little bit research
As long as it's < 100,000 per person per tax year, you don't have to do
anything, no tax, when it's over 100,000, you just need to fill out a tax
form, seems no tax still
Now if you want to transfer more than 100,000 now, it's a good idea to do it
now before the new year so you are using this year's quota.
This are official information on IRS, but most people don't really care. |
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b*d
发帖数: 9308 | 47 Do you have a separate loan broker, or did you get the loan directly from
the lender?
If you do have a loan broker, he/she will take care of this for you.
very |
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l*********d
发帖数: 23 | 48 I am planning to hire a Chinese to do paiting and laminate floor, do I need
to have a written contact?
Thanks! |
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p******m
发帖数: 312 | 49 I want to build a foot-high brick wall on the property line to retain the
soil around one corner of the foundation, but how do I know if there is
pipelines or electricity wires underground?
Can anybody tell me how to do that?
Thanks |
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h*****2
发帖数: 643 | 50 a single house, kitchen and bathrooms needed to be updated. I already found
someone to do the job for me but he does not have NJ contractor license. Can
I just tell township that I can do the job by myself and how about the
inspection? Will it be any problem?
thanks! |
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