V*****8
发帖数: 33122 | 1 【 以下文字转载自 NewYork 讨论区 】
发信人: karks (karks), 信区: NewYork
标 题: 很讨厌被人问"what do you do on weekends"
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Dec 31 23:33:34 2010, 美东)
在一个新的环境，比如新的工作场合，学校，认识一个或一群人不久，对方就问你：
what do you do on weekends?
我用的最多的是hang out with friends, sometimes go to a bar. 但是有风险，应为
如果对方也是经常去bar的，就会追问细节，去什么bar,喝什么酒。这时候我一般说几
个背出来的bar,几个背出来的酒的名字。如果对方再问的细，我就很快露出马脚了，有
点像interview的感觉。
所以，慢慢我不这么说了，改为耸耸肩膀，半开玩笑的说"absolutely nothing. sleep
".这样虚虚实实，对方大多以为你开玩笑，很多人就不追问。但是也有些恶意的人，他
问这个问题就是不怀好意，特别是在很多人在场的时候，会追问你，
"seriou... 阅读全帖 |
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s***g
发帖数: 820 | 2 Hello, can you help with a question?
My relative has a car company to sell cars in China. Recently he asks me to
be a representative, or something, without salary. I do not need to invest.
I do not need to do anything. They put my name in the company. I think they
might want to show they have someone in the U.S. Should I accept it? I do
not know anything about my role at all. If the company earns money, do I
need to pay tax here, although I do not have any salary? In addition, I am
working at an... 阅读全帖 |
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Y*Y
发帖数: 694 | 3 What are we doing?
---- A true story, 9/27/2011
Days ago, I received a letter from the county tax commissioner reminding me
that it's time to renew my auto registration. By the way, the letter also
reminded me that my birthday is coming. Oh well, I don't want to think about
the birthday...
Anyway, back to car registration. Today, I decided to go to the commissioner
's office and have my registration renewed. I had done this before; so I
expected everything would be smooth and easy.
Once I ente... 阅读全帖 |
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Y*Y
发帖数: 694 | 4 What are we doing?
---- A true story, 9/27/2011
Days ago, I received a letter from the county tax commissioner reminding me
that it's time to renew my auto registration. By the way, the letter also
reminded me that my birthday is coming. Oh well, I don't want to think about
the birthday...
Anyway, back to car registration. Today, I decided to go to the commissioner
's office and have my registration renewed. I had done this before; so I
expected everything would be smooth and easy.
Once I ente... 阅读全帖 |
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s**********t
发帖数: 217 | 5 Normally, I let the residents to report the new cases to me, not the interns
. Sorry for the new interns.
So, here, I am going to focus on what do you need to know for the follow up
patient.
As an ICU intern, you will get a sign out from your night intern(s), either
oral or in written or both the first thing in the morning. So, you know what
’s going on after you leave. That is from doctor’s standpoint. Then go to
talk to the nurse. You will get information from the nurse’s standpoint.
Sometime... 阅读全帖 |
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a*********7
发帖数: 30080 | 6 【 以下文字转载自 LeisureTime 讨论区 】
发信人: airdragon77 (仍然自由自我永远高唱我歌), 信区: LeisureTime
标 题: How do I look? How do I look?
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon Nov 26 16:00:50 2012, 美东)
How do I look? How do I look?
I know I know
I’m not in my best coat
that is hanging on the hook
Dad used to wear it on the boat
heading to catch some snook
Mum cut it into half
One into a throw, the other my coat
How do I look? How do I look?
I know I know
In fashion I’m not a pro
On lips there might be some dough
I saved for tomorrow
But ... 阅读全帖 |
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c***n
发帖数: 1034 | 7 by Bernie Sanders
https://medium.com/senator-bernie-sanders/what-should-we-do-if-the-president
-is-a-liar-2e2a27953e8f#.4ro7kd6sn
We face a very serious political problem in this country, and that problem
is manifested in a post written yesterday by Amber Phillips of The
Washington Post. In her piece, Phillips criticizes me for lowering the state
of our political discourse, because I accused the president of being a “
liar.”
What should a United States senator, or any citizen, do if the presiden... 阅读全帖 |
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a******o
发帖数: 261 | 8 hmm... if that's really the case it should really be much easier then.
typically when the kid tries to break the pattern from controlling parents
the parents will try to do everything to regain control - and the classic
Chinese move is usually faking some type of mysterious illness to make the
kid feel guilty and submit. If you feel you already have a good handle on
that, the good for you.
In order to be in a loving relationship you have to both party be willing
participants. It seems like you... 阅读全帖 |
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a******o
发帖数: 261 | 9 hmm... if that's really the case it should really be much easier then.
typically when the kid tries to break the pattern from controlling parents
the parents will try to do everything to regain control - and the classic
Chinese move is usually faking some type of mysterious illness to make the
kid feel guilty and submit. If you feel you already have a good handle on
that, the good for you.
In order to be in a loving relationship you have to both party be willing
participants. It seems like you... 阅读全帖 |
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w**z
发帖数: 8232 | 10 http://www.linkedin.com/today/post/article/20131205132758-76680
A LinkedIn reader sent me this,
I interviewed for a job with a company on my bucket list. I was one of two
finalists. I nailed the final interview... or so I thought. I got the email
today from the HR Manager that t they went with the other candidate. She
said he had more experience than me but that they loved my passion for their
company.
I'm crushed. Is there anything I can do to try to get them to change their
mind? How should I ... 阅读全帖 |
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C*S
发帖数: 135 | 11 I have a lovely son, 7 moths old. I just finished
my 3-month family leave and came back from Madison where
my wife and son live (long distance relationship).
However, I realized today, one day after came back,
clearly that she was not the one I want for the
rest of my life. I told her that I could not bear
her and her mother any more. In fact, I realized
that divorce is the only way to get rid of the
controls of her side of family. I also realized that
her ex-husband got enough with them also. I... 阅读全帖 |
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c******k
发帖数: 90 | 12 Sorry that I can not type Chinese at work.
The result of my 1st trimester screen is not good 1/48. The doc asked me to
do 羊穿, but I am going back to china in a few weeks. I am about 13 weeks
pregnent now. They said I could only do 羊穿 after 16 weeks and by that time
I will be in China. Is it safe to do it in China?
They might be able to do "cvs" before I leave, but I personally don't like
cvs and it seems have more risk and it is scary. It says not many doctors
have good experiences to do cvs.
We... 阅读全帖 |
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W***n
发帖数: 11530 | 13 Why I Quit Algorithmic Trading to Do Web Startups
The kernel of this post originated as an overly long answer to a question
posed to me on Google+, "So how come you stopped doing that stuff [automated
/ algorithmic trading]? Sounds like you'd have enough experience to be a
successful algorithmic trader."
I spent the better part of six years, from roughly 1999 to 2004 and again in
2008, pursuing the chimeric fortunes of automated / algorithmic trading and
while I never actually reached the promis... 阅读全帖 |
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a*****a
发帖数: 1385 | 14 My situation is like this:
I started working in my current company on OPT before I finished my PhD, but
I finished my qualifier and prelim, all that was left to do was final defen
se. My work has nothing to do with my PhD degree topic, but has a lot to do
with my background and my major. So my work is a match with my background, b
ut not my dissertation topic.
I have BS and MS degree in China, only a PhD degree in US. In my case, can I
use my PhD degree for H1B application? or I have to do an ev... 阅读全帖 |
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a*o
发帖数: 25262 | 15 【 以下文字转载自 LeisureTime 讨论区 】
发信人: auo (aeiou), 信区: LeisureTime
标 题: 【人在旅途】Do you believe what you have been believing?
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Mar 14 15:14:58 2014, 美东)
"I want to believe." It's the most important theme sentence in the longest
run sci-fi show in the US history: The X-files.
The depth of this show is far beyond reach. It digs far far into the human
psychological, scientific and religious thought that profoundly hidden
inside our human mind. It tries to explain the unexplainable event... 阅读全帖 |
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l****a
发帖数: 39 | 16 转自Cupertino 社区的nextdoor.com。是一位朋友有感于Vallco rezone的事实而作。
Cupertino, Cupertino, what do you see?
I see a Vallco Hill high up in the sky.
Vallco Hill, Vallco Hill, what do you see?
I see 2 million sqft office skyscrapers rising under me.
Office, office, what do you see?
I see 800 apartments stacking across the Wolfe.
Apartment, apartment, what do you see?
I see tens of thousands of people stuck on the Wolfe.
People, people, what do you see?
We see
crowded schools,
vanishing shopping mall,
rising cr... 阅读全帖 |
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R*****s
发帖数: 41236 | 17 不小心看到这么一篇, 貌似Vibram要翻身:
http://runblogger.com/2013/12/do-minimalist-shoes-increase-inju
Contrary to what you may read in the coming days about a new study that just
came out, Vibram just got the best Christmas present they could have
received.
The question of whether minimalist running shoes reduce or increase injury
risk has been debated extensively over the past 3-4 years. Much of this
debate has been based largely on anecdotal reports from runners and
therapists: many runners have reported re... 阅读全帖 |
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f********3
发帖数: 16 | 18 doing 90lb is like warmup. i remember Yige said, we should do warmups, right
? i just don't how much warmup should be. 120lb is the most i can do so far,
never ever try 130lb. my understanding for weights is, doing most of work
on your maxium weight, right? so, i do relatively more for 110lb and 120lb.
doing 90 and 100 just as warmup.
5
three
exercise |
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k*m
发帖数: 1664 | 19 这是Dido专辑《Life for rent》里的一首歌，曲风有点Trip hop，我很喜欢里面的鼓
点。
很久很久没唱歌了，慢慢找回感觉吧。。。另外，里面有两三处应该做回声效果，但是
菜鸟不会弄。。。
翻唱链接：
https://app.box.com/s/jcl7oxge2d0k56za6pw51x1uoit8tnb5
Do You Have A Little Time
Dido
Written by Dido Armstrong, Mark Bates, Rick Nowels
If you're feeling low and lost today,
Probably doing too much again,
Spend all your hours just rushing around,
Do you have a little time for me.
Slow down my love you're confusing me,
If you're feeling stressed just try calling,
Spend your time waiting fo... 阅读全帖 |
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k*m
发帖数: 1664 | 20 这是Dido专辑《Life for rent》里的一首歌，曲风有点Trip hop，我很喜欢里面的鼓
点。
很久很久没唱歌了，慢慢找回感觉吧。。。另外，里面有两三处应该做回声效果，但是
菜鸟不会弄。。。
翻唱链接：
https://app.box.com/s/jcl7oxge2d0k56za6pw51x1uoit8tnb5
Do You Have A Little Time
Dido
Written by Dido Armstrong, Mark Bates, Rick Nowels
If you're feeling low and lost today,
Probably doing too much again,
Spend all your hours just rushing around,
Do you have a little time for me.
Slow down my love you're confusing me,
If you're feeling stressed just try calling,
Spend your time waiting fo... 阅读全帖 |
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s********k
发帖数: 87 | 21 其实对方说的是 how are you doing? 但是语速快就好想are就听到个r而已。回答方式
好多拉。。譬如这样：
- HOW ARE YOU DOING?
- I M DOING GREAT WAT ABT YOU ?
OR 如果也没很多时间就是一碰面而已好像早上公司走廊一过这样的就回答，GREAT ..
GREAT WITH SMILE ON UR FACE就好拉。。
说到WAT'S UP哦。。我觉得不上班，比较朋友间的比较多。上班啊，还是正经点好。回
答呢。你可以说NOTHING MUCH,OR 或者有个小小肢体动作说个HI而后继续说你要说的就
好了。印象里我就听过一次人家回答我说“A FEW CLOUDS AT THE MOMENT"..希望对你
有帮助哦~~
发信人: lengygf (lengygf), 信区: WaterWorld
标 题: 老美见面打招呼的那句是how you doing还是how're you doing？
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Mar 1 13:49:04 2011, 美东)
经常有人跟我这样打招呼，但说的太快，我每次都... 阅读全帖 |
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w*******r
发帖数: 277 | 22 我们从小都学过What can I do for you
但我在美国不止一次听人说What can I do you for
有一次我在路上听到了别人之间谈话里这么说，去问一个澳大利亚朋友
他跟我说，英语没有这么说的，do you是对你做不好的事情的意思，对别人当面这么说
很不礼貌
于是当时我以为我听错了
但是后来在电影里又听到了
这次肯定没听错
所以我疑惑了，What can I do you for在美国是不是和What can I do for you一个意
思？ |
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d********f
发帖数: 43471 | 23 【 以下文字转载自 EB23 讨论区 】
发信人: treestone (tree stone), 信区: EB23
标 题: Do Not Approve EB2 Downgrade -zt
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Dec 11 21:09:43 2013, 美东)
Hi!
I just signed the petition "USCIS: Do Not Approve EB2 Downgrade To EB3
Without New PERM" on Change.org.
It's important. Will you sign it too? Here's the link:
http://goo.gl/w2cI9r
or
https://www.change.org/petitions/uscis-do-not-approve-eb2-downgrade-to-eb3-
without-new-perm
Thanks!
xxxx
USCIS: Do Not Approve EB2 Downgrade To EB3 Without New PERM
Pet... 阅读全帖 |
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w****r
发帖数: 17566 | 24 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rfemx5g54cw
Do you know where you're going to?
Do you like the things that life is showing you
Where are you going to?
Do you know...?
Do you get
What you're hoping for
When you look behind you
There's no open door
What are you hoping for?
Do you know...?
Once we were standing still in time
Chasing the fantasies
That filled our minds
You knew how I loved you
But my spirit was free
Laughin' at the questions
That you once asked of me
Do you know where you're going to |
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g****t
发帖数: 31659 | 25 "In science if you know what you are doing you should not be doing it.
In engineering if you do not know what you are doing you should not be doing
it.
Of course, you seldom, if ever, see either pure state."
A naturally conclusion:
In most time, I should not do anything. |
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a***r
发帖数: 2677 | 26 【 以下文字转载自 Medicalpractice 讨论区 】
发信人: benpu (随性而安-Think or Sink), 信区: Medicalpractice
标 题: Enrollment in MD, DO Schools Hits New Highs
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Oct 25 08:10:55 2013, 美东)
Enrollment in MD, DO Schools Hits New Highs
Published: Oct 24, 2013
By David Pittman, Washington Correspondent, MedPage Today
save|AA
WASHINGTON -- Medical school applications and enrollment reached record
highs this year as organized medicine's cries for more funding for residency
slots continued with little response... 阅读全帖 |
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x*******i
发帖数: 115 | 27 sometimes, I am thinking about, how could my parents makes me so unhappy.
But, when they ask me to do some task, the task is really prior to my other
stuff. I am really do what I can do for them. Does anyone thinks this is the
reason that they can hurt me?
Sometimes, they are emotional. They do something unreasonable, say, do not
prepare work certification for visa interview and no matter how hard I
persuade them, they just think that is useless. If I do not make work
certificate for them, they |
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a*****t
发帖数: 20 | 28 I want to get an idea of what sell side front office quant do. what type of
model do they build typically? Do they develop execution algorithms? How do
they price equity index options (without using implied vol surface)? Do they
determine bid -ask in the case of market making? If so, how?
Thanks very much in advance. I would appreciate it greatly if more details
and examples can be provided. |
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b**********i
发帖数: 1059 | 29 /* ids and time points */
data temp_id;
ndat = 1;
id = 1;
time = 1;
do while (ndat LE &ndats);
do while (id LE &nobs);
do while (time LE &niobs);
output temp_id;
time + 1;
end;
id + 1;
end;
ndat + 1;
end;
run;
proc print data = temp_id;
run;
用下面这个就没有问题
/* ids and time points */
data temp_id;
do ndat = 1 to &ndats;
do id= 1 to &nobs;
do time = 1 to &niobs;
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w*******y
发帖数: 60932 | 30 Amazon has the following business eBooks available FREE today:
Ultimate Leadership: Winning Execution Strategies for Your Situation:
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00142AP9E
Go Beyond Generic Leadership: Become an Outstanding Leader in Your Unique
Environment
To succeed, leaders must understand and apply the core principles of
leadership--but that's not enough. You need to shape your approach for any
unique situation. Too many leaders don't know how to do that--and that's why
they fail. Ultim... 阅读全帖 |
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i***s
发帖数: 39120 | 31 资料图：季建业
“有人退休以后就不适应，回家以后老婆觉得他很难受，每天要请示一下老头，今天我要买毛豆多少，猪肉多少，请你审批。他就画个圈：同意。后面还加一句，请注意勤俭节约。”昨日在新启用的南京市政务服务中心召开的“南京市服务型政府建设大会”上，省委常委、南京市委书记杨卫泽用一个生动幽默的笑话提及“审批多”和“乱审批”话题。这一话题也引起南京市长季建业的共鸣。
审批多：“有些官员家长地位就体现在审批上”
香港工商登记只要2块钱
“我们目前还存在行政管理方式相对单一，运行机制不够顺畅的问题，仍然存在错位、越位、缺位现象，个别部门存在推诿扯皮、行政不作为问题，办事效率和服务质量还不够高。”杨卫泽表示。
在会上，杨卫泽的“乱审批”笑话引起在场官员的深思。杨卫泽表示，有些官员家长地位就体现在审批上，单位的权力地位就体现在审批上，“有些政府部门习惯认为没有审批就像没权，没有审批就不为人民服务，没有审批就不是当官。现在要变成一个部门审批、一个分管领导审批，他就觉得自己没事干了！”杨卫泽还举例说，有些国家没有审批，只是告知一下，这里的房子只能2米高，要是修了2.01米，政府就进行处罚，不仅处罚还得把... 阅读全帖 |
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k***s
发帖数: 206 | 32 在一个新的环境，比如新的工作场合，学校，认识一个或一群人不久，对方就问你：
what do you do on weekends?
我用的最多的是hang out with friends, sometimes go to a bar. 但是有风险，应为
如果对方也是经常去bar的，就会追问细节，去什么bar,喝什么酒。这时候我一般说几
个背出来的bar,几个背出来的酒的名字。如果对方再问的细，我就很快露出马脚了，有
点像interview的感觉。
所以，慢慢我不这么说了，改为耸耸肩膀，半开玩笑的说"absolutely nothing. sleep
".这样虚虚实实，对方大多以为你开玩笑，很多人就不追问。但是也有些恶意的人，他
问这个问题就是不怀好意，特别是在很多人在场的时候，会追问你，
"seriously,what do you do on weekends."。这时候最难对付。
而且我观察了很久，好像我被问这个问题的频率非常非常高，我认识的人，就算不熟悉
，互相也不问，就是对我，别人特别喜欢问，而且问的时候都是几个人一起问，而且神
情有点诡异，笑眯眯的，感觉故意再刁难我，我给他... 阅读全帖 |
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m**********1
发帖数: 876 | 33 What Do You Really Want from Us?
Duo-liang Lin
When we were the sick man of Asia, we were called the yellow peril.
When we are billed to be the next superpower, we are called the threat.
When we closed our doors, you smuggled drugs to open markets.
When we embrace free trade, you blame us for taking away your jobs.
When we were falling apart, you marched in your troops and wanted your
fair share.
When we tried to put the broken pieces back together again,
free Tibet you screamed, It was an invas... 阅读全帖 |
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o**********e
发帖数: 18403 | 34 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: onetiemyshoe (onetiemyshoe), 信区: Military
标 题: 老子“无为”－O8的"Don't do stupid sh*t"
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Mar 11 12:03:33 2016, 美东)
Former secretary of state and potential 2016 p
residential candidate Hillary Clinton had sharp
words for President Barack Obama's foreign policy
in an interview with The Atlantic's Jeffrey Goldberg,
dismissing the president's "don't do stupid shit" foreign
policy approach for not being "an organizing principle"
worthy of "great nations."
老中道... 阅读全帖 |
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S*******h
发帖数: 7021 | 35 快去填问卷！
https://action.donaldjtrump.com/mainstream-media-accountability-survey/
---------- Forwarded message ----------
From: Donald J. Trump
Date: Thu, Feb 16, 2017 at 3:00 PM
Subject: I can't do it alone
To: mitbbs Trump fans
You know that I don’t trust the media to report on anything we achieve.
Instead, you -- the American people -- are our last line of defense against
the media’s hit jobs.
You are our greatest asset in helping our movement deliver the truth to the
American people.
Which is w... 阅读全帖 |
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h********o
发帖数: 552 | 36 What do you see yourself doing in the next 5 years, and why?
What do you see yourself doing in 10 years, and why?
不晓得这两题和经常被问到的what is your research plan in the next 5 years? 有
什么区别呢？需要如何回答呢？
（我准备的what is your research plan in the next 5 years?从research goal,
plan,and funding三方面回答），难道那两题要说的更具体，到再加上teaching，还有
招多少学生?
谢谢！ |
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c**i
发帖数: 6973 | 37 Fuchsia Dunlop, Kicking Up a Stink; The Chinese are fond of some distinctly
strong-smelling foods--so what do they make of western cheese? Financial
Times, May 21, 2011.
http://www.ft.com/intl/cms/s/2/6a69b0f6-80d6
-11e0-8351-00144feabdc0.html
Excerpt in the window of the print: Dairy products are historically
associated with nomads on the fringes of China who were regarded as fearful
barbarians.
Note:
(a) The first name of the reporter is a flower.
http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/fuch... 阅读全帖 |
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c*********t
发帖数: 2921 | 38 http://news.sina.com.cn/s/2011-11-02/123423402729.shtml
南京市长称官员被问不能说NO 要说Howdoyoudohttp://www.sina.com.cn 2011年11月02日12:34 南方都市报 微博
求翻译
@特许连锁李维华：“求翻译！“how doyoudo”啥意思？”南京市委书记杨卫泽、
市长季建业，昨天在“南京市服务型政府建设大会”上，批评行政管理上“审批多”和
“乱审批”。季建业告诉在场官员：“不能说N o，要说H ow doyoudo，你不能告诉别
人不能做，而是要热情地告诉别人怎么做”。
南都讯《南京晨报》昨日报道，南京市长季建业前日在谈及乱审批、审批多的问题
时，称各级职能部门要增强服务意识，“不能说N o，要说H ow doyou do，你不能告诉
别人不能做，而是要热情地告诉别人怎么做”。众多网友调侃，“H ow doyoudo”多用
于见面问候，此处不知如何与“怎么做”对应，纷纷“求翻译”。
网友感慨不好理解
昨日，有网友发布了一条名为“求翻译！‘how doyoudo’啥意思？”的微博，援
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L***s
发帖数: 1148 | 39 "doing good" means doing good deeds, that is, doing no evil.
i assume you meant "doing fine," or "doing well." |
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p*********n
发帖数: 443 | 40 Sometime do something is better than do nothing, however sometime do nothing
is better than do something.
Deng Xiaoping told us " good cat is who can catch the mouse".
Make thing worse will hurt all EB2C, and delay the time we get GC
please thinking before you do anything.
thanks |
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j*******2
发帖数: 222 | 41 What do I do? Please point it out directly. I do not think I have attacked
people as you do.
It seems you have more "作孽"? Does it mean you will have Baoyin in your
life? |
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t*******e
发帖数: 1511 | 42 Hi!
I just signed the petition "USCIS: Do Not Approve EB2 Downgrade To EB3
Without New PERM" on Change.org.
It's important. Will you sign it too? Here's the link:
https://www.change.org/petitions/uscis-do-not-approve-eb2-downgrade-to-eb3-
without-new-perm
Thanks!
xxxx
USCIS: Do Not Approve EB2 Downgrade To EB3 Without New PERM
Petition by
EB3C Against Downgrade Without PERM
The undersigned are beneficiaries of employment-based immigration, third
preference (“EB3”). We are waiting for our prior... 阅读全帖 |
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t*******e
发帖数: 1511 | 43 Hi!
I just signed the petition "USCIS: Do Not Approve EB2 Downgrade To EB3
Without New PERM" on Change.org.
It's important. Will you sign it too? Here's the link:
http://goo.gl/w2cI9r
or
https://www.change.org/petitions/uscis-do-not-approve-eb2-downgrade-to-eb3-
without-new-perm
Thanks!
xxxx
USCIS: Do Not Approve EB2 Downgrade To EB3 Without New PERM
Petition by
EB3C Against Downgrade Without PERM
The undersigned are beneficiaries of employment-based immigration, third
preference (“EB3”). We a... 阅读全帖 |
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k***s
发帖数: 206 | 44 在一个新的环境，比如新的工作场合，学校，认识一个或一群人不久，对方就问你：
what do you do on weekends?
我用的最多的是hang out with friends, sometimes go to a bar. 但是有风险，应为
如果对方也是经常去bar的，就会追问细节，去什么bar,喝什么酒。这时候我一般说几
个背出来的bar,几个背出来的酒的名字。如果对方再问的细，我就很快露出马脚了，有
点像interview的感觉。
所以，慢慢我不这么说了，改为耸耸肩膀，半开玩笑的说"absolutely nothing. sleep
".这样虚虚实实，对方大多以为你开玩笑，很多人就不追问。但是也有些恶意的人，他
问这个问题就是不怀好意，特别是在很多人在场的时候，会追问你，
"seriously,what do you do on weekends."。这时候最难对付。
而且我观察了很久，好像我被问这个问题的频率非常非常高，我认识的人，就算不熟悉
，互相也不问，就是对我，别人特别喜欢问，而且问的时候都是几个人一起问，而且神
情有点诡异，笑眯眯的，感觉故意再刁难我，我给他... 阅读全帖 |
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o**********e
发帖数: 18403 | 45 【 以下文字转载自 CivilSociety 讨论区 】
发信人: onetiemyshoe (onetiemyshoe), 信区: CivilSociety
标 题: What Do You Really Want from Us?
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue May 20 13:16:54 2014, 美东)
[Author: I don't know]
To Our Friends in Western Media:
When we were the Sick Man of Asia, we were called The Yellow Peril.
When we are billed to be the next Superpower, we are called The Threat.
When we closed our doors, you smuggled drugs to open markets.
When we embrace Free Trade, You blame us for taking away your jobs.
When we ... 阅读全帖 |
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h*******6
发帖数: 3228 | 46 What Do You Really Want from Us
───我们究竟如何才能让你们满意？
When we were the Sick Man of Asia,
we were called The Yellow Peril.
以往我们是东亚病夫，
你们把我们称作黄祸
When we are billed to be the next Superpower,
we are called The Threat.
现在我们正在崛起，
而你们又视我们为灾难
When we closed our doors,
you smuggled drugs to open markets.
以往我们闭关锁国，
你们用鸦片烟做敲门砖
When we embrace Free Trade,
You blame us for taking away your jobs.
现在我们贸易自由，
你却抱怨我们抢了你的饭碗
When we were falling apart,
You marched in your troops and wanted your fair share.
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k***s
发帖数: 206 | 47 在一个新的环境，比如新的工作场合，学校，认识一个或一群人不久，对方就问你：
what do you do on weekends?
我用的最多的是hang out with friends, sometimes go to a bar. 但是有风险，应为
如果对方也是经常去bar的，就会追问细节，去什么bar,喝什么酒。这时候我一般说几
个背出来的bar,几个背出来的酒的名字。如果对方再问的细，我就很快露出马脚了，有
点像interview的感觉。
所以，慢慢我不这么说了，改为耸耸肩膀，半开玩笑的说"absolutely nothing. sleep
".这样虚虚实实，对方大多以为你开玩笑，很多人就不追问。但是也有些恶意的人，他
问这个问题就是不怀好意，特别是在很多人在场的时候，会追问你，
"seriously,what do you do on weekends."。这时候最难对付。
而且我观察了很久，好像我被问这个问题的频率非常非常高，我认识的人，就算不熟悉
，互相也不问，就是对我，别人特别喜欢问，而且问的时候都是几个人一起问，而且神
情有点诡异，笑眯眯的，感觉故意再刁难我，我给他... 阅读全帖 |
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o**********e
发帖数: 18403 | 48 【 以下文字转载自 CivilSociety 讨论区 】
发信人: onetiemyshoe (onetiemyshoe), 信区: CivilSociety
标 题: What Do You Really Want from Us?
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue May 20 13:16:54 2014, 美东)
[Author: I don't know]
To Our Friends in Western Media:
When we were the Sick Man of Asia, we were called The Yellow Peril.
When we are billed to be the next Superpower, we are called The Threat.
When we closed our doors, you smuggled drugs to open markets.
When we embrace Free Trade, You blame us for taking away your jobs.
When we ... 阅读全帖 |
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o**********e
发帖数: 18403 | 49 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: onetiemyshoe (onetiemyshoe), 信区: Military
标 题: 老子“无为”－O8的"Don't do stupid sh*t"
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Mar 11 12:03:33 2016, 美东)
Former secretary of state and potential 2016 p
residential candidate Hillary Clinton had sharp
words for President Barack Obama's foreign policy
in an interview with The Atlantic's Jeffrey Goldberg,
dismissing the president's "don't do stupid shit" foreign
policy approach for not being "an organizing principle"
worthy of "great nations."
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