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发帖数: 9366 | 1 发信人: HenryMeng (To err is human, to forgive divine), 信区: Piebridge
标 题: 剩女们人工受精一定要选老外～～
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sun May 30 15:10:30 2010, 美东)
既然中国男人嫌剩女老了，生不出优质且多量的孩子了，看不上咱，不愿意娶咱
那咱们在自己做选择的时候，为啥还要上赶着给他们养孩子？？又得不到一点感激和
appreciation，生出痴呆儿还要被他们骂
既然他们有本事，就直接骗年轻mm生孩子好了，被他们鄙视的剩女，就自个儿去选老外
的种子吧，台湾的也行，他们没有那么强的年龄歧视。把感情放在孩子身上比放在男人
身上靠谱多了。
如果被中国男人拒绝了还再去选中国男人的种子，那真是贱到家了！！
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oldebbitgril (谁骂我谁不是好人) 于 (Sun May 30 15:28:51 2010, 美东) 提到:
别转了，亨利梦是个肯定是个男的。
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r****g
发帖数: 511 | 2 【 以下文字转载自 Piebridge 讨论区 】
发信人: rihong (日黉), 信区: Piebridge
标 题: 是不是有些人其实还不适合美好婚姻或当好家长？
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Mar 7 10:34:14 2012, 美东)
感觉这个首页啊，有阵子吧，媳妇啊婆婆啊什么的矛盾上了好几条；后来吧就是女婿和
丈母娘丈母爷的矛盾；结果这两天一看，又是夫妻之间甚至家长和小孩儿之间的。。。
琢磨着婚姻可能不是一个一定美好的东西，而是一个壳子。里头是心里美还是赛蜜糖还
是苦砒霜都要看两个人的共同付出，甚至双方的家人。
若是自己连中学生守则，甚至小学生守则都做不到。那又要怎么言传身教地去当个好家
长，甚至是能带出遵守那些守则的好孩子的家长呢？
工作讲究有个技能列表，这样才能为雇主创造价值。
家庭的话，感觉也有一些事情需要掌握，才能保证以后能为家庭创造价值嘛~``
可是这个，学校不说爹妈也不教，朋友之间可能还喜欢攀比什么的。结果本来通过社会
洗礼、自我反省和不断改进后可以掌握多种技能创造美好生活的同学们，跳级成家，发
现麻烦比想象得要多啊~``
技能缺得越多，对般... 阅读全帖 |
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r****g
发帖数: 511 | 3 【 以下文字转载自 Piebridge 讨论区 】
发信人: rihong (日黉), 信区: Piebridge
标 题: 是不是有些人其实还不适合美好婚姻或当好家长？
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Mar 7 10:34:14 2012, 美东)
感觉这个首页啊，有阵子吧，媳妇啊婆婆啊什么的矛盾上了好几条；后来吧就是女婿和
丈母娘丈母爷的矛盾；结果这两天一看，又是夫妻之间甚至家长和小孩儿之间的。。。
琢磨着婚姻可能不是一个一定美好的东西，而是一个壳子。里头是心里美还是赛蜜糖还
是苦砒霜都要看两个人的共同付出，甚至双方的家人。
若是自己连中学生守则，甚至小学生守则都做不到。那又要怎么言传身教地去当个好家
长，甚至是能带出遵守那些守则的好孩子的家长呢？
工作讲究有个技能列表，这样才能为雇主创造价值。
家庭的话，感觉也有一些事情需要掌握，才能保证以后能为家庭创造价值嘛~``
可是这个，学校不说爹妈也不教，朋友之间可能还喜欢攀比什么的。结果本来通过社会
洗礼、自我反省和不断改进后可以掌握多种技能创造美好生活的同学们，跳级成家，发
现麻烦比想象得要多啊~``
技能缺得越多，对般... 阅读全帖 |
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r****g
发帖数: 511 | 4 【 以下文字转载自 Piebridge 讨论区 】
发信人: rihong (日黉), 信区: Piebridge
标 题: 是不是有些人其实还不适合美好婚姻或当好家长？
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Mar 7 10:34:14 2012, 美东)
感觉这个首页啊，有阵子吧，媳妇啊婆婆啊什么的矛盾上了好几条；后来吧就是女婿和
丈母娘丈母爷的矛盾；结果这两天一看，又是夫妻之间甚至家长和小孩儿之间的。。。
琢磨着婚姻可能不是一个一定美好的东西，而是一个壳子。里头是心里美还是赛蜜糖还
是苦砒霜都要看两个人的共同付出，甚至双方的家人。
若是自己连中学生守则，甚至小学生守则都做不到。那又要怎么言传身教地去当个好家
长，甚至是能带出遵守那些守则的好孩子的家长呢？
工作讲究有个技能列表，这样才能为雇主创造价值。
家庭的话，感觉也有一些事情需要掌握，才能保证以后能为家庭创造价值嘛~``
可是这个，学校不说爹妈也不教，朋友之间可能还喜欢攀比什么的。结果本来通过社会
洗礼、自我反省和不断改进后可以掌握多种技能创造美好生活的同学们，跳级成家，发
现麻烦比想象得要多啊~``
技能缺得越多，对般... 阅读全帖 |
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r****g
发帖数: 511 | 5 感觉这个首页啊，有阵子吧，媳妇啊婆婆啊什么的矛盾上了好几条；后来吧就是女婿和
丈母娘丈母爷的矛盾；结果这两天一看，又是夫妻之间甚至家长和小孩儿之间的。。。
琢磨着婚姻可能不是一个一定美好的东西，而是一个壳子。里头是心里美还是赛蜜糖还
是苦砒霜都要看两个人的共同付出，甚至双方的家人。
若是自己连中学生守则，甚至小学生守则都做不到。那又要怎么言传身教地去当个好家
长，甚至是能带出遵守那些守则的好孩子的家长呢？
工作讲究有个技能列表，这样才能为雇主创造价值。
家庭的话，感觉也有一些事情需要掌握，才能保证以后能为家庭创造价值嘛~``
可是这个，学校不说爹妈也不教，朋友之间可能还喜欢攀比什么的。结果本来通过社会
洗礼、自我反省和不断改进后可以掌握多种技能创造美好生活的同学们，跳级成家，发
现麻烦比想象得要多啊~``
技能缺得越多，对般配的要求就越高。比如没有经济能力的，必须要有个有经济能力的
才能过下去；但是如果自己有经济能力，那不论对方有没有都可以。感觉缘分很难自己
控制的；而技能可以自己提升吧。。。
感觉提升自己也是给彼此多一些长久在一起的机会啊。而且婚姻那么长，难保中间会有
一个绝尘而去，... 阅读全帖 |
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r****g
发帖数: 511 | 6 感觉这个首页啊，有阵子吧，媳妇啊婆婆啊什么的矛盾上了好几条；后来吧就是女婿和
丈母娘丈母爷的矛盾；结果这两天一看，又是夫妻之间甚至家长和小孩儿之间的。。。
琢磨着婚姻可能不是一个一定美好的东西，而是一个壳子。里头是心里美还是赛蜜糖还
是苦砒霜都要看两个人的共同付出，甚至双方的家人。
若是自己连中学生守则，甚至小学生守则都做不到。那又要怎么言传身教地去当个好家
长，甚至是能带出遵守那些守则的好孩子的家长呢？
工作讲究有个技能列表，这样才能为雇主创造价值。
家庭的话，感觉也有一些事情需要掌握，才能保证以后能为家庭创造价值嘛~``
可是这个，学校不说爹妈也不教，朋友之间可能还喜欢攀比什么的。结果本来通过社会
洗礼、自我反省和不断改进后可以掌握多种技能创造美好生活的同学们，跳级成家，发
现麻烦比想象得要多啊~``
技能缺得越多，对般配的要求就越高。比如没有经济能力的，必须要有个有经济能力的
才能过下去；但是如果自己有经济能力，那不论对方有没有都可以。感觉缘分很难自己
控制的；而技能可以自己提升吧。。。
感觉提升自己也是给彼此多一些长久在一起的机会啊。而且婚姻那么长，难保中间会有
一个绝尘而去，... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 459 | 7 Mark 2:7-11 (Wey) "Why does this man use such words?" they said; "He is
blaspheming. Who can pardon sins but One--that is, God?"... Jesus asked them
, "Which is easier?--to say to this paralytic, 'Your sins are pardoned,' or
to say, 'Rise, take up your mat, and walk?' But that you may know that the
Son of Man has authority on earth to pardon sins"--He turned to the
paralytic, and said, "To you I say, 'Rise, take up your mat and go home.'"
Mat 6:12 (TEB) "Forgive us the wrongs that we have done, ... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 1776 | 8 CHAPTER XI
Of Justification
I. Those whom God effectually calleth, he also freely justifieth:[235] not
by infusing righteousness into them, but by pardoning their sins, and by
accounting and accepting their persons as righteous; not for anything
wrought in them, or done by them, but for Christ’s sake alone; nor by
imputing faith itself, the act of believing, or any other evangelical
obedience to them, as their righteousness; but by imputing the obedience and
satisfaction of Christ unto them,[236... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 5754 | 9 Chapter 1.1 Our Dual Problem: Sins and Sin
We shall take now as a starting-point for our study of the normal Christian
life that great exposition of it which we find in the first eight chapters
of the Epistle to the Romans, and we shall approach our subject from a
practical and experimental point of view. It will be helpful first of all to
point out a natural division of this section of Romans into two, and to
note certain striking differences in the subject-matter of its two parts.
The first ei... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 5754 | 10 chapter 8.2 Faith Is Again The Key
As for forgiveness, so equally for the coming upon us of the Holy Spirit,
the whole question is one of faith. As soon as we see the Lord Jesus on the
Cross, we know our sins are forgiven; and as soon as we see the Lord Jesus
on the Throne, we know the Holy Spirit has been poured out upon us. The
basis upon which we receive the enduement of the Holy Spirit is not our
praying and fasting and waiting, but the exaltation of Christ. Those who
emphasize tarrying and ... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 5754 | 11 Chapter 1.1 Our Dual Problem: Sins and Sin
We shall take now as a starting-point for our study of the normal Christian
life that great exposition of it which we find in the first eight chapters
of the Epistle to the Romans, and we shall approach our subject from a
practical and experimental point of view. It will be helpful first of all to
point out a natural division of this section of Romans into two, and to
note certain striking differences in the subject-matter of its two parts.
The first ei... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 5754 | 12 chapter 8.2 Faith Is Again The Key
As for forgiveness, so equally for the coming upon us of the Holy Spirit,
the whole question is one of faith. As soon as we see the Lord Jesus on the
Cross, we know our sins are forgiven; and as soon as we see the Lord Jesus
on the Throne, we know the Holy Spirit has been poured out upon us. The
basis upon which we receive the enduement of the Holy Spirit is not our
praying and fasting and waiting, but the exaltation of Christ. Those who
emphasize tarrying and ... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 2456 | 13 我老人家摘录的 DECLARATION一些核心部分：
3. The Common Understanding of Justification
14.The Lutheran churches and the Roman Catholic Church have together
listened to the good news proclaimed in Holy Scripture. This common
listening, together with the theological conversations of recent years, has
led to a shared understanding of justification. This encompasses a consensus
in the basic truths; the differing explications in particular statements
are compatible with it.
15.In faith we together hold the convicti... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 511 | 14 感觉未名的这个首页啊，有阵子吧，媳妇啊婆婆啊什么的矛盾上了好几条；后来吧就是女婿和丈母娘丈母爷的矛盾；结果这两天一看，又是夫妻之间甚至家长和小孩儿之间的。。。
琢磨着婚姻可能不是一个一定美好的东西，而是一个壳子。里头是心里美还是赛蜜糖还是苦砒霜都要看两个人的共同付出，甚至双方的家人。
若是自己连中学生守则，甚至小学生守则都做不到。那又要怎么言传身教地去当个好家长，甚至是能带出遵守那些守则的好孩子的家长呢？
工作讲究有个技能列表，这样才能为雇主创造价值。
家庭的话，感觉也有一些事情需要掌握，才能保证以后能为家庭创造价值嘛~``
可是这个，学校不说爹妈也不教，朋友之间可能还喜欢攀比什么的。结果本来通过社会洗礼、自我反省和不断改进后可以掌握多种技能创造美好生活的同学们，跳级成家，发现麻烦比想象得要多啊~``
技能缺得越多，对般配的要求就越高。比如没有经济能力的，必须要有个有经济能力的才能过下去；但是如果自己有经济能力，那不论对方有没有都可以。感觉缘分很难自己控制的；而技能可以自己提升吧。。。
感觉提升自己也是给彼此多一些长久在一起的机会啊。而且婚姻那么长，难保中间会有一个绝尘而去，离开的时候... 阅读全帖 |
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r****g
发帖数: 511 | 15 这样单发不知道是不是会多些人看到~`` 认识的熟朋友请多海涵了~`` //bow & thanks~`
感觉这个首页啊，有阵子吧，媳妇啊婆婆啊什么的矛盾上了好几条；后来吧就是女婿和
丈母娘丈母爷的矛盾；结果这两天一看，又是夫妻之间甚至家长和小孩儿之间的。。。
琢磨着婚姻可能不是一个一定美好的东西，而是一个壳子。里头是心里美还是赛蜜糖还
是苦砒霜都要看两个人的共同付出，甚至双方的家人。
若是自己连中学生守则，甚至小学生守则都做不到。那又要怎么言传身教地去当个好家
长，甚至是能带出遵守那些守则的好孩子的家长呢？
工作讲究有个技能列表，这样才能为雇主创造价值。
家庭的话，感觉也有一些事情需要掌握，才能保证以后能为家庭创造价值嘛~``
可是这个，学校不说爹妈也不教，朋友之间可能还喜欢攀比什么的。结果本来通过社会
洗礼、自我反省和不断改进后可以掌握多种技能创造美好生活的同学们，跳级成家，发
现麻烦比想象得要多啊~``
技能缺得越多，对般配的要求就越高。比如没有经济能力的，必须要有个有经济能力的
才能过下去；但是如果自己有经济能力，那不论对方有没有都可以。感觉缘分很难自己
控制的；而技能可以自己提... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 2152 | 16 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: erkuai (三天不上bbs,赶得上刘少奇), 信区: Military
标 题: On the Jews and Their Lies, 1543
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Jan 12 23:21:23 2011, 美东)
by Martin Luther (1483-1546)
Translated by Martin H. Bertram
copyright © 1971 Fortress Press & Augsburg Fortress - On the Jews and
Their Lies is from Luther’s Works Volume 47. Augsburg Fortress is the
publishing ministry of the Evangelical Lutheran Church in America.
Funded through sales revenue, Augsburg Fortress is called to provide
produ... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 2152 | 17 by Martin Luther (1483-1546)
Translated by Martin H. Bertram
copyright © 1971 Fortress Press & Augsburg Fortress - On the Jews and
Their Lies is from Luther’s Works Volume 47. Augsburg Fortress is the
publishing ministry of the Evangelical Lutheran Church in America.
Funded through sales revenue, Augsburg Fortress is called to provide
products and services that communicate the Gospel, enhance faith, and
enrich the life of the Christian community from a Lutheran perspective.
Part I
I had mad... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 16217 | 18 forgive her!! forgive her!! forgive her!! forgiver her!! forgive her!!
forgive her!! |
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C****i
发帖数: 1776 | 19 CHAPTER XXI
Of Religious Worship, and the Sabbath Day
I. The light of nature showeth that there is a God, who hath lordship and so
vereignty over all, is good, and doth good unto all, and is therefore to be
feared, loved, praised, called upon, trusted in, and served, with all the he
art, and with all the soul, and with all the might.[404] But the acceptable
way of worshiping the true God is instituted by himself, and so limited by h
is own revealed will, that he may not be worshiped according to... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 18160 | 20 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
Dramaer (不要问我从那里来) 于 (Fri Oct 22 12:02:52 2010, 美东) 提到:
Act 1：1-11 Jesus Taken Up Into Heaven
1In my former book, Theophilus, I wrote about all that Jesus began to do and
to teach 2until the day he was taken up to heaven, after giving
instructions through the Holy Spirit to the apostles he had chosen. 3After
his suffering, he showed himself to these men and gave many convincing
proofs that he was alive. He appeared to them over a period of forty days
... 阅读全帖 |
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y****z
发帖数: 1635 | 21 一个多钟头前左使写了一帖，结果没发出去，555 555
凭记忆重写一篇，再发不出去我就哭S~~~
帮主酌情多发些包子吧！
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周日闺蜜请客English-Style Afternoon High Tea, 怕迟到破例12点前就起来。梳洗好
兴高采烈出门，天上摩肩擦踵的全是左使喜欢的胖云彩，把太阳全挡住了.
虽然没有阳光，最爱在车里听歌儿的左使开在周末不堵车的101上听着star 101.3还是
挺高兴的。
过去这几个月车里收音机一直放在Star 101.3。他们号称more variety from the 90's
till today，其实90%的时间都只播最近最当红的歌儿（格莱美前后几周天天数十遍循
环ADELE, 弄得偶尔搭车的国内盆友以为我买了她的CD）。。。。。。
今儿不知咋了，乡村小美女Taylor Swift 之后冷不丁放了首1993年3月首发的《Come
Undone》。听得左使感觉有点儿错乱，差点儿忘了身在哪年的三月。
十好... 阅读全帖 |
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l****z
发帖数: 29846 | 22 66% Oppose Forgiveness of Student Loans
41% Say Their Views Closer to Tea Party’s Than to Wall Street Protesters’
Voters Like Government Student Loans, Frown on Pell Grants That Don’t Have
To be Repaid
31% Say It’s Too Hard To Get A Student Loan
Tuesday, October 25, 2011
One of the loudest demands by the Occupy Wall Street protesters is for
forgiveness of the nearly $1 trillion worth of student loans, but Americans
strongly oppose forgiving that debt. Even as President Obama talks about
easing t... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 5637 | 23 看到最近杀妻的新闻， 决定继续灌水。。。
很奇妙，今天儿子的学校拿回的这个月的单张是“饶恕”。饶恕和谦卑可能是我们做基
督徒最难的功课了吧。我很喜欢这里的几句话，放在这里和大家共勉吧。
三月份的主题是“Forgiveness”
BEING FORGIVING MEANS: LETTING GO OF THE PAST, HAVING THE POWER TO FORGET.
To understand is to forgive, even oneself. --Alexander Chase
Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong. --Mahatma Gandhi
To carry a grudge is like being stung to death by one bee. -- William H.
Walton
Malice drinks one-half of its own poison. --Marcus Annaeus Seneca
Hate would destroy him who hated. -- L... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 206 | 24 加一首
please forgive me - Bryan Adams
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9EHAo6rEuas
一生痴情，这样的男人不知道现实生活中是否存在
It still feels like our first night together
Feels like the first kiss and
It's gettin' better baby
No one can better this
I'm still hold on and you're still the one
The first time our eyes met it's the same feelin' I get
Only feels much stronger and I wanna love ya longer
You still turn the fire on
So If you're feelin' lonely.. don't
You're the only one I'd ever want
I only wanna make it good
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M*****g
发帖数: 1054 | 25 J.M. Coetzee - "Summertime"
And then there is the matter of his father’s music. After Mussolini
capitulated in 1944 and the Germans were driven north, the Allied troops
occupying Italy, including the South Africans, were allowed to relax briefly
and enjoy themselves. Among the recreations mounted for them were free
performances in the big opera houses. Young men from America, Britain, and
the farflung British dominions across the seas, wholly innocent of Italian
opera, were plunged into the dram... 阅读全帖 |
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D**N
发帖数: 1440 | 26 Forgive for Good, by Fred Luskin, a psychiatrist from Stanford
Forgiveness needs not to be Christian, Buddhism stresses forgiveness and
loving kindness as much. In fact we don't need to be religious to forgive.
For psychological health, we all need to let go of negative feelings or
thoughts generated by mistreatment or abuse. To get rid of these things can
make you live life more fully, and much more happily and peacefully.
http://www.amazon.com/Forgive-Good-Frederic-Luskin/dp/006251721X/ref=pd_ |
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发帖数: 1911 | 27 zt
How much can a Christian sin and still say he or she is a Christian? Every d
ay? Every hour? Constantly and continually? As a regular practice of life? J
ust how much can a Christian sin and still say they're a Christian?
There are two general extremes on this issue of "How much can a Christian si
n?"
VIEW #1 "Christians Can't Sin."
On one extreme are those who argue a real Christian can't sin, because being
delivered from sin is what being a Christian is all about. These folk argue
that if y... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 5754 | 28 Chapter 8.1 The Spirit Outpoured
Let us turn first to Acts chapter 2 verses 32 to 36: ”(32) This Jesus did
God raise up, whereof we all are witnesses. (33) Being therefore by the
right hand of God exalted, and having received of the Father the promise of
the Holy Ghost, he hath poured forth this, which ye see and hear. (34) For
David ascended not into the heavens: but he saith himself, The Lord said
unto my Lord, sit thou on my right hand, (35) Till I make thine enemies the
footstool of thy feet... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 5754 | 29 Chapter 8.1 The Spirit Outpoured
Let us turn first to Acts chapter 2 verses 32 to 36: ”(32) This Jesus did
God raise up, whereof we all are witnesses. (33) Being therefore by the
right hand of God exalted, and having received of the Father the promise of
the Holy Ghost, he hath poured forth this, which ye see and hear. (34) For
David ascended not into the heavens: but he saith himself, The Lord said
unto my Lord, sit thou on my right hand, (35) Till I make thine enemies the
footstool of thy feet... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 3781 | 30 G. Contribution of Passage to Systematic Theology
Romans 4:1-12 teaches us several things. First, the use of Genesis 15:6 to d
emonstrate an essential NT doctrine, i.e., justification by faith apart from
works demonstrates the essential, salvific unity between the testaments. Wh
ile the content of the revelation is in many respects different in the NT, t
he object of faith, namely, God, and the primacy of faith over works, has no
t changed. In Romans 4:1-12, the presupposition is that the essent... 阅读全帖 |
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D*****r
发帖数: 6791 | 31 Letters from the Earth
When the Creator had finished thinking, He said, "I have thought. Behold!"
He lifted His hand, and from it burst a fountain-spray of fire, a million
stupendous suns, which clove the blackness and soared, away and away and
away, diminishing in magnitude and intensity as they pierced the far
frontiers of Space, until at last they were but as diamond nailheads
sparkling under the domed vast roof of the universe.
At the end of an hour the Grand Council was dismissed.
They left... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 1648 | 32 Jerry Hayes写下了Rollin' With the Flow
他的妻子June Hayes在九年前，他刚过世时在youtube上的留言。
（https://www.youtube.com/watch?&v=ZCHkeNqbBv8）
Thanks for mentioning that the writer was Jerry Hayes. Jerry and I were
married for 25 years (he died in January of 2007). Your Arkansas shots also
held more meaning to me because Jerry was born and raised in Springdale, AR
., then lived most of his adult life here in Memphis.
Jerry only had one problem with Charlie's recording. The end of the line
that begins 'I've got a l... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 5274 | 33 原帖地址 http://bbs.tianya.cn/post-free-464333-1.shtml
以下为作者第一次发言，请注意诡异的倒数第二段！（作者是谁？）
楼主：木虚地 时间：2006-01-13 23:34:00
孙维沉默了十年,隐忍了十年,也痛苦了十年,为什么现在突然发表声明? 网友说了,是网
络的力量;有的说,是天涯的影响;还有的说了,她要回国,要出来活动.这些都是天真的狗
屁话.
有一个网友说了,申明都是说给她的新婚丈夫听的.该网友眼光很毒,猜透了人心.
我读了孙的声明,象很多网友一样,十分震撼,十分佩服.其行文之缜密,语气之冷静,
用词之精准,反击之有力,是十年难得一见的好文,不仅反映了孙具有人民日报评论员的
写作修养,更反映了她具有常人难见的高度智慧和极为特殊的心理素质.在这一点上,我
从心底佩服她.
她是一个不同寻常的人.这样的一个案件,手段如此诡密,犯罪地点如此之显赫,被害
人如此之集美貌智慧于一身,家庭背景如此之离奇,其近况如此之惨烈,每每听起,都让人
不寒而栗,可称百年难见之奇案了.
孙维头顶着这样一个案件,在黑暗中度过了十年,如果她是凶手的话,漫漫长夜,最... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 204 | 36 嗯。 强赞LZ和LS。
http://www.mitbbs.com/article_t/Military/45066527.html
参见我们的道义：
3. 慈故能勇。仁，勇，恕，友，悌。 重感恩，轻怨恨。
Our doctrines:
Love Begins Courage: we derive Courage from Love and our Faith. we
Forgive and hold no grudges against all unwitting and reversible
transgressions. we Forgive and hold no permanent grudges against our
families and Faith brothers/sisters.
－－－－－－－－－－具体演绎－－－－－－－－－－－－
36. 我们道社出什么丑闻怎么办？
如果真的有人干坏事，华人里不乏告密。 有告密者其实是好事，是监督。 道社组织应
该transparent。 If you don't want the whole parish... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 18403 | 39 【 以下文字转载自 SanDiego 讨论区 】
发信人: onetiemyshoe (onetiemyshoe), 信区: SanDiego
标 题: 中道教成立声明＋QA：草稿（v5.0） (转载)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Feb 12 10:23:34 2016, 美东)
发信人: leetforever (53), 信区: Military
标 题: 中道教成立声明＋QA：草稿（v5.0）
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Jan 8 19:04:34 2016, 美东)
前言： 此稿是响应pantheism（CPT兄），孔圣兄号召，以道家为基础，融合孔／墨／
基督教精神，为北美华裔量身制作的宗教。 先暂名为“新道教”，后来发现有豆瓣
group,因此改名
为“中道教”。
http://www.douban.com/group/topic/77156232/
孔圣兄创立NJ 孔圣会，欢迎大家访问网址：
http://confuciansociety.org
此稿有CPT兄，Cai兄, 孔圣兄很多贡献,特别是简史和QA。 鸣谢。还要感谢土著人兄的
插... 阅读全帖 |
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l****z
发帖数: 29846 | 40 by wheatington
For now, the alleged motive remains unclear, so said an anonymous someone
from the Boston Police.
Mr or Ms Anonymous was referring to a reason that would cause Muslims to
blow up kafirs. Even ignoring the odd word alleged, the statement shows a
total disconnect with the reality and teachings of Mohamed. Muslims are
commanded to kill kafirs, or to subjugate them to Muslim rule. Terror
attacks can accomplish both. Even now CAIR is asking for increased
protection of Muslims from th... 阅读全帖 |
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B*******c
发帖数: 5056 | 41 那美国人为什么还要盖监狱？为什么不forgive他们？
美国人可以forgive拉登吗？
自己的兄弟姐妹，特朗普已经悔过了，基督徒应该会原谅。基督徒最为提倡的一点就是
forgive，因为只有forgiveness 才能真正free自己。 |
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y*******o
发帖数: 6632 | 42 行会里面７０多个人，已经能统一吗？还有infant呢，哈哈
不统一才是对的，统一了就是一言堂，就中了书记的担心
我个人认为，和行会无关，
如果ghost，小凡，到任何人，承担了责任，并且改过自新，接受大家的监督，我们都
应该给机会，
佛曰放下屠刀，立地成佛
儒家说，朝闻道，夕死可矣
Matthew 6:14-15 NIV
For if you forgive men when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will
also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their sins, your Father will
not forgive your sins.
尼采说宽容是强者的权利。
当你已经站在道德制高点的时候，如果你是强者，应该选择的是宽容
就连薄熙来都只有15年，难道这些evil都要判死刑，无期？
我不觉得kinson的话有任何错误，again，这只代表我自己
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发帖数: 44 | 43 forgive bah. Forgive doesn't mean what they did was/is right. But to
acknowledge that we are all human being with sins. Ourselves might make the
same mistake if we grow up in their environment. we all need forgiveness.
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h*******a
发帖数: 1372 | 44 第二十五天
Love Dare - Day 25
If there is anything you haven’t forgiven in your spouse, forgive it today.
如果还有任何事情你还不曾原谅你的配偶，请在今天原谅他/她。
** 相关圣经启示
2Co 2:10 If you forgive anyone, I also forgive him. And what I have forgiven
–if there was anything to forgive–I have forgiven in the sight of Christ
for your sake,
歌林多后书 2:10 你们赦免谁、我也赦免谁、我若有所赦免的、是在基督面前为你们赦
免的。 |
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G**T
发帖数: 2610 | 46 嗯， 我今天心情好，再来灌一壶，试图回答你的问题 －－ 对了，那些不愤气的id--
波斯顿屌丝，还有tiki： 我就是喜欢给人出主意，受不了？ 生气去吧！ －－ 好，
言归正传，see inline...AND after:
Yes, it is ok! Don't torture yourself.
Yes, it is ok! as long as you consider yourself weak and worthless, i.e. a
victim who never grew up.
Yes, it is ok! as long as you never need to grow up, to become yourself --
you can always feel you are just a part of them -- an afterthought by them,
instead of becoming yourself.
are worse?
Yes, of course you can, because they probably are inde... 阅读全帖 |
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G**T
发帖数: 2610 | 47 嗯， 我今天心情好，再来灌一壶，试图回答你的问题 －－ 对了，那些不愤气的id--
波斯顿屌丝，还有tiki： 我就是喜欢给人出主意，受不了？ 生气去吧！ －－ 好，
言归正传，see inline...AND after:
Yes, it is ok! Don't torture yourself.
Yes, it is ok! as long as you consider yourself weak and worthless, i.e. a
victim who never grew up.
Yes, it is ok! as long as you never need to grow up, to become yourself --
you can always feel you are just a part of them -- an afterthought by them,
instead of becoming yourself.
are worse?
Yes, of course you can, because they probably are inde... 阅读全帖 |
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G**T
发帖数: 2610 | 48 赞一个。more comments inline below:
这个是很不容易的，不是普通人能干的事儿 －－ 能做到这一点的，其实已经很不普通
了。
：不要成为积怨的奴隶，正是最重要的“技术活”。
这句说得太好了。 奴隶是不自知地就一直作奴隶,习惯了。
：我想这样是你前面很多is that ok的问题的的答案，
她是奴隶，所以不懂得现实和自己，看不懂答案。
：关于父母的有些东西，完全ok, 不必强撑，不必否认，是怎样就怎样。
：但是关于内心的原谅，“it is ok not to forgive..." 不forgive不是你的错，
：但是带着积怨的枷锁，受苦的也是你。
有人注意到这个subtlety了吗？ －－ 不forgive不是你的错！！！！但不forgive，
受苦的也是你！ 赞.
：但凡有一天你不在乎了，你能在时间等良药的医治下，在自己的努力下，
：真的跳出积怨的框框，打破了这个枷锁，受益的还是你。
（想象交响乐的乐章） 反复一遍 －－ 因为你不懂
：积怨就好像有个瘤子，不想摘也ok,不想摘不是你的错，
反复两遍 －－ 你还不懂
： 但如果能摘掉这个瘤子，你的生活会好很... 阅读全帖 |
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