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p**********e
发帖数: 703
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你的腿子们不是一般的腿子.....
如果你还没信主, 读读下面这句...如果已跟了主, 把它背下来...
14 For if you forgive others their trespasser, your heavenly Father will
also forgive you, 15 but if you do not forgive others their trespasses,
neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.
Matthew 6:14-15
E*****m
发帖数: 25615
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Let me understand this a bit more.
You fully understand the importance of forgiveness, but
you need to believe in a magical being for you to actually
forgive (or to be forgiven). Do I understand you right?
If so, why? why not just forgive? and to seek forgiveness from
those whom you have wronged? Sure, it's hard. Why do you think
believe a god would make it easier?
You're very honest about why you want to pick up a faith. It's
not that you care about virgin birth or eternal life. You're
just ... 阅读全帖
t*******y
发帖数: 11968
3
来自主题: NewYork版 - Why Chinese Girlfriends Are Superior
http://shanghaishiok.com/2011/01/14/why-chinese-girlfriends-are
By Shanghai Shiok!
A lot of foreign girlfriends I meet wonder how Chinese girlfriends have such
doting boyfriends. They wonder about the dynamics of these relationships
that produce boyfriends who are attentive, adoring, and even willing to do
all household chores. Often, these foreign girlfriends wonder whether they
will be able to have such boyfriends too. Well, I can tell you that anyone
can be a Chinese girlfriend, if you are ab... 阅读全帖
o**********e
发帖数: 18403
4
【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: leetforever (53), 信区: Military
标 题: 中道教成立声明+QA:草稿(v5.0)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Jan 8 19:04:34 2016, 美东)
前言: 此稿是响应pantheism(CPT兄),孔圣兄号召,以道家为基础,融合孔/墨/
基督教精神,为北美华裔量身制作的宗教。 先暂名为“新道教”,后来发现有豆瓣
group,因此改名
为“中道教”。
http://www.douban.com/group/topic/77156232/
孔圣兄创立NJ 孔圣会,欢迎大家访问网址:
http://confuciansociety.org
此稿有CPT兄,Cai兄, 孔圣兄很多贡献,特别是简史和QA。 鸣谢。还要感谢土著人兄的
插科打诨
,和气兄及几位买买提大牛的热心鼓励。
http://www.mitbbs.com/article_t/Military/45104923.html
请大家随便转发。 如果认为以下理念可以接受,请自主创立道社(教会);无需申请
许可,可以运... 阅读全帖
o**********e
发帖数: 18403
5
【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: leetforever (53), 信区: Military
标 题: 中道教成立声明+QA:草稿(v5.0)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Jan 8 19:04:34 2016, 美东)
前言: 此稿是响应pantheism(CPT兄),孔圣兄号召,以道家为基础,融合孔/墨/
基督教精神,为北美华裔量身制作的宗教。 先暂名为“新道教”,后来发现有豆瓣
group,因此改名
为“中道教”。
http://www.douban.com/group/topic/77156232/
孔圣兄创立NJ 孔圣会,欢迎大家访问网址:
http://confuciansociety.org
此稿有CPT兄,Cai兄, 孔圣兄很多贡献,特别是简史和QA。 鸣谢。还要感谢土著人兄的
插科打诨
,和气兄及几位买买提大牛的热心鼓励。
http://www.mitbbs.com/article_t/Military/45104923.html
请大家随便转发。 如果认为以下理念可以接受,请自主创立道社(教会);无需申请
许可,可以运... 阅读全帖
a*******d
发帖数: 4846
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来自主题: SanFrancisco版 - 驾照可能不用带了.
Liberals forgive people ILLEGALLY cross boundary and then they have to
forgive people ILLEGALLY work here without permit, now they also want to
forgive people ILLEGALLY driving without license (and no insurance for sure).
Such forgiveness list can go on and on, I don't know how where this ends.
LIBERALS == pro ILLEGAL

rule
l*********r
发帖数: 204
7
来自主题: SanFrancisco版 - 怎样解决华人男孩的困境? (转载)
http://www.mitbbs.com/article_t/Military/45078731.html
这个职场案例其实是经典:
http://www.mitbbs.com/article_t/Military/45078731.html
参见我们的道义:
3. 慈故能勇。仁,勇,恕,友,悌。 重感恩,轻怨恨。
Our doctrines:
Love Begins Courage: we derive Courage from Love and our Faith. we
Forgive and hold no grudges against all unwitting and reversible
transgressions. we Forgive and hold no permanent grudges against our
families and Faith brothers/sisters.
----------具体演绎------------
36. 我们道社出什么丑闻怎么办?
如果真的有人干坏事,华人里不乏告密。 有告密者其实是好事,是监督... 阅读全帖
o**********e
发帖数: 18403
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【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: leetforever (53), 信区: Military
标 题: 中道教成立声明+QA:草稿(v5.0)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Jan 8 19:04:34 2016, 美东)
前言: 此稿是响应pantheism(CPT兄),孔圣兄号召,以道家为基础,融合孔/墨/
基督教精神,为北美华裔量身制作的宗教。 先暂名为“新道教”,后来发现有豆瓣
group,因此改名
为“中道教”。
http://www.douban.com/group/topic/77156232/
孔圣兄创立NJ 孔圣会,欢迎大家访问网址:
http://confuciansociety.org
此稿有CPT兄,Cai兄, 孔圣兄很多贡献,特别是简史和QA。 鸣谢。还要感谢土著人兄的
插科打诨
,和气兄及几位买买提大牛的热心鼓励。
http://www.mitbbs.com/article_t/Military/45104923.html
请大家随便转发。 如果认为以下理念可以接受,请自主创立道社(教会);无需申请
许可,可以运... 阅读全帖
o**********e
发帖数: 18403
9
【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: leetforever (53), 信区: Military
标 题: 中道教成立声明+QA:草稿(v5.0)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Jan 8 19:04:34 2016, 美东)
前言: 此稿是响应pantheism(CPT兄),孔圣兄号召,以道家为基础,融合孔/墨/
基督教精神,为北美华裔量身制作的宗教。 先暂名为“新道教”,后来发现有豆瓣
group,因此改名
为“中道教”。
http://www.douban.com/group/topic/77156232/
孔圣兄创立NJ 孔圣会,欢迎大家访问网址:
http://confuciansociety.org
此稿有CPT兄,Cai兄, 孔圣兄很多贡献,特别是简史和QA。 鸣谢。还要感谢土著人兄的
插科打诨
,和气兄及几位买买提大牛的热心鼓励。
http://www.mitbbs.com/article_t/Military/45104923.html
请大家随便转发。 如果认为以下理念可以接受,请自主创立道社(教会);无需申请
许可,可以运... 阅读全帖
n**0
发帖数: 642
10
来自主题: Pingpong版 - 圣经中最打动我的两段话
我不是无神论者,也不是基督徒,读书时在教会的Bible study班上呆/混了几年,没有
受过洗,因为太多的疑问和现实生活无法跨越信仰这一步。但圣经中有两段话给我影响
较深。
十几年前,教会组织我们一帮国际学生去Smoky Mountain 郊游,中间带大家读圣经,
其中一段是:
=========================================
Love is patient,
love is kind.
It does not envy, it does not boast,
it is not proud
It is not rude, it is not self-seeking,
it is not easily angered,
it keeps no record of wrongs.
Love does not delight in evil,
but rejoices with the truth.
It always protects, always trusts,
always hopes, always perseveres.
Love neve... 阅读全帖
b*********s
发帖数: 6757
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来自主题: Tennis版 - 还是说拍子吧
转俱乐部的一帖:
网球包被盗,5个拍子没了。看来老天爷要我换拍子了。
__________________________________________
top choice:
1. Wilson 6.1 18x20
2. Head Youtek Graphene Speed Pro
3. Blade 98 18 x 20; Pacific X Force Pro 16x20
still want try
1. blade 98 16x19 with lead tape
___________________________________________
Head Youtek Graphene Speed Pro
-反手超好用, 特别是drive. DTL drive never felt this good...
-正手有些不适应,球容易下网, 也不是那么容易打深 (可能是18x20关系);感觉
full swing 时, 在击球前会忽然慢下来,但rotate手腕时accelerate 很快;不是那
么forgiving, 如果racquet head 没有drop, 球容易下... 阅读全帖
j***b
发帖数: 5901
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Matthew Shepard's clearly said they will never forgive the murderer. Why you
guy's keep mentioning "forgive".
"Forgiving" someone who intentionally inflicted painful death on your son is
unimaginable. It is their choice that they should suffer alive rather than
quick death. It's not forgiveness.
n**********8
发帖数: 389
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The victim family will ask: "Why don't you shut up and forgive us wanting
the murderer die?". How do you answer that irony? Why don't you lend your "
noble" forgiveness to the victim family in case they can not reach your "
nobleness", lz?
Forgiveness is enjoyable if you follow it in your heart. If you want to
promote it to others, you need to apply it equally to everyone, everywhere,
everyday. It is never appropriate to demand it from a selective (i.e. the
victim) group as a third person. If so... 阅读全帖
y****a
发帖数: 212
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1st, this is common, you just need more time to re-adjust your relationship.
I think you two can go back to those honey days. Your husband is a normal
person, if his heart is back, you should forgive him. Forgiveness is a
choice, not a feeling. E.g. You feel not want to work today, but you choose
to work. Same thing. Every time you think you cannot forgive, say that you
choose to forgive because you want a better life.
2nd, you have a son, it's not his son, but your(pl) son. Your son deserves a
... 阅读全帖
p*e
发帖数: 6785
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【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: leetforever (53), 信区: Military
标 题: 中道教成立声明+QA:草稿(v5.0)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Jan 8 19:04:34 2016, 美东)
前言: 此稿是响应pantheism(CPT兄),孔圣兄号召,以道家为基础,融合孔/墨/
基督教精神,为北美华裔量身制作的宗教。 先暂名为“新道教”,后来发现有豆瓣
group,因此改名
为“中道教”。
http://www.douban.com/group/topic/77156232/
孔圣兄创立NJ 孔圣会,欢迎大家访问网址:
http://confuciansociety.org
此稿有CPT兄,Cai兄, 孔圣兄很多贡献,特别是简史和QA。 鸣谢。还要感谢土著人兄的
插科打诨
,和气兄及几位买买提大牛的热心鼓励。
http://www.mitbbs.com/article_t/Military/45104923.html
请大家随便转发。 如果认为以下理念可以接受,请自主创立道社(教会);无需申请
许可,可以运... 阅读全帖
b**l
发帖数: 63
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来自主题: Memory版 - 怀旧
To err is human, to forgive is divine.
Whoever said that, be it God or Shakespear, starts a good arguement.
Somehow, when I really start to listen to my heart, I realized the most needed
forgiveness from me is for myself and when we forgive others, we actually take
a huge burden off our shoulders.
Then we return to that peaceful, pure self.
Sometimes, we never really forgive, we being human, just forget.
He told me, I am not suggesting you to bear what you can't, but most of the
time, we pay fo
s**i
发帖数: 4448
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what you are saying is to let go and forget.
It's not about forgiveness.
Forgiveness is a lot harder than you think.
To err is human, to forgive, divine.
When the wound is still open and bleeding, when repressed anger has not
dissipated, there is no true forgiveness.
Time can heal, wounds heal and anger fades.
What helps the most is the wrong doer's sincere repentance and apology.That
would help a lot for the victim to heal and move on.
This is also an important thing for a healthy relationship.... 阅读全帖
b******s
发帖数: 5365
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What I am saying is let go and free herself, not forget.
Yes, the other person's apology is helpful, but do not count on that for her
recovery-----that is holding herself hostage on other people's behavior,
which she has no control whatsoever.
Louise Hay has a good point about forgiveness in her book " You Can Do It
":
"No matter how justified you feel you are, no matter what " they " did, if
you insist on holding on tho the past, then you will never be free. ....
When you blame another, yo... 阅读全帖
d******o
发帖数: 71
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来自主题: PsychoAnalysis版 - 第三步:仇恨与原谅(刘译) (转载)
真要做到显然自我调整是没有用的。因为不知道什么可以原谅什么不可以。
加上古语云“君子报仇, 十年。。。”"杀。。。之仇“
“民族的仇恨。。。”
你肯定会给搞糊涂,最后还是要给气死。
:发信人: DPSN (Dreamer), 信区: PsychoAnalysis
标 题: Re: 第三步:仇恨与原谅(刘译) (转载)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Aug 14 14:17:36 2007)
Forgive for Good, by Fred Luskin, a psychiatrist from Stanford
Forgiveness needs not to be Christian, Buddhism stresses forgiveness and
loving kindness as much. In fact we don't need to be religious to forgive.
For psychological health, we all need to let go of negative feelings or
thoughts genera
C****i
发帖数: 1776
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CHAPTER XV
Of Repentance unto Life
I. Repentance unto life is an evangelical grace,[292] the doctrine whereof i
s to be preached by every minister of the gospel, as well as that of faith i
n Christ.[293]
II. By it, a sinner, out of the sight and sense not only of the danger, but
also of the filthiness and odiousness of his sins, as contrary to the holy n
ature, and righteous law of God; and upon the apprehension of his mercy in C
hrist to such as are penitent, so grieves for, and hates his sins,... 阅读全帖
l**********t
发帖数: 5754
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chapter 9.5 I Thank God!
Romans 6 deals with “the body of sin”, Romans 7 with “the body of this
death” (6:6; 7:24). In chapter 6 the whole question before us is sin; in
chapter 7 the whole question before us is death. What is the difference
between the body of sin and the body of death? In regard to sin (that is, to
whatever displeases God) I have a body of sin—a body, that is to say,
which is actively engaged in sin. But in regard to the Law of God (that is,
to that which expresses the will of ... 阅读全帖
l**********t
发帖数: 5754
22
chapter 9.5 I Thank God!
Romans 6 deals with “the body of sin”, Romans 7 with “the body of this
death” (6:6; 7:24). In chapter 6 the whole question before us is sin; in
chapter 7 the whole question before us is death. What is the difference
between the body of sin and the body of death? In regard to sin (that is, to
whatever displeases God) I have a body of sin—a body, that is to say,
which is actively engaged in sin. But in regard to the Law of God (that is,
to that which expresses the will of ... 阅读全帖
C*****e
发帖数: 367
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来自主题: TrustInJesus版 - Glossary to the Westminster Confession
【 以下文字转载自 Church 俱乐部 】
发信人: CCBible (神同在圣经), 信区: Church
标 题: Glossary to the Westminster Confession
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Apr 24 21:16:33 2012, 美东)
Glossary to the Westminster Confession
Explanations of all archaic and uncommon words, usages, and expressions, in
the order in which they occur.
Title Confession. n. Public statement of religious beliefs.
1.1 Providence. n. Divine care. Manifest. v. Show. Are they. idiom. T
hey are. Unto. prep. With regard to. Sundry. adj. Separate. D... 阅读全帖
l**********t
发帖数: 5754
24
excerpt from J.Scott's "The Message of Acts":
I have myself found it an aid to faithfulness to express the apostles’
message in the following framework:
First, the gospel events, namely the death and resurrection of Jesus. It is
true that Peter referred to Jesus’
life and ministry (22) and went on to his exaltation (33), and elsewhere to
his return as judge. The apostles felt
free to rehearse his whole saving career. Yet they concentrated on the cross
and the resurrection (23–24),
both as histor... 阅读全帖
l*****a
发帖数: 38403
25
来自主题: TrustInJesus版 - lord's prayer比较
古埃及的一篇赞美/祈祷
O behold with thine eye His plans.
Devote thyself to adore His name.
It is He who giveth souls to millions of forms,
and He magnifieth whosoever magnifieth him.
Now the God of this earth
is the sun who is the ruler of the horizon,
[and] his similitudes are
upon earth is given incense with their food offerings to these daily.
If she (i.e., thy mother) raiseth her hands to God,
he will hear her prayers [and rebuke thee].
Give thyself to God,
keep thou thyself daily for God;
and let to-... 阅读全帖
c******i
发帖数: 4091
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来自主题: TrustInJesus版 - 蒙头抹油割包皮是不是很没人性?
http://www.circumcision.org/confessions.htm
Confessions of a Circumcised Man
"This is winter wheat we’re sowing, and other hands will harvest."
Elizabeth Cady Stanton, American Universal Suffrage Leader
For as long as I can remember, I’ve loved sunsets and impressionist oil
paintings. The subtle interplay of color and light has always struck me as
beautiful, even sublime. I couldn’t imagine anything being more lovely.
So much so, that I was dumbstruck to learn at the age of 18 that I was color
b... 阅读全帖
z********o
发帖数: 18304
27
来自主题: TrustInJesus版 - Healing - From God or Medicine? (转载)
版上有同学转了个新闻:一对基督徒夫妇,孩子生病了,不送孩子看医生,两个孩子都
不幸亡故。
下面是那对基督徒夫妇的教会的一篇布道:
http://www.fcgchurch.org/Messages/Pages/Healing%20-%20from%20Go
Healing - From God or Medicine?
Since God cannot change; Jesus is the same; and the Holy Spirit
is with us, then the same healing all through the Bible, is the healing from
God anyone can receive who believes. The healing ministry of Jesus is all
through the New Testament, and since He is Hebrews 13:8 “the same yesterday
, and to day, and for ever,” then w... 阅读全帖
r**t
发帖数: 115
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来自主题: TrustInJesus版 - 读完《天主教教理纲要》
Correct. Your understanding is very close to Church teaching.
Yes. Only God can forgive Sin. When we talk about Priest forgive Sin, the
Priest is there in the person of Christ (in persona Christi). It's Christ
forgive the sin. Not the Priest happen to be there.
Read the whole chapter of John 20. You will find that the raisen Jesus gave
the Apostolic Church authority to forgive sin and go out.
Why?
The same answer I gave you before. We are not God. We any have theories (
Theology). But the most ... 阅读全帖
s********n
发帖数: 1231
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第二部分:关于“柴远事件”的调查报告
(本报告包括对四项指控的调查)
一、万润南、苏晓康证明,1989年在巴黎,舞蹈演员朱女士曾指控远志明对其性侵
1. 2015年2月12日,万润南先生提供给调查委员会的证言:
“1989年七、八月间,许多流亡者暂时聚居在巴黎南郊一个叫玛西(Massy)的难民营
。期间,有一位从上海来的舞蹈演员朱XX,曾经指控远志明对其性侵犯。当时我忙于民
阵的筹备工作,就委托苏晓康去调查、了解、处理这件事情。苏晓康把这件事情大而化
之、不了了之了。朱因此很失望,不再和大家来往了。记得有一家香港刊物曾经披露过
这件事情,但没有点名。”
2. 2015年2月13日,苏晓康先生提供给调查委员会的证言。
以下内容为苏晓康先生叙述他在2014年6月30日与柴玲在电话中的谈话内容:
我当时向柴玲陈述1989-1990年期间(准确日期完全想不起来了)发生在巴黎的某女士
指控远志明强奸她的事件,讲了几个要点:
1、我完全不认识这位女士,只在最初到巴黎时,在难民营见过她;也只接触过一次,
就是我和远志明买了牛仔裤,太长,远志明请她帮我们改一改。我至今只记得她好像姓
朱,而且不清楚她流... 阅读全帖
l****i
发帖数: 184
30
【 以下文字转载自 Dreamer 讨论区 】
发信人: Dreamer (不要问我从哪里来), 信区: Dreamer
标 题: 柴玲被远志明强奸案中最不要脸的要算是周爱玲牧师
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Mar 10 23:20:57 2015, 美东)
看了caochangqing.com 的十八位牧师的调查报告,还有整个事情的经过,
我觉得周爱玲牧师是整个事件中最卑鄙的女畜牲。
不但偏袒罪犯,还羞辱受害人,借的几十万贷款也公然不还,整个一个女流氓。
看的人气愤填膺。
真想当面给给这个女畜牲的一记最响亮的耳光
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整个事件经过。
http://caochangqing.com/big5/newsdisp.php?News_ID=3685
十八位令人尊敬的牧师的调查报告,关于远志明两次强奸和诱奸未遂
18位華人教會牧者連署發佈《關于“柴遠事件”的調查報告》
http://caochangqing.com/big5/newsdis... 阅读全帖
T*******y
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来自主题: Wisdom版 - 转: 因果可转变
Here's one more example from a book. :-)
“只有恨的本身才是毁灭者”
Forgiving does not need the other person's apology. Both forgiving and
apologizing are liberating, and they benefit the people who forgive and
apologize, respectively, but not for the other person's sake.
You don't need to know my experience or others' experience to know whether
it's true. Just try to remember how you feel when you forgive or apologize.
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http://www.99csw.com/bo... 阅读全帖
J******s
发帖数: 7538
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来自主题: Wisdom版 - How To Love Yourself In 17 Ways
http://www.abundancetapestry.com/how-to-love-yourself-in-17-way
I have compiled a list on “how to love yourself” for readers who are
facing difficulty knowing what to do in embracing themselves. When I first
began to be aware that I need to love myself first prior to developing any
meaningful relationships with others, I realized that I did not know where
to start.
This was a surprise to me then as I would have thought I’d be an expert on
love and relationships by then. After all, as I recalled,... 阅读全帖
Y**u
发帖数: 5466
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来自主题: Wisdom版 - [合集] 字如其人的苦恼
☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
ACCCA (人之初,性本善) 于 (Sun Mar 11 21:45:39 2012, 美东) 提到:
我自三岁患上慢性关节炎,带来的问题之一是所有需要手指小关节灵活性的活儿我都做
不好,例如写字、针线活等。几十岁的人,写出的字比小学生的还难看。不要说间架结
构,就连基本的横平竖直都做不到。小时候语文考试的作文,我常常因为字迹不工整失
分。如果按照“字如其人”的标准,或者让笔迹学家依我的笔迹分析性格,我恐怕就一
无是处了。幸好电脑时代让我轻松不少,基本不用手写字了,大多时候只需要签名时动
下手。即便是小小的签名,对我也是不小的困扰。就算是签购物单据这件小事,我也能
明显感觉到,签名时内心的虚弱和自卑,虽然还不能上升到签名恐惧症的程度,但也去
之不远。我自己很相信字如其人的古训,正因为如此,我才深怕别人用同样的标准来衡
量我,特别是当彼此并不熟悉,不能客观全面地认识一个人的时候。我希望能解决问题
,但首先需要清楚地面对问题。发帖在这里,是想请大家分析一下我问题的症结所在,
以及如何放下的意见。谢谢... 阅读全帖
l****i
发帖数: 184
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【 以下文字转载自 Dreamer 讨论区 】
发信人: Dreamer (不要问我从哪里来), 信区: Dreamer
标 题: 柴玲被远志明强奸案中最不要脸的要算是周爱玲牧师
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Mar 10 23:20:57 2015, 美东)
看了caochangqing.com 的十八位牧师的调查报告,还有整个事情的经过,
我觉得周爱玲牧师是整个事件中最卑鄙的女畜牲。
不但偏袒罪犯,还羞辱受害人,借的几十万贷款也公然不还,整个一个女流氓。
看的人气愤填膺。
真想当面给给这个女畜牲的一记最响亮的耳光
========================================================================
整个事件经过。
http://caochangqing.com/big5/newsdisp.php?News_ID=3685
十八位令人尊敬的牧师的调查报告,关于远志明两次强奸和诱奸未遂
18位華人教會牧者連署發佈《關于“柴遠事件”的調查報告》
http://caochangqing.com/big5/newsdis... 阅读全帖
q****u
发帖数: 1421
35
来自主题: _PathOfQingWu版 - How To Love Yourself In 17 Ways
【 以下文字转载自 Wisdom 讨论区 】
发信人: JeanIris (Iris), 信区: Wisdom
标 题: How To Love Yourself In 17 Ways
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sun Jan 22 12:40:42 2012, 美东)
http://www.abundancetapestry.com/how-to-love-yourself-in-17-way
I have compiled a list on “how to love yourself” for readers who are
facing difficulty knowing what to do in embracing themselves. When I first
began to be aware that I need to love myself first prior to developing any
meaningful relationships with others, I realized that I did not know where
to... 阅读全帖
y***y
发帖数: 4957
36
来自主题: _BibleStudy版 - 我很无奈
Comfort MM!
This "Christian" lady is too bad. Not only did she sin against God, she also
broke the law. I would not be friend with her any more because her
character (not personality) doesn't meet my basic standard.
Forgiving doesnt mean we are stupid. You can forgive her, at the same time,
know clearly that she is not a person you respect and want to be friend with.

forgiving去了哪里?我还是需要什么事情都forgiving么? 那么,我是不是永远都不
会吸取教训,永远
l*******e
发帖数: 3584
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来自主题: _BibleStudy版 - 为什么我的内心不能原谅别人
I have the same problem too.
Even I still can not forgive somebody, sometimes even hate the way they
trade me. But one message I got in the Bible study really give me healing.
It is ourselves been hurt during the condition we can not forgive others.
So try to forgive others is not only because God forgive us but also God
find a way to comfort us.
n**e
发帖数: 2026
38
文件来源:http://www.sfgate.com/health/article/Historian-Iris-Chang-won-many-battles-The-war-2679354.php
Ultimately, three notes were found, all dated Monday, Nov. 8, 2004. The
first was short, titled "Statement of Iris Chang." It read: "I promise to
get up and get out of the house every morning. I will stop by to visit my
parents then go for a long walk. I will follow the doctor's orders for
medications. I promise not to hurt myself. I promise not to visit Web sites
that talk about suicide."
Then sh... 阅读全帖
p********1
发帖数: 2785
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来自主题: Military版 - ZT: I don't believe her story
这是Amazon上Lin的评论。存在这里做个纪念:
As a Chinese, I lived through that period of time in China. I have similar
family and educational background as hers and suffered during Culture
Revolution as a child. I think her experiences in China mostly, if not all,
are fabricated, imagined, overly exaggerated or deliberately miss leading.
If one just read the media reports about her book, he/she may think that
media might just pick the sensational parts of the book and exaggerated a
little bit to help her to sell ... 阅读全帖
u******o
发帖数: 483
40
评论部分也是以日狗和支持日狗的居多。
Japanese war crimes: I’m sorry?
http://rt.com/op-edge/japan-war-crimes-867/
China and South Korea are very angry with Japanese Prime Minister Shinzo Abe
because he visited the Yosukuni Shrine in Tokyo honoring some 2.5 million
Japanese – both military and civilian – who died in war.
Many are irate with Mr Abe because, amongst those honored in the 19th
Century Yosukuni Shrine, are Japanese World War II heroes, branded as “war
criminals” by US occupation forces. The list numbers... 阅读全帖
l*******1
发帖数: 16217
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来自主题: Military版 - 据说是中世纪的一个真事
饶恕她吧!! 饶恕她吧!! 饶恕她吧!!
这个明显不如英文两个单词排山倒海的节奏韵律感强,更加铿镪有力
forgive her!!forgive her!! forgive her!!
m*****t
发帖数: 16663
42
虽然他是gay. 王尔德真是太牛逼和太逗逼了。
我认为,上帝造人有点过高估计了自己的能力。
(I think that God, in creating man, somewhat overestimated his ability.)
永远原谅敌人,没有什么能比这个让他们更恼火。
(Always forgive your enemies; nothing annoys them so much.)
我什么都能抗拒,除了诱惑。
(I can resist everything except temptation.)
为了赢回我的青春,我什么都愿意做,除了锻炼、早起、做个对社会有用的人。
(To win back my youth, there is nothing I wouldn't do - except take
exercise, get up early, or be a useful member of the community.)
年轻的时候,我以为钱是人生最重要的,现在我老了,我懂了,确实如此。
(When I was young I thought that mon... 阅读全帖
m******n
发帖数: 6327
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来自主题: RuralChina版 - 都讲罚单,我也来
我被抓多次的实战经验,
每次说sorry please forgive me都减了,
一次改成不系安全带(NY), 一次改成不遵守交通管制(PA, 还把我说的sorry,
please forgive me也写到罚单上了)
一次说的, sorry, could you forgive me, 警官竟然说 probably (PA)
这都是超得很利害, 自己知道有错的,
其他几次不服气(NY 1, OH 1, PA 2), 最后都全额交叫罚款,
PA有次上了庭也没成.
B*Q
发帖数: 25729
44
来自主题: USANews版 - GOP 后来居上,确实比DEM强
2000-2009 12:3
2010-2017 8:3
DEM完败!
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_federal_political_sex_scandals_in_the_
United_States
2000–2009[edit]
Gary Condit, Representative (D-CA): his affair with 23-year-old intern
Chandra Levy was exposed after Levy disappeared. Her body was found a year
later and in 2008, an illegal immigrant with no relation to Condit was
charged with her murder.[90] Condit had often demanded that Bill Clinton "
come clean" about his affair with Monica Lewinsky. (2001)[9... 阅读全帖
s*******7
发帖数: 2880
45
很好的介绍,多谢
喜欢《秘密》
要改变别人,你必须先改变自已。就有点像甘地说的Be the change you want to see
in the world
读过Ira Byock的书《The Four Things that Matter Most》
“The Four Things”:
Please forgive me.
I forgive you.
Thank you.
I love you.
lz可以试着先调整一下自己的心态,积极的心平气和的和老公交流一下,在他心情好的
时候
bless

Ho'oponopono 疗法的原理是:
* 你要为你的生活负全责。你周遭任何人的言语、行为、思想,都是你自己的切身责任
。换句话说,你的世界是你创造的。
* 生命中所遭遇的一切幸与不幸,反映的都是内心的世界。问题不在别人,而在于你
自己。
要改变别人,你必须先改变自已。
* 解决任何问题,必须从爱自己开始。如果你想要改善你的人生,必须先懂得爱自己。
对于你的现状,你不能怪罪任何人或任何事,你所能做的就是负起责任,去接受它、拥
有它、爱它。
你看到别人的问题,其实是你自己... 阅读全帖
X*G
发帖数: 187
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来自主题: Family版 - 八卦下姚晨和凌潇肃
I don' agree with LZ at all. If there is marriage, that means love and
loyalty. If you don' love him, don' marry him. If you want to betray him,
pease divorce first.
Marriage is not just a game. She should respect her husband if she really
loves him.
She did all these things. Betray him both physically and mentally. There is
no excuse, and don' deserve forgiveness.
Love is mutual. No matter how deep the love is at the beginning, It can
certainly fade away if you don' t protect and culture it who... 阅读全帖
R******4
发帖数: 96
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来自主题: Investment版 - help:是还贷款,还是买roth IRA?
关键你一共欠了多少student loan,是打算还完还是打算以后被forgive?
如果打算还完,尽早refinance,改成10-year standard repayment。别指望用income
based repayment然后以后被forgive,这个是建立在你20年都是低收入的情况下。如果
你5年后收入增加了,你之前少还的多产生的利息都在那,你还得付,难道你就打算为
了被forgive20年都不争取涨工资?如果不打算被forgive,那么income base
repayment和write off都没有意义。(注,即使被write off,那些钱算你那年的
income,要交税的)
如果实在不打算refinance,6.8的利率太高了,你先还这个可是稳定的6.8%的年收益。

repayment)
s**********1
发帖数: 4651
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【 以下文字转载自 WaterWorld 讨论区 】
发信人: Sande710 (SD主妇), 信区: WaterWorld
标 题: 【哈佛大学推荐】20个快乐的习惯
关键字: 快乐 智慧
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Mar 19 13:57:53 2015, 美东)
1. Be grateful.
要学会感恩。
Slow down, look around you, and pay attention to the little details in your
life – the delicate purple flower on the sidewalk, the beautiful sunset,
the hot shower that washes away your long day, and the smile in your partner
’s eyes…
让自己变慢脚步,看看你的四周,关注生活中的细微之处:人行道上淡紫色的花,美丽
的日落,洗去你一天疲惫的淋浴,伴侣眼中的笑容。
When you have a grateful heart that... 阅读全帖
u*****a
发帖数: 6276
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Naive generally means uninformed or gullible. Not knowing about something
doesn't intrinsically make you dumb but it does make you naive. Dumb means
incapable of intelligent thought.
The dumb neither forgive nor forget; the naive forgive and forget; the wise
forgive but do not forget.
对于“天真”这个词,从不同人嘴里说出来,其意思就是不一样的。
如果是不喜欢你的人对你说天真,就是变相在说你笨,不用脑袋想问题,而他自己自视
聪明,即使他跟你说了道理,你也不懂(所以天真 == 笨,在这类人眼里)。
如果是喜欢你的人对你说天真,就是说你可爱、单纯、善良等等,说你比较像小孩子,
是疼你、爱你的一种表达方式。
所以不同的人对你说天真,就是有不同的意思。
我个人认为:如果别人不同意你的观点,就说别人天真,其实是证明自... 阅读全帖
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