f******s 发帖数: 983 | 1 前段时间问大家如何避免博后老板的推荐信,很多id帮忙回答,谢谢大家,在博士老板
的大力帮助下已经拿到offer,三个老板对我有兴趣,博士老板都马上帮我解释,两个
都不在乎我在博后老板那里的经历,也不要求博后老板的推荐信,都给了offer,博士
老板给我的推荐信,把我说的特别的好(给offer的老板说的),感动的想哭,以后好
好工作,报答博士老板,我以后混的好,是对他最大的报答,也希望他的funding能申
请顺利。
再次谢谢大家,也希望大家顺利! |
S**********e 发帖数: 1789 | 2 我发现博士老板和博后老板不能比
【在 f******s 的大作中提到】 : 前段时间问大家如何避免博后老板的推荐信,很多id帮忙回答,谢谢大家,在博士老板 : 的大力帮助下已经拿到offer,三个老板对我有兴趣,博士老板都马上帮我解释,两个 : 都不在乎我在博后老板那里的经历,也不要求博后老板的推荐信,都给了offer,博士 : 老板给我的推荐信,把我说的特别的好(给offer的老板说的),感动的想哭,以后好 : 好工作,报答博士老板,我以后混的好,是对他最大的报答,也希望他的funding能申 : 请顺利。 : 再次谢谢大家,也希望大家顺利!
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O******e 发帖数: 4845 | 3 恭喜恭喜。
也一定要跟新老板搞好关系才是啊。
【在 f******s 的大作中提到】 : 前段时间问大家如何避免博后老板的推荐信,很多id帮忙回答,谢谢大家,在博士老板 : 的大力帮助下已经拿到offer,三个老板对我有兴趣,博士老板都马上帮我解释,两个 : 都不在乎我在博后老板那里的经历,也不要求博后老板的推荐信,都给了offer,博士 : 老板给我的推荐信,把我说的特别的好(给offer的老板说的),感动的想哭,以后好 : 好工作,报答博士老板,我以后混的好,是对他最大的报答,也希望他的funding能申 : 请顺利。 : 再次谢谢大家,也希望大家顺利!
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f******s 发帖数: 983 | 4 恩,好好干才不会辜负博士老板
【在 O******e 的大作中提到】 : 恭喜恭喜。 : 也一定要跟新老板搞好关系才是啊。
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y***i 发帖数: 11639 | 5 Congratulation!
【在 f******s 的大作中提到】 : 前段时间问大家如何避免博后老板的推荐信,很多id帮忙回答,谢谢大家,在博士老板 : 的大力帮助下已经拿到offer,三个老板对我有兴趣,博士老板都马上帮我解释,两个 : 都不在乎我在博后老板那里的经历,也不要求博后老板的推荐信,都给了offer,博士 : 老板给我的推荐信,把我说的特别的好(给offer的老板说的),感动的想哭,以后好 : 好工作,报答博士老板,我以后混的好,是对他最大的报答,也希望他的funding能申 : 请顺利。 : 再次谢谢大家,也希望大家顺利!
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h********n 发帖数: 4079 | 7 恭喜恭喜.
I am sure you are a hard-working person. I have some suggestions for you:
1. know your PI's working/management style
2. know your PI's expectation
3. Depending on his management style, report your progress/difficulty
frequently (maybe more frequently than he expects) to your PI, if it does
not bother him too much. This kind of report does not need to be formal
report. Make sure your PI knows you work hard and think hard.
4. find out what your PI is proud of and mention it/them sometime,
【在 f******s 的大作中提到】 : 前段时间问大家如何避免博后老板的推荐信,很多id帮忙回答,谢谢大家,在博士老板 : 的大力帮助下已经拿到offer,三个老板对我有兴趣,博士老板都马上帮我解释,两个 : 都不在乎我在博后老板那里的经历,也不要求博后老板的推荐信,都给了offer,博士 : 老板给我的推荐信,把我说的特别的好(给offer的老板说的),感动的想哭,以后好 : 好工作,报答博士老板,我以后混的好,是对他最大的报答,也希望他的funding能申 : 请顺利。 : 再次谢谢大家,也希望大家顺利!
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C***l 发帖数: 2625 | 8 very good points.
sure
【在 h********n 的大作中提到】 : 恭喜恭喜. : I am sure you are a hard-working person. I have some suggestions for you: : 1. know your PI's working/management style : 2. know your PI's expectation : 3. Depending on his management style, report your progress/difficulty : frequently (maybe more frequently than he expects) to your PI, if it does : not bother him too much. This kind of report does not need to be formal : report. Make sure your PI knows you work hard and think hard. : 4. find out what your PI is proud of and mention it/them sometime,
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f******s 发帖数: 983 | 9 非常的谢谢
sure
【在 h********n 的大作中提到】 : 恭喜恭喜. : I am sure you are a hard-working person. I have some suggestions for you: : 1. know your PI's working/management style : 2. know your PI's expectation : 3. Depending on his management style, report your progress/difficulty : frequently (maybe more frequently than he expects) to your PI, if it does : not bother him too much. This kind of report does not need to be formal : report. Make sure your PI knows you work hard and think hard. : 4. find out what your PI is proud of and mention it/them sometime,
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l**********n 发帖数: 240 | 11 很好的总结。
我刚来现在实验室时,和老板talk完后经常说thanks for your time.他说:it is my
duty.
sure
【在 h********n 的大作中提到】 : 恭喜恭喜. : I am sure you are a hard-working person. I have some suggestions for you: : 1. know your PI's working/management style : 2. know your PI's expectation : 3. Depending on his management style, report your progress/difficulty : frequently (maybe more frequently than he expects) to your PI, if it does : not bother him too much. This kind of report does not need to be formal : report. Make sure your PI knows you work hard and think hard. : 4. find out what your PI is proud of and mention it/them sometime,
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e*******e 发帖数: 1837 | 12 Cong!
你博士老板人很好呀.不过肯定你原来的工作做的也很好就是了.
【在 f******s 的大作中提到】 : 前段时间问大家如何避免博后老板的推荐信,很多id帮忙回答,谢谢大家,在博士老板 : 的大力帮助下已经拿到offer,三个老板对我有兴趣,博士老板都马上帮我解释,两个 : 都不在乎我在博后老板那里的经历,也不要求博后老板的推荐信,都给了offer,博士 : 老板给我的推荐信,把我说的特别的好(给offer的老板说的),感动的想哭,以后好 : 好工作,报答博士老板,我以后混的好,是对他最大的报答,也希望他的funding能申 : 请顺利。 : 再次谢谢大家,也希望大家顺利!
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s******y 发帖数: 28562 | 13 It is indeed a good news!
Please learn from this bad experience, try harder to have good communication
with your new boss
【在 f******s 的大作中提到】 : 前段时间问大家如何避免博后老板的推荐信,很多id帮忙回答,谢谢大家,在博士老板 : 的大力帮助下已经拿到offer,三个老板对我有兴趣,博士老板都马上帮我解释,两个 : 都不在乎我在博后老板那里的经历,也不要求博后老板的推荐信,都给了offer,博士 : 老板给我的推荐信,把我说的特别的好(给offer的老板说的),感动的想哭,以后好 : 好工作,报答博士老板,我以后混的好,是对他最大的报答,也希望他的funding能申 : 请顺利。 : 再次谢谢大家,也希望大家顺利!
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f******s 发帖数: 983 | 14 谢谢,以后一定好好好干,给offer的两个老板都是博士老板的朋友,不然不会这么顺
利,博后老板都知道我的弱点,都对博士老板说会好好training 我,帮助我,鼓励我
,博士老板还打电话鼓励我,真是让我感动,那几天我觉得自己就是个loser,博士老
板的话让我觉得自己不是那么的糟糕。
贴上博士老板的话:
Most importantly, you need to regain your confidence. You were a good
student in my group. Of course, you were not perfect, but you did a good
job. I know that you are capable of being a good postdoc in the right
situation, and I will talk to xxxx, xxxx, or anyone else and tell them good
things about you. When they ask you about your problem
【在 s******y 的大作中提到】 : It is indeed a good news! : Please learn from this bad experience, try harder to have good communication : with your new boss
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q*****n 发帖数: 331 | 15 哇!
你博士老板的话好让人感动啊!
很有教育意义!
经常听人抱怨别人怎么不好,这个take your own responsibility说的真好! |
p***a 发帖数: 6202 | 16 good.
con!
good
need
【在 f******s 的大作中提到】 : 谢谢,以后一定好好好干,给offer的两个老板都是博士老板的朋友,不然不会这么顺 : 利,博后老板都知道我的弱点,都对博士老板说会好好training 我,帮助我,鼓励我 : ,博士老板还打电话鼓励我,真是让我感动,那几天我觉得自己就是个loser,博士老 : 板的话让我觉得自己不是那么的糟糕。 : 贴上博士老板的话: : Most importantly, you need to regain your confidence. You were a good : student in my group. Of course, you were not perfect, but you did a good : job. I know that you are capable of being a good postdoc in the right : situation, and I will talk to xxxx, xxxx, or anyone else and tell them good : things about you. When they ask you about your problem
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p******d 发帖数: 3737 | 17 恭喜恭喜。我这两天也被我博士老板感动了,真是好人啊。 |
y***i 发帖数: 11639 | 18 Nice.
good
need
sign
【在 f******s 的大作中提到】 : 谢谢,以后一定好好好干,给offer的两个老板都是博士老板的朋友,不然不会这么顺 : 利,博后老板都知道我的弱点,都对博士老板说会好好training 我,帮助我,鼓励我 : ,博士老板还打电话鼓励我,真是让我感动,那几天我觉得自己就是个loser,博士老 : 板的话让我觉得自己不是那么的糟糕。 : 贴上博士老板的话: : Most importantly, you need to regain your confidence. You were a good : student in my group. Of course, you were not perfect, but you did a good : job. I know that you are capable of being a good postdoc in the right : situation, and I will talk to xxxx, xxxx, or anyone else and tell them good : things about you. When they ask you about your problem
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l*********o 发帖数: 3091 | 19 I should work harder!
What comrade Napoleon said is always right!
from Animal Farm |
f******s 发帖数: 983 | 20 要不有勇气换专业,要不回国,如果打算继续做博后留在美国,就只能是好好工作,每
天埋怨走上这条不归路,不如踏踏实实的好好干
【在 l*********o 的大作中提到】 : I should work harder! : What comrade Napoleon said is always right! : from Animal Farm
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y***i 发帖数: 11639 | 21 Nod。不懂为什么这么一句话会有人跳出来。要努力还有错了。
【在 f******s 的大作中提到】 : 要不有勇气换专业,要不回国,如果打算继续做博后留在美国,就只能是好好工作,每 : 天埋怨走上这条不归路,不如踏踏实实的好好干
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h***e 发帖数: 20195 | 22 bless
【在 f******s 的大作中提到】 : 前段时间问大家如何避免博后老板的推荐信,很多id帮忙回答,谢谢大家,在博士老板 : 的大力帮助下已经拿到offer,三个老板对我有兴趣,博士老板都马上帮我解释,两个 : 都不在乎我在博后老板那里的经历,也不要求博后老板的推荐信,都给了offer,博士 : 老板给我的推荐信,把我说的特别的好(给offer的老板说的),感动的想哭,以后好 : 好工作,报答博士老板,我以后混的好,是对他最大的报答,也希望他的funding能申 : 请顺利。 : 再次谢谢大家,也希望大家顺利!
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p**i 发帖数: 3525 | 23 Bless,俺的博士老板也象父亲一样。博后老板就很象老板了。
咱们中国人主要是沟通的问题,我觉得。
【在 f******s 的大作中提到】 : 前段时间问大家如何避免博后老板的推荐信,很多id帮忙回答,谢谢大家,在博士老板 : 的大力帮助下已经拿到offer,三个老板对我有兴趣,博士老板都马上帮我解释,两个 : 都不在乎我在博后老板那里的经历,也不要求博后老板的推荐信,都给了offer,博士 : 老板给我的推荐信,把我说的特别的好(给offer的老板说的),感动的想哭,以后好 : 好工作,报答博士老板,我以后混的好,是对他最大的报答,也希望他的funding能申 : 请顺利。 : 再次谢谢大家,也希望大家顺利!
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I*****y 发帖数: 6402 | 24 恭喜恭喜!这么快就拿到俩OFFERS!!
另外,再问问大家:毕业后还和PHD老板经常联系吗?还是只是逢年过节或者有事儿的时
候才去联系?
【在 f******s 的大作中提到】 : 前段时间问大家如何避免博后老板的推荐信,很多id帮忙回答,谢谢大家,在博士老板 : 的大力帮助下已经拿到offer,三个老板对我有兴趣,博士老板都马上帮我解释,两个 : 都不在乎我在博后老板那里的经历,也不要求博后老板的推荐信,都给了offer,博士 : 老板给我的推荐信,把我说的特别的好(给offer的老板说的),感动的想哭,以后好 : 好工作,报答博士老板,我以后混的好,是对他最大的报答,也希望他的funding能申 : 请顺利。 : 再次谢谢大家,也希望大家顺利!
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I*****y 发帖数: 6402 | 25 as a postdoc, you should expect your postdoc experience to differ from your
study at cozy graduate school; if not, it's partly your fault for being
scolded or fired by your postdoc boss. It is of course known that some, if
not all, postdoc
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n****n 发帖数: 434 | 26 Good outcome.
Just work hard (I mean hard!) and publish well. |
q***q 发帖数: 264 | 27 you are very nice to share these. With such a great personality, you must
have been a success. //admire
sure
【在 h********n 的大作中提到】 : 恭喜恭喜. : I am sure you are a hard-working person. I have some suggestions for you: : 1. know your PI's working/management style : 2. know your PI's expectation : 3. Depending on his management style, report your progress/difficulty : frequently (maybe more frequently than he expects) to your PI, if it does : not bother him too much. This kind of report does not need to be formal : report. Make sure your PI knows you work hard and think hard. : 4. find out what your PI is proud of and mention it/them sometime,
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h********n 发帖数: 4079 | 28 I am a postdoc now, far from success. My phd boss and current boss are nice people. I learned a lot from my phd boss, especially people skill. He wants me to help other people as he helped me.
【在 q***q 的大作中提到】 : you are very nice to share these. With such a great personality, you must : have been a success. //admire : : sure
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h*******n 发帖数: 39 | 29 看了这个帖子,我直想哭。咱们这一辈子估计也就读这么一个PhD吧?读PhD时能碰到一
个慈父(母)严师型的老板,能让你我心中充满尊敬的导师,这是件多么幸运的事啊!
翻转头来看看我读PhD时的老板,实在让人三摇头。我不后悔自己花了七年才博士毕业
,博士毕业时一塌糊涂的publication record也没什么大不了的。最让我难受的是,我
读PhD时的老板实在是个混混,无论如何也没法儿让人对他有多少尊敬。
祝愿楼主从今往后一切顺利,发一堆好paper。 |