S******e 发帖数: 299 | 1 系里一个人见人烦的老教授,昨天系会之后到我办公室,要和我讨论一个芝麻大的事。
就因为开会时我说了看过有人用form添peer teaching evaluation,他坚持一定要用一
封信。我正忙着呢,忍着听他blah blah 了半天。这时我的电脑显示我的合作者发了个
邮件问proposal的事,我扭头看了一眼。这厮顿时暴怒,说我该看着他, 说我如果忙
可以告诉他 ...我也怒了,说他该问我忙不忙再来讨论。它以前经常不敲门就进来,不
管别人忙不忙。而且我评天牛时这厮写了封极品烂信(系里总结,他当时是系里唯一正
教授). 厮还说: "You can tell me to come back later if you are busy ..."。 我
看着it,说:"Dr. Xxx, I am busy now. Please come back later". 这厮顿时傻了。
但TMD还不走,又磨挤半天才走。我说: " thank you for coming". 估计这几个月他不
会来烦我了。
天牛了还是好呀。终于不用那么忍了。也可以偶尔自己爽一下。 |
x**1 发帖数: 106 | 2 我觉得这取决你扭头看email看了多久,如果只是瞟一眼那就是他大惊小怪,如果看入
神了撂别人一边他确实应该不爽,毕竟人家是你的senior
【在 S******e 的大作中提到】 : 系里一个人见人烦的老教授,昨天系会之后到我办公室,要和我讨论一个芝麻大的事。 : 就因为开会时我说了看过有人用form添peer teaching evaluation,他坚持一定要用一 : 封信。我正忙着呢,忍着听他blah blah 了半天。这时我的电脑显示我的合作者发了个 : 邮件问proposal的事,我扭头看了一眼。这厮顿时暴怒,说我该看着他, 说我如果忙 : 可以告诉他 ...我也怒了,说他该问我忙不忙再来讨论。它以前经常不敲门就进来,不 : 管别人忙不忙。而且我评天牛时这厮写了封极品烂信(系里总结,他当时是系里唯一正 : 教授). 厮还说: "You can tell me to come back later if you are busy ..."。 我 : 看着it,说:"Dr. Xxx, I am busy now. Please come back later". 这厮顿时傻了。 : 但TMD还不走,又磨挤半天才走。我说: " thank you for coming". 估计这几个月他不 : 会来烦我了。
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m****1 发帖数: 736 | 3 face-to-face confrontation is the worst case scenario you should always try
to avoid. Even if you are safe tenure-wise, it is still not the best
solution to situation like this. |
a********t 发帖数: 434 | 4 You also seem to have a bad temper. Just little things like this, you are
already call him "it", 它, 以示人格侮辱。
【在 S******e 的大作中提到】 : 系里一个人见人烦的老教授,昨天系会之后到我办公室,要和我讨论一个芝麻大的事。 : 就因为开会时我说了看过有人用form添peer teaching evaluation,他坚持一定要用一 : 封信。我正忙着呢,忍着听他blah blah 了半天。这时我的电脑显示我的合作者发了个 : 邮件问proposal的事,我扭头看了一眼。这厮顿时暴怒,说我该看着他, 说我如果忙 : 可以告诉他 ...我也怒了,说他该问我忙不忙再来讨论。它以前经常不敲门就进来,不 : 管别人忙不忙。而且我评天牛时这厮写了封极品烂信(系里总结,他当时是系里唯一正 : 教授). 厮还说: "You can tell me to come back later if you are busy ..."。 我 : 看着it,说:"Dr. Xxx, I am busy now. Please come back later". 这厮顿时傻了。 : 但TMD还不走,又磨挤半天才走。我说: " thank you for coming". 估计这几个月他不 : 会来烦我了。
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p****l 发帖数: 830 | 5 lol. way to go, man.
he is an a-hole and should be treated as such. |
S******e 发帖数: 299 | 6 There are quite stories behind, not just this.
This guy put a one of a kind bad summary for my dossier. He said " ...
Teaching needs improvement .... He received Dept teaching award..... His
publication is average .... No strong papers ... He won two best paper
awards ...". What the heck. On a side note, junior faculty should try to get
some awards. Those help in situation like this.
Intentionally put "it" here. It is mitbbs :-)
【在 a********t 的大作中提到】 : You also seem to have a bad temper. Just little things like this, you are : already call him "it", 它, 以示人格侮辱。
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S******e 发帖数: 299 | 7 0.5 sec? 1 at most.
【在 x**1 的大作中提到】 : 我觉得这取决你扭头看email看了多久,如果只是瞟一眼那就是他大惊小怪,如果看入 : 神了撂别人一边他确实应该不爽,毕竟人家是你的senior
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S******e 发帖数: 299 | 8 You are right. First time for me but I feel sometimes for some people the
normal won't work. Why always letting him say whatever he wants? Just wanted
to at least once to him.
This guy is negative. He said bad things about everyone in the dept and
college. Once I went to lunch with him every week, he said everyone else's
bad words , which alarms me he woulddo the same to me. I started to stay
distance from him.
try
【在 m****1 的大作中提到】 : face-to-face confrontation is the worst case scenario you should always try : to avoid. Even if you are safe tenure-wise, it is still not the best : solution to situation like this.
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r******n 发帖数: 2730 | 9 great 有些老人家真讨厌。仗着自己在学校时间长 abuse power。真是忙research的
哪有那么多闲工夫关心service 啥form,letter的还纠结半天。
【在 S******e 的大作中提到】 : 系里一个人见人烦的老教授,昨天系会之后到我办公室,要和我讨论一个芝麻大的事。 : 就因为开会时我说了看过有人用form添peer teaching evaluation,他坚持一定要用一 : 封信。我正忙着呢,忍着听他blah blah 了半天。这时我的电脑显示我的合作者发了个 : 邮件问proposal的事,我扭头看了一眼。这厮顿时暴怒,说我该看着他, 说我如果忙 : 可以告诉他 ...我也怒了,说他该问我忙不忙再来讨论。它以前经常不敲门就进来,不 : 管别人忙不忙。而且我评天牛时这厮写了封极品烂信(系里总结,他当时是系里唯一正 : 教授). 厮还说: "You can tell me to come back later if you are busy ..."。 我 : 看着it,说:"Dr. Xxx, I am busy now. Please come back later". 这厮顿时傻了。 : 但TMD还不走,又磨挤半天才走。我说: " thank you for coming". 估计这几个月他不 : 会来烦我了。
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p******3 发帖数: 43 | 10 为楼主鼓一下掌。类似的时我tenure 前都做过,而且当着好几个别的faculty面。只要
作人做事有原则,只会赢得大多数人的尊重! |
c******l 发帖数: 111 | 11 这样的人给你写封烂信倒是帮了你忙了呢
写得好的话别人还以为你们俩是一丘之貉,臭味相投呢
【在 S******e 的大作中提到】 : 系里一个人见人烦的老教授,昨天系会之后到我办公室,要和我讨论一个芝麻大的事。 : 就因为开会时我说了看过有人用form添peer teaching evaluation,他坚持一定要用一 : 封信。我正忙着呢,忍着听他blah blah 了半天。这时我的电脑显示我的合作者发了个 : 邮件问proposal的事,我扭头看了一眼。这厮顿时暴怒,说我该看着他, 说我如果忙 : 可以告诉他 ...我也怒了,说他该问我忙不忙再来讨论。它以前经常不敲门就进来,不 : 管别人忙不忙。而且我评天牛时这厮写了封极品烂信(系里总结,他当时是系里唯一正 : 教授). 厮还说: "You can tell me to come back later if you are busy ..."。 我 : 看着it,说:"Dr. Xxx, I am busy now. Please come back later". 这厮顿时傻了。 : 但TMD还不走,又磨挤半天才走。我说: " thank you for coming". 估计这几个月他不 : 会来烦我了。
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