g********r
发帖数: 94 | 1 It is very hard for me to communicate with my hubby, he either keeps silent
or criticize whatever I says when I try to talk with him after work! he
wants to say something that is meaningful or keep silent...OMG! He actually
evaluates every thing I say to see if it is something that worth him opening
his mouth.
then we couldn't talk for over 5 sentences everyday. can you imagine it. not
to say anything else. the good thing is our little guy, he is the only
topic that can make us speak to each other a little bit.
to be honest, this does not sound normal to me! but it has been like this
for a while.
thanks for your suggestions and comments. |
G******e
发帖数: 9567 | |
G***G
发帖数: 16778 | 3 Find some relaxing topic, for example, traveling.
silent
actually
opening
not
【在 g********r 的大作中提到】
: It is very hard for me to communicate with my hubby, he either keeps silent
: or criticize whatever I says when I try to talk with him after work! he
: wants to say something that is meaningful or keep silent...OMG! He actually
: evaluates every thing I say to see if it is something that worth him opening
: his mouth.
: then we couldn't talk for over 5 sentences everyday. can you imagine it. not
: to say anything else. the good thing is our little guy, he is the only
: topic that can make us speak to each other a little bit.
: to be honest, this does not sound normal to me! but it has been like this
: for a while.
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G*****g
发帖数: 418 | 4 当初谈恋爱的时候也这样吗？如果是。那就没有太多可担心的，说明他就是这样的人。
如果不是，说明两人需要找些共同兴趣爱好了。什么爱好无所谓，钱、体育、电影、八
卦都行。
等到彼此之间无话可说，却和别的异性聊得眉飞色舞，那就麻烦了。
silent
actually
opening
not
【在 g********r 的大作中提到】
: It is very hard for me to communicate with my hubby, he either keeps silent
: or criticize whatever I says when I try to talk with him after work! he
: wants to say something that is meaningful or keep silent...OMG! He actually
: evaluates every thing I say to see if it is something that worth him opening
: his mouth.
: then we couldn't talk for over 5 sentences everyday. can you imagine it. not
: to say anything else. the good thing is our little guy, he is the only
: topic that can make us speak to each other a little bit.
: to be honest, this does not sound normal to me! but it has been like this
: for a while.
|
s***t
发帖数: 13743 | 5 5 sentence is very good already, believe me!
silent
actually
opening
not
【在 g********r 的大作中提到】
: It is very hard for me to communicate with my hubby, he either keeps silent
: or criticize whatever I says when I try to talk with him after work! he
: wants to say something that is meaningful or keep silent...OMG! He actually
: evaluates every thing I say to see if it is something that worth him opening
: his mouth.
: then we couldn't talk for over 5 sentences everyday. can you imagine it. not
: to say anything else. the good thing is our little guy, he is the only
: topic that can make us speak to each other a little bit.
: to be honest, this does not sound normal to me! but it has been like this
: for a while.
|
I********e
发帖数: 6130 | 6 Well, I hate to say this but it's obvious he's bored with you.
silent
actually
opening
not
【在 g********r 的大作中提到】
: It is very hard for me to communicate with my hubby, he either keeps silent
: or criticize whatever I says when I try to talk with him after work! he
: wants to say something that is meaningful or keep silent...OMG! He actually
: evaluates every thing I say to see if it is something that worth him opening
: his mouth.
: then we couldn't talk for over 5 sentences everyday. can you imagine it. not
: to say anything else. the good thing is our little guy, he is the only
: topic that can make us speak to each other a little bit.
: to be honest, this does not sound normal to me! but it has been like this
: for a while.
|
g********r
发帖数: 94 | 7 I don't think we have ever TAN LIAN AI. He always like to talk with other
lady more than to talk to me...
sign.
【在 G*****g 的大作中提到】
: 当初谈恋爱的时候也这样吗？如果是。那就没有太多可担心的，说明他就是这样的人。
: 如果不是，说明两人需要找些共同兴趣爱好了。什么爱好无所谓，钱、体育、电影、八
: 卦都行。
: 等到彼此之间无话可说，却和别的异性聊得眉飞色舞，那就麻烦了。
:
: silent
: actually
: opening
: not
|
F*********y
发帖数: 320 | 8 why did you marry him at the first place? |
G*****g
发帖数: 418 | 9 那他为什么娶你？你又为什么嫁他？
把这两个问题搞清楚了，只要双方对这两条仍然意见一致，哪怕就是平均一天说不上五
句话，也可以算是相敬如宾。
美剧《Everybody Loves Raymond》有个说法是：只要他的正餐是在家里吃的，开胃品
在哪里吃无所谓。
【在 g********r 的大作中提到】
: I don't think we have ever TAN LIAN AI. He always like to talk with other
: lady more than to talk to me...
: sign.
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