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g********r
发帖数: 94 | 1 Here is my email to her this morning, I hardly slept last night because of
my new roomate's crazy schedule,she was here for two weeks and still got up
several times during the midnight to message with her friends.The messages
come in with lound music which always wake me up...very sad! I know some
words are kind of harsh, but what I can do, I need good sleep in the
midnight and work hard during the day.please help with solutions:
Hi HX,
I admit that 2011 is not for me so far. OK? I took out the two trashes from
Kitchen, most of which is from you because I only stay 3 nights here and I
rarelly cook, and I stay in the lab from 9:00 am to 9 pm during the workdays
. So please take out the trash from the bathroom (most of which is still
from you). From that point on, we use seperate trash can and you clean your
own trash, which should be timely to avoid bad smell and bacterial to grow
in the common shared place. You have to clean the countertop in the kitchen
after you cook, again it is shared place, placing your kitchen utencils all
over the counter is not right.
For sleeping time, which is the most reason that we are not happy with now.
You have to leave at least eight quiet hours for me to sleep during the
night, say 11:00pm -7pm, during this time you have to be absolutely quiet,
like you are sleeping. Because, this is very normal sleep schedule for
normal people. You have no reason to force people to follow your weird sleep
schedule ( 12:00pm -6:30am with 5 loud music alarms 2:00am, 4:00am and 6:
30am, 7:00am, 7:30am in between ) just because you are a surgeon when you
are in China and you have to get up to do several operations for people in
the midnight and you do not care about sleeping or not during the night. You
got to turn off your alarms, stop move things around, stop bathing yourself
during that time period and keep quiet, let other people sleep...., then I
will follow your rule. Otherwise, the housing manager will meet you and do
something, if that still does not work, you are out!
Forget about how I helped you at the begining, you woke me up to open the
outside door for you and your two male friends11:30pm in the midnight when
your were here the first night just because you do not know how to use your
key to open it (stupid keys!) and knocked my door again 12:00pm when I was
trying to go back to sleep. I let you use my
kitchen utencils, rice, eggs, and my phone to call yor friends, I helped you
contact some church friends to help you out during the weekend. Of course
you gave me two mini packs of baby wipes, which are free from somewhere (
fine, I do not use it anyway!). Then you turned your back forgot everything
I have done for you and just disturb me during my sleep time. From now on,
you follow the common rule, I follow the common rule or we got to meet the
housing manager to work on this.
Remember, I will never ever follow your crazy sleep schedule, this has to be
stopped. No one in this world like your sleep schedule. Do not pretend you
do not know that, OK?
I have to say "good luck" with your staying in the U.S., you have many
things to learn.
Roomate, | A********e
发帖数: 535 | 2 LZ，你主要要解决的问题是她半夜接受短信的信号声太大吵得您无法休息，对不对？我
时从你贴子的前言里看到的，并且感觉到，这个问题严重干扰你的日常生活。
我阅读了你的Email，可惜的是写的太长，并且你急于要解决的主要问题你放在Email的
后面，而且所有的语气让读到邮件的人感觉不是很愉快。人都有逆反心理，你的室友本
身的修养不是那么好的话，看到这样的邮件，也许会置之不理也许会变本加厉。
我的看法是，你可以就那个吵扰你睡眠的原因来提出你的不满和要求。这个解决后，再
来解决其他的。 | t********n
发帖数: 1075 | 3 Agree with LS. Plus, midnight is 12 am, not 12 pm. | c********d
发帖数: 11593 | 4 很赞同你的观点，楼主没有必要悲愤控诉“我帮了你多少，如今你忘恩负义”——这样
显得不得要领而且容易引人反感。不过，她遇到的问题远比手机短信噪音要过分了……
基本上，这个室友有两个问题，一是脏，二是吵。垃圾不倒，用完楼主的锅碗瓢盆不收
拾，晚上还让手机声音吵人。跟这样的人住，可以理解楼主的抓狂心理……
这种事情，不用发邮件，应该直接跟她面谈——第一，请你每天倒一次垃圾；第二，做
完饭请你自己把厨房收拾干净；第三，晚上请把手机声音关小一点，半夜三更的别人要
睡觉；我没有要跟你过不去的意思，但是希望我们合住得可以舒服一些。
不过，真的很难想象一个医生会这么邋遢啊……
【在 A********e 的大作中提到】
: LZ，你主要要解决的问题是她半夜接受短信的信号声太大吵得您无法休息，对不对？我
: 时从你贴子的前言里看到的，并且感觉到，这个问题严重干扰你的日常生活。
: 我阅读了你的Email，可惜的是写的太长，并且你急于要解决的主要问题你放在Email的
: 后面，而且所有的语气让读到邮件的人感觉不是很愉快。人都有逆反心理，你的室友本
: 身的修养不是那么好的话，看到这样的邮件，也许会置之不理也许会变本加厉。
: 我的看法是，你可以就那个吵扰你睡眠的原因来提出你的不满和要求。这个解决后，再
: 来解决其他的。
| w********e
发帖数: 4186 | 5 这个室友是中国人吗？干吗不用中文沟通？
不看别的，看见几个“OK?”就觉得你不会有效地用英文表达。 | g*******e
发帖数: 35 | 6 看得一头雾水。
1、都是中国人，干嘛用英文？
2、LZ英文这么水，干嘛用英文？
人生苦短，碰到这样的室友，要么当面锣对面鼓有什么说什么，要么搬家走人。浪费这么多时间在这里码这么多洋文，I 服了 you. | I********e
发帖数: 6130 | 7
This applies to yourself too.
【在 g********r 的大作中提到】
: Here is my email to her this morning, I hardly slept last night because of
: my new roomate's crazy schedule,she was here for two weeks and still got up
: several times during the midnight to message with her friends.The messages
: come in with lound music which always wake me up...very sad! I know some
: words are kind of harsh, but what I can do, I need good sleep in the
: midnight and work hard during the day.please help with solutions:
: Hi HX,
: I admit that 2011 is not for me so far. OK? I took out the two trashes from
: Kitchen, most of which is from you because I only stay 3 nights here and I
: rarelly cook, and I stay in the lab from 9:00 am to 9 pm during the workdays
| z********6
发帖数: 852 | 8 很好的英文改错训练
up
from
workdays
【在 g********r 的大作中提到】
: Here is my email to her this morning, I hardly slept last night because of
: my new roomate's crazy schedule,she was here for two weeks and still got up
: several times during the midnight to message with her friends.The messages
: come in with lound music which always wake me up...very sad! I know some
: words are kind of harsh, but what I can do, I need good sleep in the
: midnight and work hard during the day.please help with solutions:
: Hi HX,
: I admit that 2011 is not for me so far. OK? I took out the two trashes from
: Kitchen, most of which is from you because I only stay 3 nights here and I
: rarelly cook, and I stay in the lab from 9:00 am to 9 pm during the workdays
| l**********n
发帖数: 2810 | 9 哈哈，看到这里实在忍不住乐了~~
【在 z********6 的大作中提到】
: 很好的英文改错训练
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: up
: from
: workdays
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