r*********n
发帖数: 1166 | 1 Okay,
You feel heart-broken because he did not act the way you wanted him to.
Actually,
Noboby has the power to break your heart unless you give him the permission.
If you are willing to let the situation be different from what you think it
should be, aka, let it evolve naturally, much of your pain will go away.
You were chosen to experience this to grow your spirits.
Once this process is done, you could enter a new birth in your life, and you
will step into a whole new level of love with a sense of confidence and
empowerment.
By the time you get your power back, it will be you who will decide whether
to take him back.
So Cheer Up! |
Y****e
发帖数: 7007 | 2 全英文,安慰都没诚意
permission.
it
you
【在 r*********n 的大作中提到】
: Okay,
: You feel heart-broken because he did not act the way you wanted him to.
: Actually,
: Noboby has the power to break your heart unless you give him the permission.
: If you are willing to let the situation be different from what you think it
: should be, aka, let it evolve naturally, much of your pain will go away.
: You were chosen to experience this to grow your spirits.
: Once this process is done, you could enter a new birth in your life, and you
: will step into a whole new level of love with a sense of confidence and
: empowerment.
|
w*********l
发帖数: 5144 | 3 笨笨晚上好。
【在 Y****e 的大作中提到】
: 全英文,安慰都没诚意
:
: permission.
: it
: you
|
x*******1
发帖数: 1167 | 4 我难过的时候不想看英文，不知道kbt怎么想：P
permission.
it
you
【在 r*********n 的大作中提到】
: Okay,
: You feel heart-broken because he did not act the way you wanted him to.
: Actually,
: Noboby has the power to break your heart unless you give him the permission.
: If you are willing to let the situation be different from what you think it
: should be, aka, let it evolve naturally, much of your pain will go away.
: You were chosen to experience this to grow your spirits.
: Once this process is done, you could enter a new birth in your life, and you
: will step into a whole new level of love with a sense of confidence and
: empowerment.
|
Y****e
发帖数: 7007 | 5 哈哈，现在是凌晨
早上好！
【在 w*********l 的大作中提到】
: 笨笨晚上好。
|
Y*********e
发帖数: 4847 | 6 谁是笨笨
你是聪聪？
【在 w*********l 的大作中提到】
: 笨笨晚上好。
|
s**********8
发帖数: 25265 | 7 YCTime. 额原来以为是你mj. 后来发现是个小机灵.
【在 Y*********e 的大作中提到】
: 谁是笨笨
: 你是聪聪？
|
P*******i
发帖数: 10965 | 8 英文还写得不错，表达出了一些中文无法表的细腻
【在 x*******1 的大作中提到】
: 我难过的时候不想看英文，不知道kbt怎么想：P
:
: permission.
: it
: you
|
Y*********e
发帖数: 4847 | 9 言外之意我不机灵
泪奔小碎步跑开...
【在 s**********8 的大作中提到】
: YCTime. 额原来以为是你mj. 后来发现是个小机灵.
|
s**********8
发帖数: 25265 | 10 哈哈
【在 Y*********e 的大作中提到】
: 言外之意我不机灵
: 泪奔小碎步跑开...
|
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A***a
发帖数: 1647 | 11 If he's just not doing the romantic stuff you want, talk to him and tell him
exactly what you want. Communication is key.
permission.
it
you
【在 r*********n 的大作中提到】
: Okay,
: You feel heart-broken because he did not act the way you wanted him to.
: Actually,
: Noboby has the power to break your heart unless you give him the permission.
: If you are willing to let the situation be different from what you think it
: should be, aka, let it evolve naturally, much of your pain will go away.
: You were chosen to experience this to grow your spirits.
: Once this process is done, you could enter a new birth in your life, and you
: will step into a whole new level of love with a sense of confidence and
: empowerment.
|
G*********o
发帖数: 49669 | 12 well said, thanks。
If he's just not doing the romantic stuff you want, talk to him and tell him
exactly what you want. Communication is key.
permission.
it
you
【在 A***a 的大作中提到】
: If he's just not doing the romantic stuff you want, talk to him and tell him
: exactly what you want. Communication is key.
:
: permission.
: it
: you
|
x*******1
发帖数: 1167 | 13 那我趁心情好的时候多看几遍～
【在 P*******i 的大作中提到】
: 英文还写得不错，表达出了一些中文无法表的细腻
|
r*********n
发帖数: 1166 | 14 The communication channel is clearly clogged.
He is not in love with her at the moment, ...
him
【在 A***a 的大作中提到】
: If he's just not doing the romantic stuff you want, talk to him and tell him
: exactly what you want. Communication is key.
:
: permission.
: it
: you
|
x*******1
发帖数: 1167 | 15 是很鼓舞，但不太实用。。。
【在 x*******1 的大作中提到】
: 那我趁心情好的时候多看几遍～
|
r*********n
发帖数: 1166 | 16 可以20年后再看。
【在 x*******1 的大作中提到】
: 是很鼓舞，但不太实用。。。
|
c*******t
发帖数: 962 | 17 前天夜里睡不着，不知怎么就连到李嘉欣的新浪微博。
其实想想象她那样，顶着香港花瓶的名头，38岁才嫁出去，40岁才能生子。之前有多少
辛苦恐怕比这个班上的大多数人都多。但是她也选择漂亮的出来见人，而且永远如此。
她怀孕了也还接拍广告，勇于轻微的自嘲。等等。总之她真的是很POSITIVE很努力的。
其实真的看看她才知道，那么多的美女，她怎么就最后能修来一个看上去还好的老公还
在最后关头拼到孩子。
不要说嫁了豪门猪都会开心，这东西我自己都有体会。在那么强势的环境里面保持这样
正面的，美丽的姿态，真的是太难了。
那个KBT mm最少孩子什么的都有了。她一定没有李嘉欣年纪大吧。李今年41岁了。李在
她现在这个年纪恐怕还在画好妆等着约会呢。要是这样还不是更吓死了。
我觉得如果平常自己表现出来的样子如果像那个李嘉欣微薄里的样子，生活一定没有问
题。多少岁都能找到人要的。甚至败絮其中都不要紧。只要努力做到金玉其外就可以！ |
c*******t
发帖数: 962 | 18 反正看了李嘉欣微薄我自己莫名其妙的信心大增。我没那么漂亮是真的。但是装出一副
温柔雅致善良的样子来很难么？真的死都装不出来么。。。。。。。。装出来一副美丽
笑脸，简直可以说是一个人混世界的一张通行证呀。。。可惜，我明白这道理太晚了，
居然还要靠大花瓶（or大花瓶的公关）来点醒自己。
四十岁才怀孕呀，她如果不怕那恐怕就不是人类了。约会到38岁，她就差那么一点点就会变成真正的香
港笑话。就在那么悬的悬崖边上，她嫁掉了，还有了小孩，居然就这么修成正果。这样都可以，我们比
她年轻那么多有什么不可以的。。。。。。。即使没她漂亮只是学她态度就很重要！
一般情况是笑比哭好。最最不济要笑给自己看。当然除了能哭出来效益的。比如说诸葛
亮哭周瑜什么的。 |
k*t
发帖数: 53 | 19 我不难过了， roaringlion 童鞋。。。谢谢。。。
我觉得受够了， 忍根本不是我的长项，也解决不了问题。
所以直接给那个女生写了信，直接转发了给她她写的暧昧EMAILS. 问她这些EMAIL 是什
么意思，问她要不要把这些EMAIL 转给她和我LG的 director 或者HR, 看看他们怎么诠
释......她没回信，目前为止，貌似不再和我LG过分联系了。。。和LG也谈了，LG说非
常抱歉伤害了我， 我们全家计划independence day 一起做 cruise ....reconnect...
.so far so good
以上所有的communication, 我都留了底, 如果下次再发生，我就有从头到尾的paper
trail。。。
Thanks for all other replies too, Chinese or English replies.
permission.
it
you
【在 r*********n 的大作中提到】
: Okay,
: You feel heart-broken because he did not act the way you wanted him to.
: Actually,
: Noboby has the power to break your heart unless you give him the permission.
: If you are willing to let the situation be different from what you think it
: should be, aka, let it evolve naturally, much of your pain will go away.
: You were chosen to experience this to grow your spirits.
: Once this process is done, you could enter a new birth in your life, and you
: will step into a whole new level of love with a sense of confidence and
: empowerment.
|
r*********n
发帖数: 1166 | 20 能forgive,reconnect最好。
过去的就让它过去吧，以前的记录留着只会给自己带来更多的创伤, take good care
of yourself. |
