n*******s
发帖数: 17267 | 1 IF we are feeling the feelings, they are coming from inside us.
Nobody can make us feel something that is not already within us.
Saying somebody makes us feel angry or hurts us is like saying that someone
can unscrew the top of our head, climb down inside us, and grab our anger
throttle or push our hurt button.This is simply not true. We have the choice
about what we are feeling. It is a split-second choice because most of us
are reactive to outside situations. If there is pain inside us, situations
arise that naturally trigger it forth.
If we try to make someone else responsible for our feelings, we belittle and
victimize ourselves. They are our feelings, therefore we are responsible
for them. As we take responsibility for them, we no longer have to
manipulate others to do things differently so we can feel good. In taking
responsibility for our feelings, we recognize that we are the ones who can
change them. | K********g
发帖数: 553 | 2 好多正能量啊！
someone
choice
and
【在 n*******s 的大作中提到】
: IF we are feeling the feelings, they are coming from inside us.
: Nobody can make us feel something that is not already within us.
: Saying somebody makes us feel angry or hurts us is like saying that someone
: can unscrew the top of our head, climb down inside us, and grab our anger
: throttle or push our hurt button.This is simply not true. We have the choice
: about what we are feeling. It is a split-second choice because most of us
: are reactive to outside situations. If there is pain inside us, situations
: arise that naturally trigger it forth.
: If we try to make someone else responsible for our feelings, we belittle and
: victimize ourselves. They are our feelings, therefore we are responsible
| b*****l
发帖数: 8603 | | o******1
发帖数: 12177 | 4
someone
choice
and
【在 n*******s 的大作中提到】
: IF we are feeling the feelings, they are coming from inside us.
: Nobody can make us feel something that is not already within us.
: Saying somebody makes us feel angry or hurts us is like saying that someone
: can unscrew the top of our head, climb down inside us, and grab our anger
: throttle or push our hurt button.This is simply not true. We have the choice
: about what we are feeling. It is a split-second choice because most of us
: are reactive to outside situations. If there is pain inside us, situations
: arise that naturally trigger it forth.
: If we try to make someone else responsible for our feelings, we belittle and
: victimize ourselves. They are our feelings, therefore we are responsible
| z***o
发帖数: 2104 | | z***o
发帖数: 2104 | 6 跟我第一时间想到的一样
以为楼主说这歌呢
握手
赞
【在 o******1 的大作中提到】
:
: someone
: choice
: and
| n*******s
发帖数: 17267 | 7 就是说ZOOHO is the master of herself, she decides how and what to feel.
【在 z***o 的大作中提到】
: 可不可以理解 就是 阿Q大法的西贝版本？
| z***o
发帖数: 2104 | 8 握手
noregrets 可以reget 也可以说不
好吧 境由心生
了解
【在 n*******s 的大作中提到】
: 就是说ZOOHO is the master of herself, she decides how and what to feel.
| X******7
发帖数: 3297 | | j*****5
发帖数: 5135 | 10 ding
someone
choice
and
【在 n*******s 的大作中提到】
: IF we are feeling the feelings, they are coming from inside us.
: Nobody can make us feel something that is not already within us.
: Saying somebody makes us feel angry or hurts us is like saying that someone
: can unscrew the top of our head, climb down inside us, and grab our anger
: throttle or push our hurt button.This is simply not true. We have the choice
: about what we are feeling. It is a split-second choice because most of us
: are reactive to outside situations. If there is pain inside us, situations
: arise that naturally trigger it forth.
: If we try to make someone else responsible for our feelings, we belittle and
: victimize ourselves. They are our feelings, therefore we are responsible
| n*******s
发帖数: 17267 | 11 原创是个帅哥， Chuck Spezzano, 不知道是墨西哥， 西班牙， 意大利还是希腊血统。
【在 X******7 的大作中提到】
: 原创？
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