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发帖数: 3416 | 1 今天偷懒花了六七个小时看完了best-seller “He is just not that into you.” 一
拿起来就放不下手了。因为在书店买的，太贵，打算过两天退了。把喜欢的部分做了些
笔记。顺便跟大家分享一下。有些长，也懒得分清topic，将就着看看，这是非常有意
思的书，也受益良多。里面有着很多女生给男生找的借口，其实说到底都是因为这个男
生is not that into you. 能认识到这个需要勇气，但认识到这个将给我们省了很多烦
恼，不用浪费时间在对你不上心的男生身上。正如作者说的，每个女生都有真正爱你的
一位在等着你，不要放低你的标准。不要放弃你的信念。Don’t waste your beauty
在那些不是真正对你有意的男生身上。这本书真的很有意思也很幽默，角度新颖，让我
豁然开朗，强烈推荐。
[Introduction]
We had excuses for all these men, from broken dialing fingers to difficult
childhoods. In the end, one by one, they we | s****y
发帖数: 3416 | 2 [2]*If he is scared or serious relationship, don't want to have sex with you
, or don't want to get married with you, he is just not that into you.*
Guys tell you how they feel even if you refuse to listen or believe them. “
I don’t want to be in a serious relationship” truly means “I don’t want
to be in a serious relationship with you” or “I am not sure that you’re
the one.” (Sorry.)
If you don’t know where the relationship is going, it’s okay to pull over
and ask.
There’s a guy out there who w | s****y
发帖数: 3416 | 3 [3] * A guy who breaks up with you is not that into you.*
A man who wants to make a relationship work will move mountains to keep the
woman he loves. If he’s not calling you to tell you he loves you and wants
you back, it should only be because he’s showing up at your new residence
to do it in person. If he’s not trying to romance your socks off with dates
, flowers, and poetry, it should only be because he’s too engrossed with
his couples counseling workbooks and is prioritizing getting back on | s****y
发帖数: 3416 | 4 [4] He is just not that into you if he disappears on you, being abusive to
you. And dump those weirdos and jerks.
There’s nothing worse than having no answer, in business, friendships, and
especially romantic relationships. But the bad news is, no answer is your
answer. He may not have written you a good-bye note, but his silence is a
deafening “see you later.” The only reason to ever write him again is to
give him the chance to say it louder, with words. And don’t you remember?
You’re far too b | s****y
发帖数: 3416 | 5 [5] Don't let statistics scare you. Have faith in YOUR life!
Being lonely, being alone, for many people, sucks. I get it, I get it, I get
it. But still I have to say that, yes, my true belief is that being with
somebody who makes you feel shitty or doesn’t honor the person you are, is
worse.
The statistics are bleak. But don’t use statistics to keep you down or keep
you frightened. You can’t do anything with these statistics except scare
yourself and your girlfriends. So I say, “Fuck statistics. |
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