f*********s
发帖数: 11 | 1 一直努力中，只是陷进去好难拔出来哦。。。。怎么样才能GET OVER那个人呀。。。。
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i*********l
发帖数: 254 | 2 1.放自己一个星期假。什么都不干。等到饿的不行的时候找东西吃，等到眼睛睁不大的
时候睡过去。然后突然间发现还有很多事情要做。然后去忙事情。。。
忙过一阵子，又想起那个人，重复1。。。
来回N次，放假的周期会变短。。。N视人而变。 |
a*********3
发帖数: 660 | 3 看起来不错，回来我试试
【在 i*********l 的大作中提到】
: 1.放自己一个星期假。什么都不干。等到饿的不行的时候找东西吃，等到眼睛睁不大的
: 时候睡过去。然后突然间发现还有很多事情要做。然后去忙事情。。。
: 忙过一阵子，又想起那个人，重复1。。。
: 来回N次，放假的周期会变短。。。N视人而变。
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i****n
发帖数: 13151 | 4
我试了，好像不是很管用哎
可能要忙起来了再试才管用
【在 i*********l 的大作中提到】
: 1.放自己一个星期假。什么都不干。等到饿的不行的时候找东西吃，等到眼睛睁不大的
: 时候睡过去。然后突然间发现还有很多事情要做。然后去忙事情。。。
: 忙过一阵子，又想起那个人，重复1。。。
: 来回N次，放假的周期会变短。。。N视人而变。
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m*****0
发帖数: 176 | 5 I am trying now...
1. sports;
2. set up a new email account;
3. forget anything good about her;
4. try to pick up anything bad about her;
3,4 are what she did on her side, as she told me.
【在 f*********s 的大作中提到】
: 一直努力中，只是陷进去好难拔出来哦。。。。怎么样才能GET OVER那个人呀。。。。
: 。
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i*********l
发帖数: 254 | 6 don't do 4 please, otherwise you remember her, still!!!
3 and 4 should be "forget anything about her"
【在 m*****0 的大作中提到】
: I am trying now...
: 1. sports;
: 2. set up a new email account;
: 3. forget anything good about her;
: 4. try to pick up anything bad about her;
: 3,4 are what she did on her side, as she told me.
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l**5
发帖数: 469 | 7 嗯，删掉ta的联络方式。做别的事情转移注意力。找好朋友聊聊（网络上的现实中的都
可以）或者一起hang out。don't try to push yourself too hard.忘掉ta不是一天两
天的事情。
一位心理学家说过：失恋为什么会那么痛苦是因为我们对自己失去了信心。所以，现在
你该做的是重拾自信。等你再自信满满的时候，自然而然的，ta也就没有那么bother你
了。加油！
PS:我近期也失恋了，呵呵... |
m*****0
发帖数: 176 | 8 Is that true that the one, who initiates the breakup, has less pain and
can get it over faster?
I still do not understand how come she could chat with me without any
problems. She said she is helping me to get over. sigh...
【在 l**5 的大作中提到】
: 嗯，删掉ta的联络方式。做别的事情转移注意力。找好朋友聊聊（网络上的现实中的都
: 可以）或者一起hang out。don't try to push yourself too hard.忘掉ta不是一天两
: 天的事情。
: 一位心理学家说过：失恋为什么会那么痛苦是因为我们对自己失去了信心。所以，现在
: 你该做的是重拾自信。等你再自信满满的时候，自然而然的，ta也就没有那么bother你
: 了。加油！
: PS:我近期也失恋了，呵呵...
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l**5
发帖数: 469 | 9 Well.. it depends on the situation. It also depends on how much feeling she
has on you. The more one loves, the more he/she suffers. It doesn't matter
who initiates the breakup.
At this point, just stop wondering why she had no problems to chat with you.
Get rid of asking any other Wh-question. The more you wonder, the harder
you can get over. Just let it go,and give yourself a break. Otherwise, you
won't be able to relieve.
As to her..., I don't believe she is really helping you by talking to you as
usual. It's more like she's helping herself. People always expect the
others to do the way they want, and they assume it's better for both sides.
Unfortunately, most of the time, it just doesn't work...
I wish I could give you a hug.
Feel better.
Bless you.
【在 m*****0 的大作中提到】
: Is that true that the one, who initiates the breakup, has less pain and
: can get it over faster?
: I still do not understand how come she could chat with me without any
: problems. She said she is helping me to get over. sigh...
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m*****0
发帖数: 176 | 10 Thanks a lot. It makes me feel better. Hope I can pull myself out as
soon as possible.
feeling she
matter
with you.
harder
you
you as
sides.
【在 l**5 的大作中提到】
: Well.. it depends on the situation. It also depends on how much feeling she
: has on you. The more one loves, the more he/she suffers. It doesn't matter
: who initiates the breakup.
: At this point, just stop wondering why she had no problems to chat with you.
: Get rid of asking any other Wh-question. The more you wonder, the harder
: you can get over. Just let it go,and give yourself a break. Otherwise, you
: won't be able to relieve.
: As to her..., I don't believe she is really helping you by talking to you as
: usual. It's more like she's helping herself. People always expect the
: others to do the way they want, and they assume it's better for both sides.
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l**5
发帖数: 469 | 11 I am glad it helps.
Tomorrow is a brand new day. You should believe in yourself that everything
will be better. Confidence will make you shine, and you will be very
attractive. ^_^
Best wishes!
【在 m*****0 的大作中提到】
: Thanks a lot. It makes me feel better. Hope I can pull myself out as
: soon as possible.
:
: feeling she
: matter
: with you.
: harder
: you
: you as
: sides.
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m**y
发帖数: 191 | 12 She suffers much more than you do. She lost a person who loves her and you
lost a person who does not love you.
Take it easy.
【在 m*****0 的大作中提到】
: Is that true that the one, who initiates the breakup, has less pain and
: can get it over faster?
: I still do not understand how come she could chat with me without any
: problems. She said she is helping me to get over. sigh...
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m*****0
发帖数: 176 | 13 是的.
但有时觉得她很决绝, 内心很受伤.
you
【在 m**y 的大作中提到】
: She suffers much more than you do. She lost a person who loves her and you
: lost a person who does not love you.
: Take it easy.
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m*****g
发帖数: 49 | 14 Dude，这么简单的问题，再找一个get laid.
【在 f*********s 的大作中提到】
: 一直努力中，只是陷进去好难拔出来哦。。。。怎么样才能GET OVER那个人呀。。。。
: 。
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C****P
发帖数: 577 | 15 时间和另外的TA。如果还是没法getover，说明时间不够长，另外的TA不够好。 |
