T**********v
发帖数: 30 | 1 First of all, I am under the influence of alcohol now, but I am frustrated
because I have a crush on my attending,
He is a white man in his late 40s, of course, he is the boss of the service.
Physically, he is my type, and intellectually, he is my type. Sometimes
during rounding, he looks into my eyes, and I look into his, he will say a
few brief words and I will say a few as an answer. I am not sure the rest of
the world understand us, but I think I do and he does. Is it impossible to
avoid this type of work-crush in the medical field? We spend long hours
together and talk about medical problems sounding like secrets that other
people don't understand.
I am married for 6 years, I am not sure I am happy, But I am not unhappy
with my husband. I trust him and rely on him.
I am finishing my rotation soon, it will all be gone. I know this is not my
first crush or last crush on my attending , in a few years, I will become an
attending myself, then what? | M****a
发帖数: 577 | | A*******s
发帖数: 9638 | 3 In medical practice, you would see a lot of people who are outstanding in
their field and physically attracting as well. They could include patients,
their family members, your collegues and medical staff you work with. Never
, ever have any relationship with them, this is the bottom line. Or you
could end up with a big trouble. | T**********v
发帖数: 30 | 4 Thanks for your input and advice, but the emotion moves like ocean waves, it
drives me to work longer and harder. I will ask for my recommendation
letter from him in next a few days
in a professional way, it will be hard to look at his eyes and say it
calmly. I am also afraid the rotation will end, I will not see him again. | A*******s
发帖数: 9638 | 5 Then avoid eye contact, lol
C'mon, just a good friend, and let the time to forget.
it
【在 T**********v 的大作中提到】
: Thanks for your input and advice, but the emotion moves like ocean waves, it
: drives me to work longer and harder. I will ask for my recommendation
: letter from him in next a few days
: in a professional way, it will be hard to look at his eyes and say it
: calmly. I am also afraid the rotation will end, I will not see him again.
| s********o
发帖数: 3319 | 6 this makes the story look like a real one...
【在 M****a 的大作中提到】
: "crush", not "crash"...
| a*********d
发帖数: 2763 | 7 move on girl, you will meet people that are even better and you will soon be
over it, hehehe
it's easy to develop some kind of attachment at work because you are
stressed and vulnerable, that attending is just a regular attending but his
charm is magnified because of that certain environment. hold your emotion
and be professional, otherwise it will become a joke. | s********o
发帖数: 3319 | 8 I agree with the two As :'( | M****a
发帖数: 577 | 9 7-year itch. Now is Year 6. She'll get over it. | k********n
发帖数: 756 | 10 If I go to gym, I fall in love immediately with the wonderful curvatures I
see from the side or behind. Therefore, I just stare at them and then get
tired of them completely in 5 seconds. | | | A*******s
发帖数: 9638 | 11 For you, I have additional advice:
不管是整的还是零的， 活的还是死的， 都不要冲动啊， 嗯？ ：）
【在 s********o 的大作中提到】
: I agree with the two As :'(
| d********y
发帖数: 616 | 12 等有一天，你真正强大了，你就不会Crush on him了。你只会在更高的层面上把他累死
。嘿嘿。。。 | T**********v
发帖数: 30 | 13 Many thanks to everyone. I will try to let the emotion go like a sweet light
breeze. That is it.
Haha, in a few years, I will be a female attn, hope I will have good-looking
residents!! Cannot wait. | k********n
发帖数: 756 | 14 I had an attending who married his resident who was more than 10 years
younger than him. His wife was, is and will be the CEO for a big hospital,
and of course makes millions.
If you are not married, it is not big deal if you handle it correctly, in an
American way. | w***0
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