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All My Exes Live in Texts: Why the Social Media Generation Never Really
Breaks Up
BY MAUREEN O'CONNOR
I have 700 friends on Facebook, 36 of whom I consider exes. Not all are ex-
boyfriends—in the eleven years that “boyfriend” has been a name for men
in my life, I have referred to nine as “boyfriends.” The rest are men I
dated casually, guys I dated disastrously, make-out buddies, one-night
stands, vacation flings, and a few boys I never touched but flirted with so
heavily they can no longer be categorized as “just friends.” These people
aren’t ex-boyfriends but they’re ex-something, weighted with enough
personal history to make my stomach drop when they message me or pop up in
social-media feeds. Which is pretty often. |
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