m*********1
发帖数: 307 | 1 Damm, there is no Chinese imput here and I have a lot of anger to let out.
9 months pregnancy and last night i didnt sleep well because of contraction/
accompanying pain. I didn't feel well this morning and wanted to sleep more
. LG woke up at 9:30ish and he is playing chess online for 3 hours,
basically did nothing but chess!
during the time, i told him i had contraction last night and i didn't sleep
well and hoped he could be more considerate and act more like an adult. He
heated his own bread and had breakfast and continued with chess. I asked him
to prepare breakfast for me, he said "since you've already out of bed, (i
am brushing my teeth and getting some water), you can heat your bread
yourself.' He never put down his tablet during the time. also said "dont
treat pregnancy as a big deal""i dont need you to have baby if I had a
uterus" in a joking tone but it was reflecting his thoughts I know.
after I fixed a quick breakfast and lying in the bed until 12, he is still
playing chess, didn't even move his butt a little bit. it is around time to
make lunch and I know he is expecting me to do everything. All of sudden i
got so mad and I stormed out and tried to grab his tablet from him. Looking
into his eyes, he is just a gabbler and it is like the tablet was his WHOLE
LIFE.
Jesus Christ! I was too nice to let him play chess all the time before and
never got seviuos with him about it, and he is totally addicted to it.Just
feeling so disapointed and sad and outrageous, I left home and I dont know
what should I do. For a second I wanted to do extreme things but I know it
is the hormone.
Am I over reacted? I can't complain this to anyone, not to my mom, to any
friend or anybody. But I feel so bad. Everytime I had this kind of thought,
I started to think the whole marriage is a mistake and whole baby thing is a
mistake. that mkae me more painful. |
c******s
发帖数: 1271 | 2 帮你google translate下。。
达姆，有没有中国的洋“在这里，让我很愤怒了。
9个月的怀孕和昨晚我没有睡觉，因为收缩/
伴随着疼痛。我不觉得今天早上想多睡
。 LG9:30 ISH醒来的时候，他是在玩象棋在线3小时，
基本上什么也没做，但棋！
那段时间，我告诉他我有收缩昨晚我没有睡觉
，希望他能多体谅行为更像是一个成人。他
加热自己的面包和早餐，并继续与国际象棋。我问他：
为我准备早餐，他说：“既然你已经脱离了床，（我
我刷牙和变得有些水），你可以加热的面包
你自己。“他从来没有放下自己的平板电脑的时间内。也说“不
治疗一个大问题“，”我不需要你有孩子，如果我有一个怀孕
在一个开玩笑的口吻，但它反映了他的想法，我知道的子宫“。
固定快捷的早餐后，我躺在床上，直到12时，他仍然是
下棋，甚至没有一点点把他的屁股。它是左右的时间
午餐和我知道他希望我做的一切。突然间我
有这么疯了，我怒气冲冲地离开，并试图从他抓住自己的平板电脑。展望
他的眼睛，他仅仅是一个gabbler，它是像平板电脑是他的整个
LIFE。
耶稣基督！我实在太好了，让他下棋前的时间和
从来没有seviuos他的时候，他完全沉迷于it.Just
disapointed和悲伤，令人发指的感觉，我离开了家，我不知道
我应该怎么办。第二，我想要做极端的事情，但我知道这
是的激素。
我过什么反应呢？我不能抱怨任何人，而不是我的妈妈，对任何
朋友或任何人。不过，我觉得这样不好。每当我有这种思想，
我一开始以为整个婚姻是一个错误，整个婴儿用品是一个
错误。我更痛苦mkae的。 |
b*******y
发帖数: 12791 | 3 一脚踹到地上去
contraction/
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him
【在 m*********1 的大作中提到】
: Damm, there is no Chinese imput here and I have a lot of anger to let out.
: 9 months pregnancy and last night i didnt sleep well because of contraction/
: accompanying pain. I didn't feel well this morning and wanted to sleep more
: . LG woke up at 9:30ish and he is playing chess online for 3 hours,
: basically did nothing but chess!
: during the time, i told him i had contraction last night and i didn't sleep
: well and hoped he could be more considerate and act more like an adult. He
: heated his own bread and had breakfast and continued with chess. I asked him
: to prepare breakfast for me, he said "since you've already out of bed, (i
: am brushing my teeth and getting some water), you can heat your bread
|
p********0
发帖数: 6313 | 4 你都快生了他还长不大，，是他的问题。
你今天还是出去走走，，不要回家了，，冷静下来再说。
如果晚上回家也不要和他说话，，
有些人就是沉迷在网络中，，有小孩子了，这样的人都没有办法帮你的。
那样你更加累。
他自己还不意识到自己要做爸爸了，你冷静下来和他好好谈谈，，
等娃生了，他需要做什么，都把任务布置好了，他同意了才行。如果他不愿意的话，，
我觉得MM你就要留后路了。 |
b*********k
发帖数: 35031 | 5 patpat mm，平时不这样就好，有时候上瘾了难免脑子转的方向不对头。。。
contraction/
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sleep
him
【在 m*********1 的大作中提到】
: Damm, there is no Chinese imput here and I have a lot of anger to let out.
: 9 months pregnancy and last night i didnt sleep well because of contraction/
: accompanying pain. I didn't feel well this morning and wanted to sleep more
: . LG woke up at 9:30ish and he is playing chess online for 3 hours,
: basically did nothing but chess!
: during the time, i told him i had contraction last night and i didn't sleep
: well and hoped he could be more considerate and act more like an adult. He
: heated his own bread and had breakfast and continued with chess. I asked him
: to prepare breakfast for me, he said "since you've already out of bed, (i
: am brushing my teeth and getting some water), you can heat your bread
|
l********l
发帖数: 1240 | 6 他平时也这样吗？找个时间好好谈谈，要不生了孩子，有你受的了。mm在工作吗？ |
b*******e
发帖数: 6920 | |
y*******r
发帖数: 2337 | 8 这中文比英文还难懂
★ 发自iPhone App: ChineseWeb 7.5
【在 c******s 的大作中提到】
: 帮你google translate下。。
: 达姆，有没有中国的洋“在这里，让我很愤怒了。
: 9个月的怀孕和昨晚我没有睡觉，因为收缩/
: 伴随着疼痛。我不觉得今天早上想多睡
: 。 LG9:30 ISH醒来的时候，他是在玩象棋在线3小时，
: 基本上什么也没做，但棋！
: 那段时间，我告诉他我有收缩昨晚我没有睡觉
: ，希望他能多体谅行为更像是一个成人。他
: 加热自己的面包和早餐，并继续与国际象棋。我问他：
: 为我准备早餐，他说：“既然你已经脱离了床，（我
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y*******r
发帖数: 2337 | 9 所以说老公不能宠。可能以前什么事都是你帮他做的，现在他就take you for granted
。
如果他有uterus他就自己生。放他个狗屁！怀孕那么简单啊！
contraction/
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sleep
★ 发自iPhone App: ChineseWeb 7.5
【在 m*********1 的大作中提到】
: Damm, there is no Chinese imput here and I have a lot of anger to let out.
: 9 months pregnancy and last night i didnt sleep well because of contraction/
: accompanying pain. I didn't feel well this morning and wanted to sleep more
: . LG woke up at 9:30ish and he is playing chess online for 3 hours,
: basically did nothing but chess!
: during the time, i told him i had contraction last night and i didn't sleep
: well and hoped he could be more considerate and act more like an adult. He
: heated his own bread and had breakfast and continued with chess. I asked him
: to prepare breakfast for me, he said "since you've already out of bed, (i
: am brushing my teeth and getting some water), you can heat your bread
|
j**********a
发帖数: 1259 | 10 我就不喜欢也有些人拿荷尔蒙说事儿！我怀孕期间，lg说来着，当着他面，就把碗使劲
摔地上，粉碎。。。。。。从此以后，他再也不拿荷尔蒙说事儿了。。。。。。
静静想一下，你着急也不能解决问题，别动胎气。你就说你不舒服，或者。。。。。。
总之，使让他给你做饭，干活等等，你吃不好，孩子也吃不好吧？这个道理，你老公明
白吧！
contraction/
more
sleep
him
【在 m*********1 的大作中提到】
: Damm, there is no Chinese imput here and I have a lot of anger to let out.
: 9 months pregnancy and last night i didnt sleep well because of contraction/
: accompanying pain. I didn't feel well this morning and wanted to sleep more
: . LG woke up at 9:30ish and he is playing chess online for 3 hours,
: basically did nothing but chess!
: during the time, i told him i had contraction last night and i didn't sleep
: well and hoped he could be more considerate and act more like an adult. He
: heated his own bread and had breakfast and continued with chess. I asked him
: to prepare breakfast for me, he said "since you've already out of bed, (i
: am brushing my teeth and getting some water), you can heat your bread
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y*******r
发帖数: 2337 | 11 他不做饭，你也别做就是了。何必发火伤神呢。
contraction/
more
sleep
★ 发自iPhone App: ChineseWeb 7.5
【在 m*********1 的大作中提到】
: Damm, there is no Chinese imput here and I have a lot of anger to let out.
: 9 months pregnancy and last night i didnt sleep well because of contraction/
: accompanying pain. I didn't feel well this morning and wanted to sleep more
: . LG woke up at 9:30ish and he is playing chess online for 3 hours,
: basically did nothing but chess!
: during the time, i told him i had contraction last night and i didn't sleep
: well and hoped he could be more considerate and act more like an adult. He
: heated his own bread and had breakfast and continued with chess. I asked him
: to prepare breakfast for me, he said "since you've already out of bed, (i
: am brushing my teeth and getting some water), you can heat your bread
|
s*******e
发帖数: 15758 | |
z*****6
发帖数: 1486 | 13 荷尔蒙说事有什么不好？说明你老公体谅你偶尔脾气坏是有客观原因的。难道说你就希
望你老公认为你天性就是脾气坏？
【在 j**********a 的大作中提到】
: 我就不喜欢也有些人拿荷尔蒙说事儿！我怀孕期间，lg说来着，当着他面，就把碗使劲
: 摔地上，粉碎。。。。。。从此以后，他再也不拿荷尔蒙说事儿了。。。。。。
: 静静想一下，你着急也不能解决问题，别动胎气。你就说你不舒服，或者。。。。。。
: 总之，使让他给你做饭，干活等等，你吃不好，孩子也吃不好吧？这个道理，你老公明
: 白吧！
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z*****6
发帖数: 1486 | 14 沟通吧。。貌似你老公没有意识到你到底有什么诉求。他的确做得很不周到。但是你生
了一早上的闷气，人家还完全不知道为啥的样子。 |
p*******n
发帖数: 1003 | 15 Pat pat... Your husband doesn't seem to have grown up or is ready to be a
dad... I think you have every right to be upset but I don't know what to say
to help you. |
B**Q
发帖数: 284 | 16 ＬＺ需要野蛮一下来惩罚你老公，与其在这里寻找安慰，不如让他痛悔自己所作所
为。至于怎么野蛮，你肯定更清楚，毕竟你最了解他。但小声提醒一句，不管怎么让他
不痛快，ＭＭ自己跟自己别生气，更要保护好孩子。 |
