D*********Y
发帖数: 3382 | 1 My daughter has been attending the same daycare since when she was 5 months
old. She graduated from two infant classes and now this one is her 3rd one.
Every morning when we send her to the class which she has been there for
about 4 months, she refuses to say goodbye. (She used to say byebye for a
certain period.) No matter how we (including the careprovider) encourage her
, she just does not say byebye and does not want to look at us. She stands
still, observes around or plays toys. I can tell her face says "unhappy".
We talked with the careproviders and they told us my daughter was very
active in class, a normal kid like others.
She behaviors totally differently when we come to pick her up. She looks
excited and asks for her backpack, milk in the fridge and says byebye to the
other kids and the careproviders.
Is it normal? Is it just because of the unwillingness to separate from
parents? Any other kids behavior the same way? | n****f
发帖数: 3580 | 2 上了1年半daycare, 我娃送去时也一直拒绝说goodbye, 但他在那里很快乐。
听老师说，有的孩子就那样。也许一开始是不想爸爸妈妈走的意思，后来养成了习惯。 | D*********Y
发帖数: 3382 | 3 Thanks!
【在 n****f 的大作中提到】
: 上了1年半daycare, 我娃送去时也一直拒绝说goodbye, 但他在那里很快乐。
: 听老师说，有的孩子就那样。也许一开始是不想爸爸妈妈走的意思，后来养成了习惯。
| s*******t
发帖数: 7746 | | O******A
发帖数: 335 | 5 我女儿以前也是这样。后来我在网上看了一篇文章，就照着试了一下，每天送去的时候
，亲一下，再搂着她说，今天妈妈要干什么，爸爸要干什么，然后放学时妈妈来接你。
现在我们就把亲一下，抱一下当做bye bye了。不过也有可能是她长大了，习惯了。 | z******2
发帖数: 1907 | 6 same here!
one severe day, she cried and I put her on the floor.
months
her
【在 D*********Y 的大作中提到】
: My daughter has been attending the same daycare since when she was 5 months
: old. She graduated from two infant classes and now this one is her 3rd one.
: Every morning when we send her to the class which she has been there for
: about 4 months, she refuses to say goodbye. (She used to say byebye for a
: certain period.) No matter how we (including the careprovider) encourage her
: , she just does not say byebye and does not want to look at us. She stands
: still, observes around or plays toys. I can tell her face says "unhappy".
: We talked with the careproviders and they told us my daughter was very
: active in class, a normal kid like others.
: She behaviors totally differently when we come to pick her up. She looks
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