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发帖数: 3580 | 2 You can google!
Here is a good one:
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/terrible-twos/AN02124
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Question
Terrible twos: Why are 2-year-olds so difficult?
I've heard a lot about the terrible twos. Why are 2-year-olds so difficult?
Answer from Jay L. Hoecker, M.D.
The terrible twos are a normal stage in a toddler's development
characterized by mood changes, temper tantrums and use of the word "no." The
terrible twos typically occur when toddlers begin to struggle between their
reliance on adults and their desire for independence. One minute a child
might be clinging to mom or dad, and the next he or she is running in the
opposite direction.
While the terrible twos can be difficult for parents and caregivers to
navigate, keep in mind that 2-year-olds are undergoing major motor,
intellectual, social and emotional changes. Their vocabularies are growing,
they're eager to do things on their own, and they're beginning to discover
that they're expected to follow certain rules. However, most 2-year-olds
still aren't able to move as swiftly as they'd like, clearly communicate
their needs or control their feelings. This can lead to frustration and
misbehavior — in other words, the terrible twos.
If your child is in the midst of the terrible twos, expect that you'll
occasionally lose patience with each other. Try to stay calm, however. When
your child has a temper tantrum, offer comfort or ignore the behavior. Try
to limit your use of the word "no." Instead, use other forms of discipline,
such as redirection or humor. Also, consider avoiding challenging situations
— such as going shopping during your child's nap time — and be sure to
praise your child for appropriate behavior.
By accepting the changes your child is going through and showing him or her
love and respect, you'll help your child make it through this difficult
stage with confidence.
【在 r****y 的大作中提到】
: 不知道怎么对付不讲道理的小朋友。大人的话听得半懂不懂的，脾气又还倔
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