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发帖数: 172 | 1 发信人: Grandmaster (Garry Kasparov), 信区: WmGame
标 题: Re: Enough is enough
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Sep 17 11:23:58 2013, 美东)
Hate has a reason for everything love is unreasonable.
Bullying can be classified into two categories:
direct bullying, and
indirect bullying (which is also known as social aggression)
Psychological research found bullies may be among the most popular and
socially connected in their environment. It is the case in our tlj room. The
bullies here are some high hands, they have circles, and they do indirect
bullying.
Social aggression or indirect bullying is characterized by attempting to
socially isolate the victim. When those high handed player laughing at/
mocking players out of their circle, kicking them, false accusing them, or
doing something like LZ doing, it is bullying, too.
天天污言秽语骂大街 certainly is a form of bullying, but it also can be a
form of reaction to bullying.
I would say to solve this we all should first stop bullying ourselves, in
any forms. For those guys been 天天污言秽语骂大街, my advice is stop
confrontation and try communicate. If you can show little empathy toward
others, for sure that is one of characteristics of bullying.
Another advice to those open black shops, black shop is a form of bullying,
too, it is psychological threat to other players, it elicits negative
responses very often. The key word here is empathy, meaning recognize
emotions that are being experienced by another party.
Advice to LZ, stop bullying and show empathy. For legal action, there are
tons of lawyers can provide you legal advice if needed. Why not pick up the
phone and use their first half hour free consultation service?
Good luck, and wish us all happy games | m*****g
发帖数: 12253 | 2 讲的好，
棋牌室里那些斗鸡一样的人要离他们远点，
和他们讲理是没用的，我都是直接忽视他们， | c********n
发帖数: 2244 | 3 我已经很久没有去棋牌室了，当初因人而去，也因人而弃。
来兴趣的时候，我一人登录四个马甲，单独开一桌，还专门
坐99桌或100桌，那是多大的威风。
可是拖拉机房真是一个冒险家的乐园，各种的惊心动魄，小
心脏受不了的，还是别去的好。
【在 m*****g 的大作中提到】
: 讲的好，
: 棋牌室里那些斗鸡一样的人要离他们远点，
: 和他们讲理是没用的，我都是直接忽视他们，
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