r***s
发帖数: 1805 | 1 发信人: Dreamer (不要问我从哪里来), 信区: Dreamer
标 题: 我朋友死了ZT
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon Aug 18 13:05:28 2014, 美东)
我朋友小赵，前天自杀了，她是个心理很复杂的人，也特敏感，总怀疑她男朋友出轨，
可是她男友是我哥们（XXX），我知道这是没影的事。
周一，他们俩吵了一架，小赵哭着来到我家，我那天心情特差，就骂她多疑，那怪XXX
会生气，不要她。然后她就离开了我家，直到前天我才听说她自杀了。她喝了一大瓶杀
虫剂。
结果，这几天，我总感觉后背有寒气，可是我们家并不冷啊！半夜睡觉总感觉有人在我
们家客厅里哭，声音正是小赵的，而且家里现在总是出现蜘蛛，可是我家7楼，并且以
前从来没有蜘蛛的，我真的崩溃了。今天上午，我去了她的葬礼，给她献了一束花，为
她悼念了很久才走，在葬礼上看见了那位XXX，他神情恍惚，似笑非笑，特恐怖，而且
说了一些奇怪的话，下午他手机也不开，单位也没有来。
我确定我的感觉没有错，她的死真的和我有关吗？我到底该怎么办 | r***s
发帖数: 1805 | | j*****5
发帖数: 5135 | 3 Yes of course her death has something to do with you, but not 100%, maybe 50
%.
The other 50% is her fault why does she choose a friend like you. | m********t
发帖数: 13072 | 4 这就是为什么，凡是家里不顺的大妈，找我诉苦，我都洗耳恭听，绝对不说一句批评的
话，
那个节骨眼，谁对谁错，有那么重要吗？ 人家又不是指望你做法官的，大多是情绪低
落，找个发泄点而已
我这种做法，就是让那些大妈心情稍微好起来，不至于走绝路，起码她们还觉得有我这
么一个理解她们的。心情好了，什么事都好办多了。 心情差，人家跳下去，你不后悔
啊？ | j*****5
发帖数: 5135 | 5 but but he is a man.
What he should have done is be a man, and xoxo her, then she will feel
better.
【在 m********t 的大作中提到】
: 这就是为什么，凡是家里不顺的大妈，找我诉苦，我都洗耳恭听，绝对不说一句批评的
: 话，
: 那个节骨眼，谁对谁错，有那么重要吗？ 人家又不是指望你做法官的，大多是情绪低
: 落，找个发泄点而已
: 我这种做法，就是让那些大妈心情稍微好起来，不至于走绝路，起码她们还觉得有我这
: 么一个理解她们的。心情好了，什么事都好办多了。 心情差，人家跳下去，你不后悔
: 啊？
| r***s
发帖数: 1805 | 6 吓人的是"半夜睡觉总感觉有人在我们家客厅里哭", 难道这世上真有鬼? 记得我奶奶去
世的后几天,我一直听到半夜我家厨房里餐具敲打发出的声音 (我奶奶烧菜的时候喜欢
敲打几下锅啊什么的).然后有一天半夜收到一个变了音的(象电影里处理过的恐怖声音)
电话,吓的我半死.后来我家搬了以后就没有了. | j*****5
发帖数: 5135 | 7 Now think about it.
She came to a man, and complain that her husband don't want her and want
another woman.
Now think about that why didn't she talk to a woman about these things?
Obviously, she want to see if man still interested in her and want her.
You said to her that 那怪 her husband don't want her.
That to her sound like you don't want her either. So she feel no man on
earth want her anymore. Her husband don't want her, her male friend don't
want her, she is alone, no one loves her, nobody cares.
That's why she choose to leave this cold hard world.
And you sir, are really a fool. | r***s
发帖数: 1805 | 8 分析的不错.我觉得那家伙是个傻蛋,应该安慰才对.
【在 j*****5 的大作中提到】
: Now think about it.
: She came to a man, and complain that her husband don't want her and want
: another woman.
: Now think about that why didn't she talk to a woman about these things?
: Obviously, she want to see if man still interested in her and want her.
: You said to her that 那怪 her husband don't want her.
: That to her sound like you don't want her either. So she feel no man on
: earth want her anymore. Her husband don't want her, her male friend don't
: want her, she is alone, no one loves her, nobody cares.
: That's why she choose to leave this cold hard world.
| j*****5
发帖数: 5135 | 9 Yes, her spirit or other spirits is still around.
音)
【在 r***s 的大作中提到】
: 吓人的是"半夜睡觉总感觉有人在我们家客厅里哭", 难道这世上真有鬼? 记得我奶奶去
: 世的后几天,我一直听到半夜我家厨房里餐具敲打发出的声音 (我奶奶烧菜的时候喜欢
: 敲打几下锅啊什么的).然后有一天半夜收到一个变了音的(象电影里处理过的恐怖声音)
: 电话,吓的我半死.后来我家搬了以后就没有了.
| j*****5
发帖数: 5135 | 10 But no need to be afraid of a spirit.
We have body and a spirit.
She has just a spirit, how bad can it be.
Let her spirit cry a little, then she will leave for a better world.
【在 j*****5 的大作中提到】
: Yes, her spirit or other spirits is still around.
:
: 音)
| j*****5
发帖数: 5135 | 11 If I were him, when I hear the cry at night. I would say to her spirit
something like, I am sorry, I was a wrong person for you to seek help. I
don't know how to comfort you and make you feel worse, it's my fault and I
am so sorry, but I do love you as a friend.
I am sorry to see you go, but you will find a better place in heaven, where
there is no pain, no tears, only joy and laughter. All you need to do is
just ask Jesus to help you and he will take you there. | E******w
发帖数: 2616 | 12 What he is afraid of is that, maybe actually he only has a body, which is
what the spirit needs.
【在 j*****5 的大作中提到】
: But no need to be afraid of a spirit.
: We have body and a spirit.
: She has just a spirit, how bad can it be.
: Let her spirit cry a little, then she will leave for a better world.
| j*****5
发帖数: 5135 | 13 Yeah, he is afraid that when the female spirit take his body over, he will
become a gay.
【在 E******w 的大作中提到】
: What he is afraid of is that, maybe actually he only has a body, which is
: what the spirit needs.
| r***s
发帖数: 1805 | 14 有spirit就好了,死了以后亲人可以团聚了.
【在 j*****5 的大作中提到】
: But no need to be afraid of a spirit.
: We have body and a spirit.
: She has just a spirit, how bad can it be.
: Let her spirit cry a little, then she will leave for a better world.
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