Z***e
发帖数: 3693 | 1 前版大前几天还惦记着我老，我老来冒个泡，也给大家看看我老上周工作之余和这个周末做成的半成品吧台。 |
Z***e
发帖数: 3693 | 2 吧台里的柜子是买的现成的 Base cabinet 和 Wall cabinets 改装的。 |
b*****n
发帖数: 10665 | 3 敬仰中~~~~
周末做成的半成品吧台。
【在 Z***e 的大作中提到】
: 前版大前几天还惦记着我老，我老来冒个泡，也给大家看看我老上周工作之余和这个周末做成的半成品吧台。
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b*****n
发帖数: 10665 | 4 周末大家估计都是节目多多，没啥人上这里逛当。
这么强的帖子竟然让俺抢了头号板凳：-）
周末做成的半成品吧台。
【在 Z***e 的大作中提到】
: 前版大前几天还惦记着我老，我老来冒个泡，也给大家看看我老上周工作之余和这个周末做成的半成品吧台。
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c*h
发帖数: 33018 | 5 佩服！佩服！
你这是革命生产俩不误。
周末做成的半成品吧台。
【在 Z***e 的大作中提到】
: 前版大前几天还惦记着我老，我老来冒个泡，也给大家看看我老上周工作之余和这个周末做成的半成品吧台。
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c*h
发帖数: 33018 | 6 MM，可好。什么时候发一个小龙女的片片？
【在 b*****n 的大作中提到】
: 周末大家估计都是节目多多，没啥人上这里逛当。
: 这么强的帖子竟然让俺抢了头号板凳：-）
:
: 周末做成的半成品吧台。
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j***a
发帖数: 10844 | 7 也许都在弄tax。
【在 b*****n 的大作中提到】
: 周末大家估计都是节目多多，没啥人上这里逛当。
: 这么强的帖子竟然让俺抢了头号板凳：-）
:
: 周末做成的半成品吧台。
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b*****1
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b*****n
发帖数: 10665 | 9 没啥好片片，晚上发个看看？
【在 c*h 的大作中提到】
: MM，可好。什么时候发一个小龙女的片片？
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z***y
发帖数: 7151 | 10 现在晚上能睡几个小时？
【在 b*****n 的大作中提到】
: 没啥好片片，晚上发个看看？
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b*****n
发帖数: 10665 | 11 前几天白天特乖，晚上闹腾,昨儿头一次晚上睡了4-5个小时
【在 z***y 的大作中提到】
: 现在晚上能睡几个小时？
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z***y
发帖数: 7151 | 12 小家伙能吃吗？
【在 b*****n 的大作中提到】
: 前几天白天特乖，晚上闹腾,昨儿头一次晚上睡了4-5个小时
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b*****n
发帖数: 10665 | 13 能吃，小猪猪一只：P
前版大，这楼歪了。。。
【在 z***y 的大作中提到】
: 小家伙能吃吗？
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j***a
发帖数: 10844 | 14 晚上发？你不会是已经上班了吧？
【在 b*****n 的大作中提到】
: 没啥好片片，晚上发个看看？
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i****y
发帖数: 5184 | 15 Is it normal? I started to worry lately.
【在 b*****n 的大作中提到】
: 前几天白天特乖，晚上闹腾,昨儿头一次晚上睡了4-5个小时
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z***y
发帖数: 7151 | 16 MM表担心。 最重要的是心情放松， 把第一个孩子当成第二个孩子养。
我给你看一篇文章吧：
原文出处：http://washingtonparent.com/articles/1103/parent.php
btw， 我觉得这个group还是很有益处加入地：
Relax and Enjoy
Tips From a Seasoned Parent
By Claire Yezbak Fadden
I didn’t like being the youngest. I’d complain about not being allowed to
do the same things my brothers, George and Paul, and my sister Sadye did. It
wasn’t fair that I had the earliest bedtime. It was no fun being the baby.
My older siblings’ viewed it differently. They thought I had the special
spot in the family tree. Occasionally, they’d used another word (that also
begins with sp) to describe the baby—spoiled.
That’s because, thanks to their early trial-and-error efforts, my mom was a
seasoned single parent by the time I was three. And that seasoning
contributed to the person I am: outgoing, creative and competitive, all
traits associated with last-borns. Oh yeah—and a little spoiled.
I’m a mom now. The birth order of my sons, Shawn, Jake and Seth, doesn’t
affect how much I love them. But, I have to confess that it’s been a bit
easier to parent my second child. And, like the comfort of using a broken-in
baseball glove, Seth, my youngest, benefits from how Shawn and Jake
softened the leather of my parenting skills.
I was in my mid-20s when Shawn was born. And I boiled everything: bottles,
pacifiers, brushes, spoons, bowls. If something hadn’t been thoroughly
disinfected (at temperatures north of 180 degrees Fahrenheit), it didn’t
touch my baby’s mouth.
I’d learned to lighten up some by the time Jake arrived. I was 30, and
instead of boiling bottles, I listened when the pediatrician said it was
okay to clean them in the dishwasher.
Seth came along four years later, when many days were spent sitting in the
Little League bleachers. During a brother’s six-inning game, Seth’s bottle
would hit the dirt a time or two. Not taking my eyes off the runner at
third, I’d wipe it off on my jeans and, under a stream of soda poured from
a snack-bar cup, I’d rinse the nipple. I’m happy to report that Seth grew
up quite healthy, in spite of the occasional trace of cola on his
unsterilized milk bottle.
Some knowledge is borne out of practice. Some arrives out of self-
preservation. With three kids and a job, I had to be a quick study. During
that nine-year span (and some 12,000 diaper changes later), many rough edges
smoothed out. By the time I was waking up for Seth’s midnight feedings, I
’d worked my way up from rookie to expert to pro.
I’m still the same woman mothering this trio, but I haven’t remained the
same parent. Life doesn’t work that way. My guys grew from infant to
toddler to child to teen, and I had to grow up alongside them. While
figuring out the perfect temperature for a bottle of formula, and where to
buy an athletic supporter, I was also learning which battles to wage and
which ones to let go. Some of this insight emanated from sheer exhaustion,
but I prefer to think of it as becoming wiser.
Before his brothers were born, Shawn enjoyed having his dad Nick and me, to
himself. But our undivided attention came with a price tag. While we
frantically thumbed through volumes of parenting books, Shawn became the
focus of our on-the-spot training. Like it or not, the firstborn tests the
waters for the siblings to follow. He crawls, toddles, walks and then runs
around the house, experimenting with how far to push the off-limits envelope
. The wise second child (who may become the middle child) takes a spectator
role. He watches the results and learns what’s okay with Mommy and what
buttons not to push.
Younger siblings don’t have to train amateur parents. They are free to
skate over ground that’s already conquered and go on to create their own
mischief. When they’re big enough to play their own game of Childhood, the
youngers skip some of the chutes the olders fell down. They quickly climb
ladders that a big brother (or sister) propped up for them.
Occasionally our test case, I mean, Shawn, complains about how easy his
younger brothers have it.
“You never let me stay up that late when I was his age.”
“I didn’t get to _________________ (fill in the blank) until I was _____ (
two years older than whatever age Jake and/or Seth currently are).”
But I also overhear him (and sometimes Jake) offer sage advice to younger
brother, Seth: “Don’t try it. Mom always finds out.”
“You’re better off just telling her the truth. She’ll go easier on you.”
Like their parents, Shawn, Jake and Seth continue to learn from experience.
And experience is the truest teacher, no matter what order your branch was
added to the family tree.
We Hear You!
We asked our Facebook fans, “What do you tell first-time parents about how
much easier it gets the second (or third … or fourth) time around?”
As a first time mom, please tell me the next one will be easier! I’m a stay
-at-home mom who feels like I have my hands full trying to keep up with my
10-month-old.
- Delci Knight
As a mother of two, I’ve learned, and tell all my first time parent friends
, teach your baby to adapt to YOUR world, not the other way around.
- Jenny Moore
@Jenny: I LOVE that! However, I’m still not convinced I want to jump on the
baby #2 bandwagon (my daughter will be four in March)! :-)
- Enica Lewis Thompson
Caring for a second child is a little easier, because the first child is
anxious to help out with a new sibling!! My oldest is currently helping to
potty train her sister. While I’m busy with the morning routine, big sister
is sure to put little sister on the potty as soon as they wake up. Gotta
love it!
- Kimesha Munford
Every child is so different that it’s a new job all over again. The more
children you have the more you’ll be shocked to learn that there can be
more than one “exact opposite.”
- Vicky Chrisner
【在 i****y 的大作中提到】
: Is it normal? I started to worry lately.
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z***y
发帖数: 7151 | 17 这是CWH干的。
【在 b*****n 的大作中提到】
: 能吃，小猪猪一只：P
: 前版大，这楼歪了。。。
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i****y
发帖数: 5184 | 18 Thank you Z!
Although I've been trying to read a lot, anxiety is still piling up because
I can't imagine all those tiny little details and always fear that we will
do something wrong.
to
It
baby.
【在 z***y 的大作中提到】
: MM表担心。 最重要的是心情放松， 把第一个孩子当成第二个孩子养。
: 我给你看一篇文章吧：
: 原文出处：http://washingtonparent.com/articles/1103/parent.php
: btw， 我觉得这个group还是很有益处加入地：
: Relax and Enjoy
: Tips From a Seasoned Parent
: By Claire Yezbak Fadden
: I didn’t like being the youngest. I’d complain about not being allowed to
: do the same things my brothers, George and Paul, and my sister Sadye did. It
: wasn’t fair that I had the earliest bedtime. It was no fun being the baby.
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z***y
发帖数: 7151 | 19 我很奇怪版二没有jump。 版二应该有三个娃吧。
because
【在 i****y 的大作中提到】
: Thank you Z!
: Although I've been trying to read a lot, anxiety is still piling up because
: I can't imagine all those tiny little details and always fear that we will
: do something wrong.
:
: to
: It
: baby.
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i****y
发帖数: 5184 | 20 I thought she has 4? from infant to high school teenager.
【在 z***y 的大作中提到】
: 我很奇怪版二没有jump。 版二应该有三个娃吧。
:
: because
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c*h
发帖数: 33018 | 21 她好伟大呀！三个的还有听到。四个的比较少。
【在 i****y 的大作中提到】
: I thought she has 4? from infant to high school teenager.
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b*****n
发帖数: 10665 | 22 她有两个中老年帮忙带孩子，包括开车接送去各种班的。
【在 c*h 的大作中提到】
: 她好伟大呀！三个的还有听到。四个的比较少。
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b*****n
发帖数: 10665 | 23 没阿！
不过我LG说，我生第一个，哎哟哎哟疼阿好些天；
这次生完了就看我下地蹭蹭的到处溜达。。。
【在 j***a 的大作中提到】
: 晚上发？你不会是已经上班了吧？
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b*****n
发帖数: 10665 | 24 又旅游去了？
【在 z***y 的大作中提到】
: 我很奇怪版二没有jump。 版二应该有三个娃吧。
:
: because
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b*****n
发帖数: 10665 | 25 MM别担心。俺怀这个一路上是超级担心的。
我20周的时候查出来有单脐动脉，后来还做了羊穿，要还是不要，斗争了好一段呢。。。
一路监测，指数一直低的。。。
我都要生了，人家见我问是不是有6个月了。。。
生出来6LB4OZ，只比我家老大少2 OZ。我家老大是超了一星期生的。
生完了就是养了。
第一个一般都特尽心，而且好多事情都是头一回。
别多想，孩子妈都这么过来的，考虑的再周密，也有漏掉的。。。
反正车到山前必有路。。。
我这生俩娃，俺老爹老妈都没过来帮我做月子。。。
在北京优哉游哉的享受自由快乐轻松的退休好时光呢。。。
because
【在 i****y 的大作中提到】
: Thank you Z!
: Although I've been trying to read a lot, anxiety is still piling up because
: I can't imagine all those tiny little details and always fear that we will
: do something wrong.
:
: to
: It
: baby.
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i****y
发帖数: 5184 | 26 Thanks JJ. Fortunately, both my parents and in-laws are available to help
out any time.
I doubt my husband will be helpful at all other than spending big bucks on
baby gears. :)
。。
【在 b*****n 的大作中提到】
: MM别担心。俺怀这个一路上是超级担心的。
: 我20周的时候查出来有单脐动脉，后来还做了羊穿，要还是不要，斗争了好一段呢。。。
: 一路监测，指数一直低的。。。
: 我都要生了，人家见我问是不是有6个月了。。。
: 生出来6LB4OZ，只比我家老大少2 OZ。我家老大是超了一星期生的。
: 生完了就是养了。
: 第一个一般都特尽心，而且好多事情都是头一回。
: 别多想，孩子妈都这么过来的，考虑的再周密，也有漏掉的。。。
: 反正车到山前必有路。。。
: 我这生俩娃，俺老爹老妈都没过来帮我做月子。。。
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Z***e
发帖数: 3693 | |
i****y
发帖数: 5184 | 28 Is your kitchen finished yet (so that you guys can finally eat home-made)?
【在 Z***e 的大作中提到】
: 瞧这楼外的，都成啥了。呵呵
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b*****n
发帖数: 10665 | 29 恩，俺曾试图不歪来着。。。
【在 Z***e 的大作中提到】
: 瞧这楼外的，都成啥了。呵呵
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B*****1
发帖数: 526 | 30 Borrow this thread to ask a question. My friend borrowed my nail gun today, but just called me saying it is not working. Pressure is fine, nails are loaded, and it fires fine as well, but no nails going out. What could be the problem? |
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l**n
发帖数: 7272 | 31 LOL
poor Zheye
【在 Z***e 的大作中提到】
: 瞧这楼外的，都成啥了。呵呵
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