W***9
发帖数: 4834 | 1 It is hard and unhappy to call China's relative, feeling that I owed them
money. But I am not rich here. I do not have money for making them happy.
Please let me know anyone has the same experience.
Thanks | s*****7
发帖数: 975 | | j****y
发帖数: 40 | 3 Don't call, send post cards, or emails instead! | l****g
发帖数: 366 | 4 你欠别人人情不？ If not, ask them to get away as far as they can
【在 W***9 的大作中提到】
: It is hard and unhappy to call China's relative, feeling that I owed them
: money. But I am not rich here. I do not have money for making them happy.
: Please let me know anyone has the same experience.
: Thanks
| b**d
发帖数: 252 | 5 quit calling them then.
【在 W***9 的大作中提到】
: It is hard and unhappy to call China's relative, feeling that I owed them
: money. But I am not rich here. I do not have money for making them happy.
: Please let me know anyone has the same experience.
: Thanks
| n****x
发帖数: 520 | 6 Why u have that feeling?
How do u know what they think? | C*********5
发帖数: 420 | 7 也许你relative没有这么想, 是你自己加给自己的负担.
坦诚布公, 在你这头, 该怎么办, 就怎么办. 不交往, 但是你的不对了. 还以为你势利
呢.
平时要有你很真诚的"credit", 你怎么说他们都相信. 另外要"泄洪", 不能让
relative对你期望很高. 平时你或你的家人, 不要总提你在美国, 不能暗示你富有 | W***9
发帖数: 4834 | 8 Thanks
【在 C*********5 的大作中提到】
: 也许你relative没有这么想, 是你自己加给自己的负担.
: 坦诚布公, 在你这头, 该怎么办, 就怎么办. 不交往, 但是你的不对了. 还以为你势利
: 呢.
: 平时要有你很真诚的"credit", 你怎么说他们都相信. 另外要"泄洪", 不能让
: relative对你期望很高. 平时你或你的家人, 不要总提你在美国, 不能暗示你富有
| c**5
发帖数: 1238 | | W***9
发帖数: 4834 | 10 Are y a student?
【在 c**5 的大作中提到】
: 大家都問什麽時候回國，叫幫帶東西。。。
| c**5
发帖数: 1238 | 11 是学生的时候这样，现在工作了也这样
【在 W***9 的大作中提到】
: Are y a student?
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