q*p
发帖数: 68 | 1 大家实事求是的说 不要开玩笑 我很认真的问，给气晕了 跟老韩一起TA
我先发信：
will you be office tomorrow? I probably will not be office till Sunday. If
you have time tomorrow How about you do grading again/
Next 2 weeks I'll do grading and you take care of recording
傻逼回信：
It's your business. You've already had enough time to grade, and if you
really want to ask me, you should have asked me earlier since we already
make the appointment that we take 3 days each other. And, unfortunately, I
cannot help you because I need to do other thing during the weekend. So, you
should give it back to me by tomorrow after you grade it.
我气晕了 回信说
First of all, I don't know how you think about grading and recording, from
my experience, recording cost at least 2 times effort compare to grading, PS
I've never set up a time frame for you, what I suggested previously is just
trying to keep things going SMOOTHLY in case you planning back to office
tomorrow. If you can't be office tomorrow then I'll do it. I've no problem
with that.
Secondly, I've never set up the 3 day frame for you or anybody and I've
never heard of that before, even though we split the work equally, the 3
days limit is stupid.You are dealing with people not machine, This is not
your research and please be easygoing. What I'm suggesting(you grade this
time) is NOT pushing you grade those by tomorrow or sunday but any time
before Wed would be fine for me and I'm very flexible.
PS if you want me grade that you should give those HW to me instead keep
them in your draw. As no body knows where you put them, I've been looking
for the HW package this afternoon and chenlu can prove that. What you did
last week was very good, and I hope you can keep your good mood all the time
.
At last.You are dealing with a co-worker, not your employee. I have to say
that I dislike the tone of your email/ If you want to make any further
decision about the TA job please discuss with me first. Don't forget we
still have 4 more month to suffer. |
h*****h
发帖数: 1392 | 2 这种事，就是让一步。如果是我就回答：hehe, ok, that's fine :-) and you have a
nice weekend。就是这样！人际关系，就是多用用这种润滑油。 |
h*****h
发帖数: 1392 | 3 你现在这样做，给他打电话，为自己的语言冲动表示遗憾（sorry）。然后你说希望他
理解你当时为什么这样请求。然后说it's ok，如果他不能take over。大家还是好朋友
。就这样。
你知道，风度！男人有这个风度，很给力。 |
m********5
发帖数: 17667 | 4 明明是你自己第一份email的口气问题, 你明显是在命令别人, 你凭啥?!
很多大陆来的人都有这个习惯, 好像老子天下第一, 我说的你们就要做
你谁啊? 就当team leader我也得商量的口气不是.
you
【在 q*p 的大作中提到】
: 大家实事求是的说 不要开玩笑 我很认真的问，给气晕了 跟老韩一起TA
: 我先发信：
: will you be office tomorrow? I probably will not be office till Sunday. If
: you have time tomorrow How about you do grading again/
: Next 2 weeks I'll do grading and you take care of recording
: 傻逼回信：
: It's your business. You've already had enough time to grade, and if you
: really want to ask me, you should have asked me earlier since we already
: make the appointment that we take 3 days each other. And, unfortunately, I
: cannot help you because I need to do other thing during the weekend. So, you
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h*****h
发帖数: 1392 | 5 看错了，你是女的？如果对方是男的，你不用做任何事。这个是他没风度的问题。但是
你见面也不要提这个。不需要给他笑脸，也不需要给他恶脸。 |
n******u
发帖数: 4271 | 6 中国女的一向觉得别人要宠着她
遇到的80%的中国女的都这样，所以跟别人很难相处，很多时候刚开始还行，深入了都
敬而远之。 |
t********7
发帖数: 673 | 7 Email口气的问题。。。你没有命令或要求别人的权利啊，可能你自己觉得很客气了，
其实口气很强硬，换了别人可能不开心，但是棒子天生心胸狭窄，估计是文化差异，多
学学口气吧。 |
t***e
发帖数: 3601 | 8 第一个email太直统统了。如果你需要别人的人情，最好客气点。在职场上混，会死的
很惨。
you
【在 q*p 的大作中提到】
: 大家实事求是的说 不要开玩笑 我很认真的问，给气晕了 跟老韩一起TA
: 我先发信：
: will you be office tomorrow? I probably will not be office till Sunday. If
: you have time tomorrow How about you do grading again/
: Next 2 weeks I'll do grading and you take care of recording
: 傻逼回信：
: It's your business. You've already had enough time to grade, and if you
: really want to ask me, you should have asked me earlier since we already
: make the appointment that we take 3 days each other. And, unfortunately, I
: cannot help you because I need to do other thing during the weekend. So, you
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b*******k
发帖数: 4607 | 9 小棒子口气太生硬，向ＰＲＯＦ告状，说他不尊重女性，恶心死他。
you
【在 q*p 的大作中提到】
: 大家实事求是的说 不要开玩笑 我很认真的问，给气晕了 跟老韩一起TA
: 我先发信：
: will you be office tomorrow? I probably will not be office till Sunday. If
: you have time tomorrow How about you do grading again/
: Next 2 weeks I'll do grading and you take care of recording
: 傻逼回信：
: It's your business. You've already had enough time to grade, and if you
: really want to ask me, you should have asked me earlier since we already
: make the appointment that we take 3 days each other. And, unfortunately, I
: cannot help you because I need to do other thing during the weekend. So, you
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y********4
发帖数: 1116 | 10 如果你们事先商量好了分工，那么你要改变，别人完全可以不接受，这是你自己的责任
。你不是boss，你没有权利命令任何人。 |
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r*****t
发帖数: 7278 | 11 本来就是你求他帮忙，看不懂。
别人不愿意都不行吗？ |
m*****a
发帖数: 1203 | 12 你这人活这么大都没气死不容易啊。有啥好生气的，你临时改主意人家不高兴而已，换
了你是他估计你连发帖的力气都没有直接气的昏死过去了。
you
【在 q*p 的大作中提到】
: 大家实事求是的说 不要开玩笑 我很认真的问，给气晕了 跟老韩一起TA
: 我先发信：
: will you be office tomorrow? I probably will not be office till Sunday. If
: you have time tomorrow How about you do grading again/
: Next 2 weeks I'll do grading and you take care of recording
: 傻逼回信：
: It's your business. You've already had enough time to grade, and if you
: really want to ask me, you should have asked me earlier since we already
: make the appointment that we take 3 days each other. And, unfortunately, I
: cannot help you because I need to do other thing during the weekend. So, you
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b*****n
发帖数: 17570 | 13 你这第一封email已经够傻逼的了，我都懒得看后面的回文。有这么跟同事说话的吗？
你当自己是老板了？
套用一句流行语：你的英文是体育老师教的吗？
you
【在 q*p 的大作中提到】
: 大家实事求是的说 不要开玩笑 我很认真的问，给气晕了 跟老韩一起TA
: 我先发信：
: will you be office tomorrow? I probably will not be office till Sunday. If
: you have time tomorrow How about you do grading again/
: Next 2 weeks I'll do grading and you take care of recording
: 傻逼回信：
: It's your business. You've already had enough time to grade, and if you
: really want to ask me, you should have asked me earlier since we already
: make the appointment that we take 3 days each other. And, unfortunately, I
: cannot help you because I need to do other thing during the weekend. So, you
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m********g
发帖数: 2323 | 14 首先这是多大个事儿啊。。。
另外 这种情况完全是你个人沟通不畅造成的 英语写作能力比较差 不知道该用怎么样
的语气沟通以至于给人一种居高临下的感觉 |
d****d
发帖数: 699 | |
m********g
发帖数: 2323 | 16 首先这是多大个事儿啊。。。
另外 这种情况完全是你个人沟通不畅造成的 英语写作能力比较差 不知道该用怎么样
的语气沟通以至于给人一种居高临下的感觉 |
r***e
发帖数: 2000 | 17 英文表达是不妥，但是也没有什么大不了的。
如果你们比较熟（平时一起工作应该比较熟了），那么写没有大问题。
棒子的回信很成问题。如果是我，我会传给老板看看。 |
m********g
发帖数: 2323 | 18 另 在家待着没事儿 抛砖给你引个玉
Hi Bangzi,
Sorry to bother you at this time of the day, but I've got an immanency
coming up and I'm afraid I will not be office (agian,我不知道这种把office当
形容词的用法是哪个大神教你的。我就继续用吧)until Sunday.
So I'm wondering could you do me a big favor? I know you have graded last
week, but could you do the grading again this week? For the next two weeks,
you can leave the grading to me, I'll take care of it.
I'm sorry not to inform you about this earlier but it's kind of urgent and I
really did not expect it to happen..
Thank you so much for your help, really appreciate it.
Have a good weekend.
qWp |
h********e
发帖数: 1036 | 19 你很像是领导给下属交代工作啊，要我是那老韩我也会不高兴。
you
【在 q*p 的大作中提到】
: 大家实事求是的说 不要开玩笑 我很认真的问，给气晕了 跟老韩一起TA
: 我先发信：
: will you be office tomorrow? I probably will not be office till Sunday. If
: you have time tomorrow How about you do grading again/
: Next 2 weeks I'll do grading and you take care of recording
: 傻逼回信：
: It's your business. You've already had enough time to grade, and if you
: really want to ask me, you should have asked me earlier since we already
: make the appointment that we take 3 days each other. And, unfortunately, I
: cannot help you because I need to do other thing during the weekend. So, you
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d***k
发帖数: 3225 | 20 顶这个
以后留着备用哈哈
,
I
【在 m********g 的大作中提到】
: 另 在家待着没事儿 抛砖给你引个玉
: Hi Bangzi,
: Sorry to bother you at this time of the day, but I've got an immanency
: coming up and I'm afraid I will not be office (agian,我不知道这种把office当
: 形容词的用法是哪个大神教你的。我就继续用吧)until Sunday.
: So I'm wondering could you do me a big favor? I know you have graded last
: week, but could you do the grading again this week? For the next two weeks,
: you can leave the grading to me, I'll take care of it.
: I'm sorry not to inform you about this earlier but it's kind of urgent and I
: really did not expect it to happen..
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w***a
发帖数: 432 | 21
you
Do not assume your co-workers are your friends.
Do not assume your boss is your friend.
Do not assume you are a nice person and are their friends.
【在 q*p 的大作中提到】
: 大家实事求是的说 不要开玩笑 我很认真的问，给气晕了 跟老韩一起TA
: 我先发信：
: will you be office tomorrow? I probably will not be office till Sunday. If
: you have time tomorrow How about you do grading again/
: Next 2 weeks I'll do grading and you take care of recording
: 傻逼回信：
: It's your business. You've already had enough time to grade, and if you
: really want to ask me, you should have asked me earlier since we already
: make the appointment that we take 3 days each other. And, unfortunately, I
: cannot help you because I need to do other thing during the weekend. So, you
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A*****a
发帖数: 52743 | 22 其实你还可以写的更恶劣些：
Hey, Bangzi, I suppose you should be in office tomorrow. But I will not. Why
don't you grade the homework again. I think I can do the gradings for the
next two weeks. But to be fair, I would like you to take care of lecture
recording for me. You are welcome!
you
from
PS
just
time
【在 q*p 的大作中提到】
: 大家实事求是的说 不要开玩笑 我很认真的问，给气晕了 跟老韩一起TA
: 我先发信：
: will you be office tomorrow? I probably will not be office till Sunday. If
: you have time tomorrow How about you do grading again/
: Next 2 weeks I'll do grading and you take care of recording
: 傻逼回信：
: It's your business. You've already had enough time to grade, and if you
: really want to ask me, you should have asked me earlier since we already
: make the appointment that we take 3 days each other. And, unfortunately, I
: cannot help you because I need to do other thing during the weekend. So, you
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b**********e
发帖数: 2042 | 23 你的问题多一些，你们分工好了，你临时变计划，人家答应是他nice，不答应也在情理
之中。没准他也计划了别的事情。你写信希望他能够改变计划，也应该早一些和他商量
，last minute notice谁都会不爽的 |
