e*********e
发帖数: 45 | 1 代人请教:
有个朋友和老公关系不好,已经濒临离婚.但是他老公在家里有暴力倾向,不过不是对人
的,都是对电视,电脑,汽车玻璃之类的,其实也挺危险的.有时候朋友很害怕,其他人(包
括我)也劝她报警.但是她害怕报警会影响她老公的记录.
我觉得这个和打人不一样,报警了,警察会来干预,但是不会对她老公个人有影响,或者记
录.不知道我的理解对不对.
谢谢 | g*******t
发帖数: 7704 | | e*********e
发帖数: 45 | 3 谢谢回复.就是挺吓人的,对旁观者(老婆,孩子,父母)心里上也是很大的创伤.
【在 g*******t 的大作中提到】
: 不算， 砸东西也是一种排泄压力的方式，
| g******n
发帖数: 53185 | 4 被他老婆气的。
【在 e*********e 的大作中提到】
: 谢谢回复.就是挺吓人的,对旁观者(老婆,孩子,父母)心里上也是很大的创伤.
| e*********e
发帖数: 45 | 5 我也就是想帮忙,因为不能吓着孩子.咱们作为旁观者,又基本上什么都不知道,我觉得最
好不要评判.谢谢!
就是希望请教大家一下法律上的问题.
【在 g******n 的大作中提到】
: 被他老婆气的。
| D********2
发帖数: 2153 | 6 你们心里真脆弱,动不动就创伤,真是温室花朵
【在 e*********e 的大作中提到】
: 谢谢回复.就是挺吓人的,对旁观者(老婆,孩子,父母)心里上也是很大的创伤.
| p**********e
发帖数: 535 | | k***g
发帖数: 4904 | 8 八成是
又不能对人出气
如果憋着不能发泄早晚憋出癌症
离了也不一定是坏事
【在 g******n 的大作中提到】
: 被他老婆气的。
| c********e
发帖数: 2726 | 9 哎!在美国的国人，真可悲！缺乏精神卫生知识。
这是典型的Bipolar的症状，赶快送医院吧。至少得住一周。奉劝，谈离婚前，先把配
偶病治好再谈，免的自己把小命也搭进去！ | z******a
发帖数: 304 | 10 Co
【在 g******n 的大作中提到】
: 被他老婆气的。
| | | s*******o
发帖数: 342 | 11 看到砸电视机什么的，觉得真是经济损失很大啊，精神创伤到不清楚。另外我见过几个
吵架砸坏电脑的夫妻情侣什么的，都没觉得有啥精神创伤啊，主要还是经济损失或者数
据损失。这个问题关键是夫妻感情不好了吧。 | c*******c
发帖数: 726 | 12 滑稽得来，人家男的不过生气摔自己东西
你就怂恿人家老婆找条子，po上来还不许别人有自己想法
【在 e*********e 的大作中提到】
: 我也就是想帮忙,因为不能吓着孩子.咱们作为旁观者,又基本上什么都不知道,我觉得最
: 好不要评判.谢谢!
: 就是希望请教大家一下法律上的问题.
| H******9
发帖数: 8087 | 13 做朋友的多劝下吧，男人压力大，砸点东西解压啊
【在 e*********e 的大作中提到】
: 代人请教:
: 有个朋友和老公关系不好,已经濒临离婚.但是他老公在家里有暴力倾向,不过不是对人
: 的,都是对电视,电脑,汽车玻璃之类的,其实也挺危险的.有时候朋友很害怕,其他人(包
: 括我)也劝她报警.但是她害怕报警会影响她老公的记录.
: 我觉得这个和打人不一样,报警了,警察会来干预,但是不会对她老公个人有影响,或者记
: 录.不知道我的理解对不对.
: 谢谢
| m***x
发帖数: 788 | 14 http://www.thehotline.org/get-educated/what-is-domestic-violenc
What is Domestic Violence?
Domestic violence can be defined as a pattern of behavior in any
relationship that is used to gain or maintain power and control over an
intimate partner.
Abuse is physical, sexual, emotional, economic or psychological actions or
threats of actions that influence another person. This includes any
behaviors that frighten, intimidate, terrorize, manipulate, hurt, humiliate,
blame, injure or wound someone.
Domestic violence can happen to anyone of any race, age, sexual orientation,
religion or gender. It can happen to couples who are married, living
together or who are dating. Domestic violence affects people of all
socioeconomic backgrounds and education levels.
You may be in an emotionally abusive relationship if your partner:
Calls you names, insults you or continually criticizes you.
Does not trust you and acts jealous or possessive.
Tries to isolate you from family or friends.
Monitors where you go, who you call and who you spend time with.
Does not want you to work.
Controls finances or refuses to share money.
Punishes you by withholding affection.
Expects you to ask permission.
Threatens to hurt you, the children, your family or your pets.
Humiliates you in any way.
You may be in a physically abusive relationship if your partner has ever:
Damaged property when angry (thrown objects, punched walls, kicked doors
, etc.).
Pushed, slapped, bitten, kicked or choked you.
Abandoned you in a dangerous or unfamiliar place.
Scared you by driving recklessly.
Used a weapon to threaten or hurt you.
Forced you to leave your home.
Trapped you in your home or kept you from leaving.
Prevented you from calling police or seeking medical attention.
Hurt your children.
Used physical force in sexual situations.
You may be in a sexually abusive relationship if your partner:
Views women as objects and believes in rigid gender roles.
Accuses you of cheating or is often jealous of your outside
relationships.
Wants you to dress in a sexual way.
Insults you in sexual ways or calls you sexual names.
Has ever forced or manipulated you into to having sex or performing
sexual acts.
Held you down during sex.
Demanded sex when you were sick, tired or after beating you.
Hurt you with weapons or objects during sex.
Involved other people in sexual activities with you.
Ignored your feelings regarding sex.
If you answered ‘yes’ to these questions you may be in an abusive
relationship; please call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-
799-SAFE (7233), 1-800-787-3224 (TTY) or your local domestic violence center
to talk with someone about it.
【在 e*********e 的大作中提到】
: 代人请教:
: 有个朋友和老公关系不好,已经濒临离婚.但是他老公在家里有暴力倾向,不过不是对人
: 的,都是对电视,电脑,汽车玻璃之类的,其实也挺危险的.有时候朋友很害怕,其他人(包
: 括我)也劝她报警.但是她害怕报警会影响她老公的记录.
: 我觉得这个和打人不一样,报警了,警察会来干预,但是不会对她老公个人有影响,或者记
: 录.不知道我的理解对不对.
: 谢谢
| p******o
发帖数: 2682 | 15 看了这些关于家暴的定义后觉得非常广泛，很多行为（包括女对男作的一些事）都算家
暴了。
humiliate,
orientation,
【在 m***x 的大作中提到】
: http://www.thehotline.org/get-educated/what-is-domestic-violenc
: What is Domestic Violence?
: Domestic violence can be defined as a pattern of behavior in any
: relationship that is used to gain or maintain power and control over an
: intimate partner.
: Abuse is physical, sexual, emotional, economic or psychological actions or
: threats of actions that influence another person. This includes any
: behaviors that frighten, intimidate, terrorize, manipulate, hurt, humiliate,
: blame, injure or wound someone.
: Domestic violence can happen to anyone of any race, age, sexual orientation,
| e*********e
发帖数: 45 | 16 非常感谢!
humiliate,
orientation,
【在 m***x 的大作中提到】
: http://www.thehotline.org/get-educated/what-is-domestic-violenc
: What is Domestic Violence?
: Domestic violence can be defined as a pattern of behavior in any
: relationship that is used to gain or maintain power and control over an
: intimate partner.
: Abuse is physical, sexual, emotional, economic or psychological actions or
: threats of actions that influence another person. This includes any
: behaviors that frighten, intimidate, terrorize, manipulate, hurt, humiliate,
: blame, injure or wound someone.
: Domestic violence can happen to anyone of any race, age, sexual orientation,
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