S*********n
发帖数: 2015 | 1 1. step away and give him some space.
2. talk him out of it
3. pretend nothing happened.
Thank you for your help |
h*******1
发帖数: 4830 | 2 depends on your hubby's personality |
S*********n
发帖数: 2015 | 3 sigh, I've tried everything. nothing seems to work!!! |
R*****o
发帖数: 14902 | 4 他有什么表现和症状?
【在 S*********n 的大作中提到】
: sigh, I've tried everything. nothing seems to work!!!
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h*******1
发帖数: 4830 | 5 how about give him some color to see see |
S*********n
发帖数: 2015 | 6 He comes back home early,
refuses to talk, although appears to be calm.
He refuses to do anything together.
This can go on for a couple of days.
【在 R*****o 的大作中提到】
: 他有什么表现和症状?
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S*********n
发帖数: 2015 | 7 hehe, what if he gives me some color back?
【在 h*******1 的大作中提到】
: how about give him some color to see see
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h*******1
发帖数: 4830 | 8 这是最糟糕的冷暴力
中国人很多傻乎乎的称之为脾气好，有涵养。
【在 S*********n 的大作中提到】
: hehe, what if he gives me some color back?
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h*******1
发帖数: 4830 | |
S*********n
发帖数: 2015 | 10 makes some sense. will follow your advice.
thanks! |
M***l
发帖数: 504 | 11 leave him alone for now. he's not in the mood talking to you before
his pressure from work goes away.
but once his pressure is relieved. you couple need some serious talk.
at least he need understand his behavior under pressure is not healthy
to your relationship.
this might be his blind spot. as his wife, you need to uncover it if
you don't want to see this happening again.
【在 S*********n 的大作中提到】
: He comes back home early,
: refuses to talk, although appears to be calm.
: He refuses to do anything together.
: This can go on for a couple of days.
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S*********n
发帖数: 2015 | 12 sigh.. he is not the strong type that can handle stress well.
He's a good family guy, but not the career type.
typical Taiwanese guy who never had much competition in his childhood.
I'm sure he knows it's not a good way to handle it, but i doubt he
has another way to express it.
Thanks for your suggestion!
【在 M***l 的大作中提到】
: leave him alone for now. he's not in the mood talking to you before
: his pressure from work goes away.
: but once his pressure is relieved. you couple need some serious talk.
: at least he need understand his behavior under pressure is not healthy
: to your relationship.
: this might be his blind spot. as his wife, you need to uncover it if
: you don't want to see this happening again.
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