h*****s 发帖数: 697 | 1 我要带宝宝回中国3个月, EX一直不同意直到现在宝宝2岁多了才勉强同意我带宝宝回
国看望我父母。还得由他选日期,我父母从没有见过宝宝,除了网路视屏。虽然我可以
到法院去告他但我没车也没有精力去折腾。
我EX是个人品不好的人,一直以来他处处刁难我,就希望我过得难受。我们离婚时我曾
经和他商量无争议离婚,他不肯, 他一定要做有争议离婚,离婚花了我很多钱请律师
,所以我现在再也没钱请律师看这个ORDER了。在此也感慨一下,人品真的太重要了。
这是他律师要求我签字后才能让我带小孩回国, 我是defendent, 我看了后很愤怒,请
大家帮我出出主意改一改这个ORDER,谢谢先。
ORDER:
THIS MATTER being opened to the Court XXXX of the law firm of XXXX,
attorneys for Plaintiff, XXXX, and XXXX, and it appearing that the parties
have consented to the terms and conditions of the within Order; and for good
cause shown;
IT IS ON THIS ____ DAY OF _________, 2011 ORDERED:
1. The parties hereby agree that the Defendant shall be permitted to
travel with XXXX(my son) to China from ___________________ to _____________
__. Both parties shall cooperate in obtaining a passport for XXXX (my son)
for those specific dates of travel. Upon return to New Jersey on ___________
____________, XXXX (my son)’s passport shall be turned over to the
Plaintiff and this matter shall return to the Passport Alert System.
2. Other than the dates specifically listed above, neither party shall
remove XXXX (my son) from the State of New Jersey for more than twenty-four
(24) hours unless the other party has consented in writing. Neither party
shall remove XXXX (my son) for the United States until further Court Order.
3. At least three (3) weeks prior to leaving for China, the Defendant
shall provide a full itinerary for the trip, including but not limited to
flight information, telephone numbers, addresses for the course of the trip,
and a list of at least three (3) emergency contacts in China.
4. During the course of this vacation, child support shall be suspended.
Probation is directed to reflect its records accordingly. CS_____________.
5. The Plaintiff shall be permitted make up parenting time for all
parenting days missed while the Defendant is on vacation. In the event the
Plaintiff is unable to make up these days, they shall not be incorporated
into the Defendant’s right to seek a modification of child support as set
forth in their Marital Settlement Agreement and Consent Order fixing custody
and parenting time.
6. The Defendant represents and acknowledges that she MUST return with
XXXX (my son) no later than ___________. If she fails to do so, she agrees
that she will be subject to a $500 per day fine. In addition, she also
acknowledges that she will be subject to both civil and criminal
repercussions. The Plaintiff does not agree to the Defendant’s relocation
to China with the child or to the Defendant leaving the child in China while
she returns to the United States. The Defendant acknowledges that her
failure to return with the child shall constitute a kidnapping for which she
will be fully prosecuted.
7. In the event Defendant fails to return with XXXX (my son) in the
agreed upon time, upon XXXX (my son)’s return to New Jersey, custody shall
automatically be changed to the Plaintiff and Defendant shall only be
permitted supervised parenting time. Child support would be immediately
terminated.
8. All other terms set forth in the parties’ Marital Settlement
Agreement and Consent Order fixing custody and parenting time shall remain
in full force and effect. | l******o 发帖数: 90 | 2 没啥好愤怒的。换位思考一下,你们关系这么差,如果是他带小孩回国,你会不会担心
他不回美国了呢(尤其是他如果在美国收入不高的话,因为我感觉你可能收入不高,如
果错了不要介意)。
他律师写的这些都是很正常的规定,如果你就是简单的想带小朋友回国,一定会回来。
这些规定不会伤到你半分。
把你和你的前夫之间处理这种事情想象成两个公司做生意,一定会加规定保证一方违约
,另一方得到补偿。这样你就能更好的处理你们之间的关系。如果你不打算违约,又何
必介意呢?下次他带小朋友回国,你也可以让他签同样的协议就好了,不是吗
希望对你有帮助。
【在 h*****s 的大作中提到】 : 我要带宝宝回中国3个月, EX一直不同意直到现在宝宝2岁多了才勉强同意我带宝宝回 : 国看望我父母。还得由他选日期,我父母从没有见过宝宝,除了网路视屏。虽然我可以 : 到法院去告他但我没车也没有精力去折腾。 : 我EX是个人品不好的人,一直以来他处处刁难我,就希望我过得难受。我们离婚时我曾 : 经和他商量无争议离婚,他不肯, 他一定要做有争议离婚,离婚花了我很多钱请律师 : ,所以我现在再也没钱请律师看这个ORDER了。在此也感慨一下,人品真的太重要了。 : 这是他律师要求我签字后才能让我带小孩回国, 我是defendent, 我看了后很愤怒,请 : 大家帮我出出主意改一改这个ORDER,谢谢先。 : ORDER: : THIS MATTER being opened to the Court XXXX of the law firm of XXXX,
| h*****s 发帖数: 697 | 3 但是这个ORDER说在我带宝宝回去的三个月期间,我EX不给CHILD SUPPORT, 这个我觉
得有点过分。
time, | h*****s 发帖数: 697 | 4 可是就像楼上说的有 just in case 的情况存在啊,而且他竟然想在我带宝宝回国期间
不给小孩child support生活费, 这也太萎缩了吧?
【在 l******o 的大作中提到】 : 没啥好愤怒的。换位思考一下,你们关系这么差,如果是他带小孩回国,你会不会担心 : 他不回美国了呢(尤其是他如果在美国收入不高的话,因为我感觉你可能收入不高,如 : 果错了不要介意)。 : 他律师写的这些都是很正常的规定,如果你就是简单的想带小朋友回国,一定会回来。 : 这些规定不会伤到你半分。 : 把你和你的前夫之间处理这种事情想象成两个公司做生意,一定会加规定保证一方违约 : ,另一方得到补偿。这样你就能更好的处理你们之间的关系。如果你不打算违约,又何 : 必介意呢?下次他带小朋友回国,你也可以让他签同样的协议就好了,不是吗 : 希望对你有帮助。
| l******o 发帖数: 90 | 5 这个你是对的,ask him to remove this.
可以直接和他的律师说,就说这个不合情理,你会去法庭抗议。我想他应该会让步。
【在 h*****s 的大作中提到】 : 可是就像楼上说的有 just in case 的情况存在啊,而且他竟然想在我带宝宝回国期间 : 不给小孩child support生活费, 这也太萎缩了吧?
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