c********l
发帖数: 23 | 1 【 以下文字转载自 D_SupportGroup 俱乐部 】
发信人: cherryhill (carry on), 信区: D_SupportGroup
标 题: I have a question
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon Sep 7 21:07:02 2009, 美东)
Did anyone tell your doctor you want to kill yourself? What will they do?
report you to the police? hospitalize you? I feel hesitated to tell my
doctor about my suicidal throught. | c**r
发帖数: 10001 | 2 除非医生确信你现在或即将有危险，否则他不会报告的，你所说的话，是在
confidentiality里保护的，他应该不会采取任何措施。
如果你现在是抑郁症中并且产生一些自杀的想法的话，跟你的psychotherapist聊
一下这些想法，很可能是对你有好处的。比方说你最近经常想到自杀，觉得死了
比活着好，甚至经常想要用枪自杀如何如何，都是可以聊的。
如果你已经有详细的自杀计划并且计划在非常近的日期里实行并且也有了需要的
means，这种情况下如果你告诉你医生，比方说你告诉他你计划当天下午就会用你事
先已经买好的安眠药自杀，那么他首先估计会在你们的session里跟你谈论这事，如
果session结束的时候你仍然坚持这个说法，他也判断你可能是认真的，那他应该会
采取一定的措施，一般来说可能的措施包括让警察在那个时间上门做个普通的welfare
check，看看你是不是okay，或者hospitalize你确保你安全。
抑郁症患者有自杀的念头非常普遍，不用害怕跟你医生聊这个。
【在 c********l 的大作中提到】
: 【 以下文字转载自 D_SupportGroup 俱乐部 】
: 发信人: cherryhill (carry on), 信区: D_SupportGroup
: 标 题: I have a question
: 发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon Sep 7 21:07:02 2009, 美东)
: Did anyone tell your doctor you want to kill yourself? What will they do?
: report you to the police? hospitalize you? I feel hesitated to tell my
: doctor about my suicidal throught.
| w****r
发帖数: 17566 | 3 抑郁症跟其他任何病一样，跟医生讲述症状越真实具体越有住于他们来诊断和帮助你。。
【在 c********l 的大作中提到】
: 【 以下文字转载自 D_SupportGroup 俱乐部 】
: 发信人: cherryhill (carry on), 信区: D_SupportGroup
: 标 题: I have a question
: 发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon Sep 7 21:07:02 2009, 美东)
: Did anyone tell your doctor you want to kill yourself? What will they do?
: report you to the police? hospitalize you? I feel hesitated to tell my
: doctor about my suicidal throught.
| w****r
发帖数: 17566 | 4 cherry, besides seeing a psychiatrist maybe once per month , are you seeing
a psychologist or counselor frequently, say once a week? I believe seeing a
psychologist will be very helpful on your case also. He can help you to
monitor, evaluate your weekly status, and you two may try to figure out some
cognitive exercise or anger control or stress relief method, which may help
you to cope with your daily difficulties.
【在 c********l 的大作中提到】
: 【 以下文字转载自 D_SupportGroup 俱乐部 】
: 发信人: cherryhill (carry on), 信区: D_SupportGroup
: 标 题: I have a question
: 发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon Sep 7 21:07:02 2009, 美东)
: Did anyone tell your doctor you want to kill yourself? What will they do?
: report you to the police? hospitalize you? I feel hesitated to tell my
: doctor about my suicidal throught.
| c**r
发帖数: 10001 | 5 嗯，psychotherapy加药物的治疗，比单纯用药要效果好，更重要的，复发几率会小好
多。
seeing
a
some
help
【在 w****r 的大作中提到】
: cherry, besides seeing a psychiatrist maybe once per month , are you seeing
: a psychologist or counselor frequently, say once a week? I believe seeing a
: psychologist will be very helpful on your case also. He can help you to
: monitor, evaluate your weekly status, and you two may try to figure out some
: cognitive exercise or anger control or stress relief method, which may help
: you to cope with your daily difficulties.
| w****r
发帖数: 17566 | 6 是的，而且会多有一个人和地方可以无所顾忌的倾诉。。药物只能帮助改善肉体上的症
状。如果一个人的心态和周围的环境和生病前一直一模一样的话，而这些心态和环境又
对发病和病情的加重有推动作用，那么跟psychologist聊撩会有住于找出原因，或者至
少开始慢慢行动去改变自己的处境。
【在 c**r 的大作中提到】
: 嗯，psychotherapy加药物的治疗，比单纯用药要效果好，更重要的，复发几率会小好
: 多。
:
: seeing
: a
: some
: help
| c********l
发帖数: 23 | 7 Thank you for the advice. I only saw a psychologist once. Basicly he just
listened for about an hour without suggesting anything to me. After that, he
didn't even make another appointment with me. Instead he asked me to call
him if I need further help. I think maybe it is very hard for an old white
man to understand the thoughts and the feeling of an asian foreigner. so I
somewhat believe medication is more effective.
seeing
a
some
help
【在 w****r 的大作中提到】
: cherry, besides seeing a psychiatrist maybe once per month , are you seeing
: a psychologist or counselor frequently, say once a week? I believe seeing a
: psychologist will be very helpful on your case also. He can help you to
: monitor, evaluate your weekly status, and you two may try to figure out some
: cognitive exercise or anger control or stress relief method, which may help
: you to cope with your daily difficulties.
| c**r
发帖数: 10001 | 8 There can be another explanation of what happened:
he gave you the space to talk, and gave you the space to decide whether
not or to continue. Unfortunately, you projected your own feeling of
helplessness onto him, and interpreted his action as thinking you can not
be helped. :)
The misunderstanding is a mixed product of your current depression, the
way you normally interpret the world, and the cultural difference.
You can try to find a different psychtherapist later, but if you can share
with t
【在 c********l 的大作中提到】
: Thank you for the advice. I only saw a psychologist once. Basicly he just
: listened for about an hour without suggesting anything to me. After that, he
: didn't even make another appointment with me. Instead he asked me to call
: him if I need further help. I think maybe it is very hard for an old white
: man to understand the thoughts and the feeling of an asian foreigner. so I
: somewhat believe medication is more effective.
:
: seeing
: a
: some
| w****r
发帖数: 17566 | 9 Yes, I have the same feeling..Just make determination and go out and seek
whoever and whatever can help you become better. Don't rely on others to
determine your life..You're the painter of the picture of your own life.
【在 c**r 的大作中提到】
: There can be another explanation of what happened:
: he gave you the space to talk, and gave you the space to decide whether
: not or to continue. Unfortunately, you projected your own feeling of
: helplessness onto him, and interpreted his action as thinking you can not
: be helped. :)
: The misunderstanding is a mixed product of your current depression, the
: way you normally interpret the world, and the cultural difference.
: You can try to find a different psychtherapist later, but if you can share
: with t
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