H******9
发帖数: 2766 | 1 这是俺写给儿子的，以后俺家家传的Ｂｏｏｋ ｏｆ Ｓｈａｄｏｗｓ的序言～～
啥叫Ｂｏｏｋ ｏｆ Ｓｈａｄｏｗｓ，就是家传秘籍，打印的时候ｍａｒｇｉｎ留大
点，儿子可以做笔记，补充，然后再留给孙子地那种～～
序言用文言坑出来地，比便秘难受～～因为以后一定要娃学会文言文地，尽管现在一嘴
鸟文～～
│又│情│守│存│解│觀│及│汝│福│吾│維│，│，│為│凡│生│眾│夫│
│玄│篇│一│於│脫│來│，│投│業│兒│世│劫│人│父│夫│夢│生│太│
│。│授│而│微│之│處│與│生│，│，│法│後│倫│半│可│死│熙│上│
│ │道│參│密│路│，│人│之│因│汝│人│幸│難│生│及│，│攘│之│
│ │器│其│之│，│得│事│苦│夙│性│倫│得│悖│慕│；│執│如│道│
│ │之│玄│處│積│悟│無│。│緣│情│修│妻│；│道│地│妄│蜉│，│
│ │用│。│，│累│去│傷│吾│必│敦│盡│賢│雖│，│獄│成│蝣│生│
│ │；│吾│非│世│處│。│兒│生│厚│，│子│進│參│路│真│，│萬│
│ │入│兒│精│之│，│眾│，│道│，│方│慧│境│造│遙│；│天│物│
│ │境│，│研│功│當│生│汝│心│謹│覓│，│艱│化│，│沈│地│而│
│ │問│為│不│；│觀│貴│立│；│慎│仙│繞│難│之│臨│迷│有│不│
│ │情│父│得│仙│眾│賤│於│為│隱│道│膝│，│機│終│五│序│有│
│ │，│所│其│佛│生│榮│世│父│忍│！│承│道│，│一│陰│亦│，│
│ │忘│纂│妙│之│如│辱│，│所│；│ │歡│心│研│念│，│泡│成│
│ │情│，│；│果│我│，│當│學│無│ │，│不│吉│可│輪│影│化│
│ │得│物│至│，│，│皆│求│，│為│ │相│改│兇│至│轉│。│象│
│ │道│用│道│不│我│因│無│隨│父│ │濡│。│悔│。│五│惜│而│
│ │；│篇│充│離│如│往│傷│緣│之│ │之│為│吝│ │道│世│弗│
│ │推│述│乎│萬│眾│昔│適│盡│桀│ │時│父│。│ │。│間│宰│
│ │衍│陰│天│千│生│做│誌│付│驁│ │，│而│奈│ │蓬│有│。│
│ │之│陽│地│善│。│作│；│於│，│ │惜│立│何│ │萊│情│大│
│ │妙│變│之│行│吾│。│知│汝│承│ │如│已│塵│ │非│，│道│
│ │，│化│間│；│兒│待│力│，│往│ │朝│知│勞│ │遠│莫│之│
│ │玄│，│，│天│，│汝│所│願│生│ │露│天│易│ │，│不│下│
│ │之│忘│當│機│夫│可│能│償│之│ │。│命│染│ │焉│醉│，│
咋样？有没有感觉~~ |
H******9
发帖数: 2766 | |
l**a
发帖数: 5175 | 3 写给自己儿子比较好,写给阿紫就不好,
缘分不一样的.
阿紫应该远离修行,因为已经乱套了.
【在 H******9 的大作中提到】
: 竖排地，可能主题地排版不好，贴图
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b**d
发帖数: 7644 | |
d******r
发帖数: 5008 | 5 儿子写得真好。
【在 H******9 的大作中提到】
: 这是俺写给儿子的，以后俺家家传的Ｂｏｏｋ ｏｆ Ｓｈａｄｏｗｓ的序言～～
: 啥叫Ｂｏｏｋ ｏｆ Ｓｈａｄｏｗｓ，就是家传秘籍，打印的时候ｍａｒｇｉｎ留大
: 点，儿子可以做笔记，补充，然后再留给孙子地那种～～
: 序言用文言坑出来地，比便秘难受～～因为以后一定要娃学会文言文地，尽管现在一嘴
: 鸟文～～
: │又│情│守│存│解│觀│及│汝│福│吾│維│，│，│為│凡│生│眾│夫│
: │玄│篇│一│於│脫│來│，│投│業│兒│世│劫│人│父│夫│夢│生│太│
: │。│授│而│微│之│處│與│生│，│，│法│後│倫│半│可│死│熙│上│
: │ │道│參│密│路│，│人│之│因│汝│人│幸│難│生│及│，│攘│之│
: │ │器│其│之│，│得│事│苦│夙│性│倫│得│悖│慕│；│執│如│道│
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b**d
发帖数: 7644 | 6 BTW,浪子兄的书写好啦，只给儿子看，还是打算publish呀？ |
r****n
发帖数: 7315 | 7
高人善吗？对世人。
【在 H******9 的大作中提到】
: 这是俺写给儿子的，以后俺家家传的Ｂｏｏｋ ｏｆ Ｓｈａｄｏｗｓ的序言～～
: 啥叫Ｂｏｏｋ ｏｆ Ｓｈａｄｏｗｓ，就是家传秘籍，打印的时候ｍａｒｇｉｎ留大
: 点，儿子可以做笔记，补充，然后再留给孙子地那种～～
: 序言用文言坑出来地，比便秘难受～～因为以后一定要娃学会文言文地，尽管现在一嘴
: 鸟文～～
: │又│情│守│存│解│觀│及│汝│福│吾│維│，│，│為│凡│生│眾│夫│
: │玄│篇│一│於│脫│來│，│投│業│兒│世│劫│人│父│夫│夢│生│太│
: │。│授│而│微│之│處│與│生│，│，│法│後│倫│半│可│死│熙│上│
: │ │道│參│密│路│，│人│之│因│汝│人│幸│難│生│及│，│攘│之│
: │ │器│其│之│，│得│事│苦│夙│性│倫│得│悖│慕│；│執│如│道│
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H******9
发帖数: 2766 | 8 这个，仅限族内研究忽悠比较好
【在 b**d 的大作中提到】
: BTW,浪子兄的书写好啦，只给儿子看，还是打算publish呀？
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H******9
发帖数: 2766 | 9 建议你用文艺青年地眼光来看
【在 r****n 的大作中提到】
:
: 高人善吗？对世人。
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r****n
发帖数: 7315 | 10
你对佛法的理解有待提高阿。
【在 H******9 的大作中提到】
: 建议你用文艺青年地眼光来看
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b*****l
发帖数: 3821 | 11 你打算让你的娃继承这个啊。
【在 H******9 的大作中提到】
: 这是俺写给儿子的，以后俺家家传的Ｂｏｏｋ ｏｆ Ｓｈａｄｏｗｓ的序言～～
: 啥叫Ｂｏｏｋ ｏｆ Ｓｈａｄｏｗｓ，就是家传秘籍，打印的时候ｍａｒｇｉｎ留大
: 点，儿子可以做笔记，补充，然后再留给孙子地那种～～
: 序言用文言坑出来地，比便秘难受～～因为以后一定要娃学会文言文地，尽管现在一嘴
: 鸟文～～
: │又│情│守│存│解│觀│及│汝│福│吾│維│，│，│為│凡│生│眾│夫│
: │玄│篇│一│於│脫│來│，│投│業│兒│世│劫│人│父│夫│夢│生│太│
: │。│授│而│微│之│處│與│生│，│，│法│後│倫│半│可│死│熙│上│
: │ │道│參│密│路│，│人│之│因│汝│人│幸│難│生│及│，│攘│之│
: │ │器│其│之│，│得│事│苦│夙│性│倫│得│悖│慕│；│執│如│道│
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H******9
发帖数: 2766 | 12 你给提高一下
【在 r****n 的大作中提到】
:
: 你对佛法的理解有待提高阿。
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r****n
发帖数: 7315 | 13
等你不再怕你的高人的时候。
另外，你传儿子，要传你自己知道的啊。不要妄言猜测而误了你儿。
【在 H******9 的大作中提到】
: 你给提高一下
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H******9
发帖数: 2766 | 14 娃娃有资质有那性情，所以有这想法。
女娃不行，就肯定不教。
【在 b*****l 的大作中提到】
: 你打算让你的娃继承这个啊。
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b*****l
发帖数: 3821 | 15 难得，好好培养吧。
打算在这儿还是送回去培养阿
【在 H******9 的大作中提到】
: 娃娃有资质有那性情，所以有这想法。
: 女娃不行，就肯定不教。
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H******9
发帖数: 2766 | 16 偶是尊师、重教
你操啥心啊
【在 r****n 的大作中提到】
:
: 等你不再怕你的高人的时候。
: 另外，你传儿子，要传你自己知道的啊。不要妄言猜测而误了你儿。
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b**d
发帖数: 7644 | 17 重男轻女。。。。。
【在 H******9 的大作中提到】
: 娃娃有资质有那性情，所以有这想法。
: 女娃不行，就肯定不教。
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H******9
发帖数: 2766 | 18 有人要带回去培养，不过领导不同意。
还是呆在身边平安是福。偶擅长启发性教育，还可以教学相长。俺从他身上会学到很多
地。：）
【在 b*****l 的大作中提到】
: 难得，好好培养吧。
: 打算在这儿还是送回去培养阿
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H******9
发帖数: 2766 | 19 晕，都说我更疼女娃呢。偶是因材施教。你说要是碰到个一沾宗教就悲剧的娃，教他不
是害他嘛。
【在 b**d 的大作中提到】
: 重男轻女。。。。。
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b**d
发帖数: 7644 | 20 这倒也是。。。。。
【在 H******9 的大作中提到】
: 晕，都说我更疼女娃呢。偶是因材施教。你说要是碰到个一沾宗教就悲剧的娃，教他不
: 是害他嘛。
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r****n
发帖数: 7315 | 21
你这是胆小怕事。未证言证。
【在 H******9 的大作中提到】
: 偶是尊师、重教
: 你操啥心啊
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r****n
发帖数: 7315 | 22
看来你还是小看了宗教。
【在 H******9 的大作中提到】
: 晕，都说我更疼女娃呢。偶是因材施教。你说要是碰到个一沾宗教就悲剧的娃，教他不
: 是害他嘛。
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l*******l
发帖数: 13923 | 23 你家LD英明。
【在 H******9 的大作中提到】
: 有人要带回去培养，不过领导不同意。
: 还是呆在身边平安是福。偶擅长启发性教育，还可以教学相长。俺从他身上会学到很多
: 地。：）
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l*******l
发帖数: 13923 | 24 爹疼女娃自然啊
【在 H******9 的大作中提到】
: 晕，都说我更疼女娃呢。偶是因材施教。你说要是碰到个一沾宗教就悲剧的娃，教他不
: 是害他嘛。
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l*******l
发帖数: 13923 | 25 LOL
【在 b**d 的大作中提到】
: 写得我都想当你儿子啦。。。。。
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H******9
发帖数: 2766 | 26 所以建议你用文艺青年地眼光看~~偶跟偶家娃娃唠嗑几句十来年后人家才能看到地话，
你瞎操啥个心啊～
【在 r****n 的大作中提到】
:
: 看来你还是小看了宗教。
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r****n
发帖数: 7315 | 27
十年后你就证了？
【在 H******9 的大作中提到】
: 所以建议你用文艺青年地眼光看~~偶跟偶家娃娃唠嗑几句十来年后人家才能看到地话，
: 你瞎操啥个心啊～
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H******9
发帖数: 2766 | 28 It's a matter of how I see my own trajectory. It's not something I can share
with you.
The wisdom I am looking to attain is my 'Dao'. To me its specifics are
closely correlated with how I write my 忘情篇. Don't mistake it for
something else you read from storybooks.
【在 r****n 的大作中提到】
:
: 十年后你就证了？
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r****n
发帖数: 7315 | 29
share
good luck。希望你儿会青出于蓝。
【在 H******9 的大作中提到】
: It's a matter of how I see my own trajectory. It's not something I can share
: with you.
: The wisdom I am looking to attain is my 'Dao'. To me its specifics are
: closely correlated with how I write my 忘情篇. Don't mistake it for
: something else you read from storybooks.
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H******9
发帖数: 2766 | 30 He will be. And I can already see how I am going be inspired by him.
【在 r****n 的大作中提到】
:
: share
: good luck。希望你儿会青出于蓝。
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r****n
发帖数: 7315 | 31
胸无大志。 ：）
【在 H******9 的大作中提到】
: He will be. And I can already see how I am going be inspired by him.
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T*******y
发帖数: 6523 | 32 情真意切......
So when almost all Chinese parents are driving around to take their children
to this or that class, you might be teaching him 文言文, 道, 易 ... Also,
when others are taking their children to this or that park, you might be
taking him to 武当 ... right?
It's his 缘 to be born as your son, and it's your 缘 to educate him this way.
【在 H******9 的大作中提到】
: 这是俺写给儿子的，以后俺家家传的Ｂｏｏｋ ｏｆ Ｓｈａｄｏｗｓ的序言～～
: 啥叫Ｂｏｏｋ ｏｆ Ｓｈａｄｏｗｓ，就是家传秘籍，打印的时候ｍａｒｇｉｎ留大
: 点，儿子可以做笔记，补充，然后再留给孙子地那种～～
: 序言用文言坑出来地，比便秘难受～～因为以后一定要娃学会文言文地，尽管现在一嘴
: 鸟文～～
: │又│情│守│存│解│觀│及│汝│福│吾│維│，│，│為│凡│生│眾│夫│
: │玄│篇│一│於│脫│來│，│投│業│兒│世│劫│人│父│夫│夢│生│太│
: │。│授│而│微│之│處│與│生│，│，│法│後│倫│半│可│死│熙│上│
: │ │道│參│密│路│，│人│之│因│汝│人│幸│難│生│及│，│攘│之│
: │ │器│其│之│，│得│事│苦│夙│性│倫│得│悖│慕│；│執│如│道│
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b**d
发帖数: 7644 | 33 浪子兄是真的武林高手，会功夫的。。。。俺拜师未果。。。。
children
way.
【在 T*******y 的大作中提到】
: 情真意切......
: So when almost all Chinese parents are driving around to take their children
: to this or that class, you might be teaching him 文言文, 道, 易 ... Also,
: when others are taking their children to this or that park, you might be
: taking him to 武当 ... right?
: It's his 缘 to be born as your son, and it's your 缘 to educate him this way.
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T*******y
发帖数: 6523 | 34 hehe, plant the seed now, probably you'd get the fruit some time... :-)
【在 b**d 的大作中提到】
: 浪子兄是真的武林高手，会功夫的。。。。俺拜师未果。。。。
:
: children
: way.
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Y**u
发帖数: 5466 | 35 强
【在 H******9 的大作中提到】
: 这是俺写给儿子的，以后俺家家传的Ｂｏｏｋ ｏｆ Ｓｈａｄｏｗｓ的序言～～
: 啥叫Ｂｏｏｋ ｏｆ Ｓｈａｄｏｗｓ，就是家传秘籍，打印的时候ｍａｒｇｉｎ留大
: 点，儿子可以做笔记，补充，然后再留给孙子地那种～～
: 序言用文言坑出来地，比便秘难受～～因为以后一定要娃学会文言文地，尽管现在一嘴
: 鸟文～～
: │又│情│守│存│解│觀│及│汝│福│吾│維│，│，│為│凡│生│眾│夫│
: │玄│篇│一│於│脫│來│，│投│業│兒│世│劫│人│父│夫│夢│生│太│
: │。│授│而│微│之│處│與│生│，│，│法│後│倫│半│可│死│熙│上│
: │ │道│參│密│路│，│人│之│因│汝│人│幸│難│生│及│，│攘│之│
: │ │器│其│之│，│得│事│苦│夙│性│倫│得│悖│慕│；│執│如│道│
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H******9
发帖数: 2766 | 36 He will go through the same developmental stage just like every other kid. I
definitely don't want him to grow up feeling something has been left out. I
actually enjoy being part of his experience here and it's been fun as I
didn't grow up in this country. I just plan to provide him with an extra
set of tools and a perspective he wouldn't normally get from others... so, a
variety of classes are still necessary and I enjoy taking him to Disney
parks too :)
children
way.
【在 T*******y 的大作中提到】
: 情真意切......
: So when almost all Chinese parents are driving around to take their children
: to this or that class, you might be teaching him 文言文, 道, 易 ... Also,
: when others are taking their children to this or that park, you might be
: taking him to 武当 ... right?
: It's his 缘 to be born as your son, and it's your 缘 to educate him this way.
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r****n
发帖数: 7315 | 37
I
I
a
如果你搞得这一套是错误的，是迷信的咋办？这不是就会害了娃。
【在 H******9 的大作中提到】
: He will go through the same developmental stage just like every other kid. I
: definitely don't want him to grow up feeling something has been left out. I
: actually enjoy being part of his experience here and it's been fun as I
: didn't grow up in this country. I just plan to provide him with an extra
: set of tools and a perspective he wouldn't normally get from others... so, a
: variety of classes are still necessary and I enjoy taking him to Disney
: parks too :)
:
: children
: way.
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H******9
发帖数: 2766 | 38 I don't think that's the right question to ask -
1. Remember when I asked you what you would feel if the chance of you
reaching nirvana in this life is slim following your current pratice, you
said "then next life and next life..."... What do you expect me to answer
in this case?
2. It's not a bet on whether what you got is right or wrong. As Truestory
said, it's his fate to have me as his father. Even if I don't pass on
anything in writing, I'll still model by example (knowing myself) and he
will naturally become interested given that he is esoterically inclined (
based on my reading of his natal chart).
【在 r****n 的大作中提到】
:
: I
: I
: a
: 如果你搞得这一套是错误的，是迷信的咋办？这不是就会害了娃。
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r****n
发帖数: 7315 | 39
好吧。你就尽量教他你认为对的东西吧。简单幸福最好。
【在 H******9 的大作中提到】
: I don't think that's the right question to ask -
: 1. Remember when I asked you what you would feel if the chance of you
: reaching nirvana in this life is slim following your current pratice, you
: said "then next life and next life..."... What do you expect me to answer
: in this case?
: 2. It's not a bet on whether what you got is right or wrong. As Truestory
: said, it's his fate to have me as his father. Even if I don't pass on
: anything in writing, I'll still model by example (knowing myself) and he
: will naturally become interested given that he is esoterically inclined (
: based on my reading of his natal chart).
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T*******y
发帖数: 6523 | 40 Ah, that's great. It would be best for the kids to have options to try out
what s/he likes. Ultimately when the school gets busy, they have to choose
only a couple of interests and give up the others, but it's a natural
process for them to know what really matters for them.
In the same way that you have spent time to choose your current path, your
son would very likely want to find time to build his expertise in this area.
I definitely don't want him to grow up feeling something has been left out.
I actually enjoy being part of his experience here and it's been fun as I
didn't grow up in this country. I just plan to provide him with an extra
set of tools and a perspective he wouldn't normally get from others... so, a
variety of classes are still necessary and I enjoy taking him to Disney
parks too :)
【在 H******9 的大作中提到】
: He will go through the same developmental stage just like every other kid. I
: definitely don't want him to grow up feeling something has been left out. I
: actually enjoy being part of his experience here and it's been fun as I
: didn't grow up in this country. I just plan to provide him with an extra
: set of tools and a perspective he wouldn't normally get from others... so, a
: variety of classes are still necessary and I enjoy taking him to Disney
: parks too :)
:
: children
: way.
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T*******y
发帖数: 6523 | 41 Haven't you been trying to do what you think as right, correct, or helpful
for yourself and your family? Is it always "correct"? Either you say yes or
no, a lesson/mistake/wrong thing would have taught you something that you
wouldn't have learned in the "correct" way. Why are you so stressed about
being absolutely correct? Not only here, but also on who should be the BM,
etc.
Take it easy, and let yourself and others be stupid sometimes, and
oftentimes it is not stupid at all.
【在 r****n 的大作中提到】
:
: 好吧。你就尽量教他你认为对的东西吧。简单幸福最好。
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r****n
发帖数: 7315 | 42
or
我会继续做我认为对的事。
【在 T*******y 的大作中提到】
: Haven't you been trying to do what you think as right, correct, or helpful
: for yourself and your family? Is it always "correct"? Either you say yes or
: no, a lesson/mistake/wrong thing would have taught you something that you
: wouldn't have learned in the "correct" way. Why are you so stressed about
: being absolutely correct? Not only here, but also on who should be the BM,
: etc.
: Take it easy, and let yourself and others be stupid sometimes, and
: oftentimes it is not stupid at all.
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T*******y
发帖数: 6523 | 43 yep, so do others. :-)
【在 r****n 的大作中提到】
:
: or
: 我会继续做我认为对的事。
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r****n
发帖数: 7315 | 44
鹦鹉机器人， 你好。
【在 T*******y 的大作中提到】
: yep, so do others. :-)
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T*******y
发帖数: 6523 | 45 In what way have I been a 机器人? Let alone 鹦鹉? :-) I remember you call
somebody else 鹦鹉 before, perhaps I'd hear more words, such as 无聊, from
you. :-)
【在 r****n 的大作中提到】
:
: 鹦鹉机器人， 你好。
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r****n
发帖数: 7315 | 46
无聊
【在 T*******y 的大作中提到】
: In what way have I been a 机器人? Let alone 鹦鹉? :-) I remember you call
: somebody else 鹦鹉 before, perhaps I'd hear more words, such as 无聊, from
: you. :-)
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T*******y
发帖数: 6523 | 47 Oh, so I am a Turing Machine that can even predict ah. :-)
【在 r****n 的大作中提到】
:
: 无聊
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l**a
发帖数: 5175 | 48 男孩最重要的是养家糊口的本事,适当该有点名利心就要有点,
有点争强好胜的心不是错,多参与体育活动,团体竞技活动比什么都好.
女孩,一定要学舞蹈,我们已经坚持学芭蕾几年了,就是要把一种
技巧学到家,至少学到能穿点脚尖鞋,舞台上连转几个圈的,之后
自己学不学了,就看兴趣了.气质不是天上掉下来的.
男孩穷养,女孩富养,要周游世界,见多识广.
读书,思考比什么都重要.就是要能在社会上过好日子,不说成功,也不能啃老.
要对社会有贡献.
【在 H******9 的大作中提到】
: 这是俺写给儿子的，以后俺家家传的Ｂｏｏｋ ｏｆ Ｓｈａｄｏｗｓ的序言～～
: 啥叫Ｂｏｏｋ ｏｆ Ｓｈａｄｏｗｓ，就是家传秘籍，打印的时候ｍａｒｇｉｎ留大
: 点，儿子可以做笔记，补充，然后再留给孙子地那种～～
: 序言用文言坑出来地，比便秘难受～～因为以后一定要娃学会文言文地，尽管现在一嘴
: 鸟文～～
: │又│情│守│存│解│觀│及│汝│福│吾│維│，│，│為│凡│生│眾│夫│
: │玄│篇│一│於│脫│來│，│投│業│兒│世│劫│人│父│夫│夢│生│太│
: │。│授│而│微│之│處│與│生│，│，│法│後│倫│半│可│死│熙│上│
: │ │道│參│密│路│，│人│之│因│汝│人│幸│難│生│及│，│攘│之│
: │ │器│其│之│，│得│事│苦│夙│性│倫│得│悖│慕│；│執│如│道│
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H******9
发帖数: 2766 | 49 Ok, 不谈娃了。这种Personal地事情，是家家自己的经，没什么好讲地。偶就是就着人
家跟紫薇兄唠嗑的灵感来一下，过去了就甭谈娃了。想谈养娃，还是跟领导和亲朋好友
谈比较好。
【在 l**a 的大作中提到】
: 男孩最重要的是养家糊口的本事,适当该有点名利心就要有点,
: 有点争强好胜的心不是错,多参与体育活动,团体竞技活动比什么都好.
: 女孩,一定要学舞蹈,我们已经坚持学芭蕾几年了,就是要把一种
: 技巧学到家,至少学到能穿点脚尖鞋,舞台上连转几个圈的,之后
: 自己学不学了,就看兴趣了.气质不是天上掉下来的.
: 男孩穷养,女孩富养,要周游世界,见多识广.
: 读书,思考比什么都重要.就是要能在社会上过好日子,不说成功,也不能啃老.
: 要对社会有贡献.
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