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i*********f
发帖数: 29
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Forgive me for not being able to type Chinese on my PC.
I always feel irritated when my co-worker or collaborator asks me "when can
you finish xxxx". I feel this kind of questions are condescending. I rarely
ask other ppl such questions.
How do you guys feel about such questions? And how do you respond?
c********2
发帖数: 2773
2
Just tell them a rough time so they can plan ahead.
It's better than "You are supposed to get it done within one day", right?.
That's exactly what my co-worker told me.
G*******s
发帖数: 10605
3
I don't feel anything offensive on that question even though I would
probably ask more politely for a timetable. Sometime work needs to be done
to meet deadline so people need to know your time table.
Learn to think more positively. If you were the manager and you need to know
how long everyone can finish his piece of work, what would you ask? A
direct question like this may be necessary. Typically we may ask "when do
you think this work can be done?".

can
rarely

【在 i*********f 的大作中提到】
: Forgive me for not being able to type Chinese on my PC.
: I always feel irritated when my co-worker or collaborator asks me "when can
: you finish xxxx". I feel this kind of questions are condescending. I rarely
: ask other ppl such questions.
: How do you guys feel about such questions? And how do you respond?

s********y
发帖数: 3811
4
i am curious how you ask about status from ur co-worker when you need
something from them?
or you just keep quiet?

can
rarely

【在 i*********f 的大作中提到】
: Forgive me for not being able to type Chinese on my PC.
: I always feel irritated when my co-worker or collaborator asks me "when can
: you finish xxxx". I feel this kind of questions are condescending. I rarely
: ask other ppl such questions.
: How do you guys feel about such questions? And how do you respond?

b*******c
发帖数: 20683
5
这不是很正常吗,我被同事老板问,我也经常问别人啥时候能干完啥啥的,没啥难回答
的。

【在 i*********f 的大作中提到】
: Forgive me for not being able to type Chinese on my PC.
: I always feel irritated when my co-worker or collaborator asks me "when can
: you finish xxxx". I feel this kind of questions are condescending. I rarely
: ask other ppl such questions.
: How do you guys feel about such questions? And how do you respond?

A********0
发帖数: 3310
6
如果是上级问就估计一下,给个平均时间,要留余地,不要把自己逼死。
如果平级,看看是出于啥目的,如果是居心不良,就含糊些。
如果是下级,你知道怎么做啦。
I****G
发帖数: 286
7
这个问题很正常吧 每个布置下来的任务 但凡是有deadline的都会问 不过可能加个 疑
问语气: when do you think this can be done? is it possible to have this
done by XXX.... 都是一个意思
b********9
发帖数: 159
8
Just give an honest estimate. If you're busy, you can tell them that I'm
currently busy with [whatever] projects; I'll try to get to it by [whatever]
date and let you know if I have any issues. If they have problem with your
answer, have them go talk to your manager. Of course, if you are not busy,
just get it done for them so they can get off your butt.

can
rarely

【在 i*********f 的大作中提到】
: Forgive me for not being able to type Chinese on my PC.
: I always feel irritated when my co-worker or collaborator asks me "when can
: you finish xxxx". I feel this kind of questions are condescending. I rarely
: ask other ppl such questions.
: How do you guys feel about such questions? And how do you respond?

p**r
发帖数: 5853
9
如果老大问,当然要回答,
其他人就一句,do your job, don't be stupid
s***c
发帖数: 639
10
如果别人的工作需要你的进度,而且你behind schedule,你有义务给个合理的时间吧
,别人也好分配下一步的工作。要是按时,就说会on schedule

can
rarely

【在 i*********f 的大作中提到】
: Forgive me for not being able to type Chinese on my PC.
: I always feel irritated when my co-worker or collaborator asks me "when can
: you finish xxxx". I feel this kind of questions are condescending. I rarely
: ask other ppl such questions.
: How do you guys feel about such questions? And how do you respond?

g*****g
发帖数: 34805
11
I don't see how this can be offensive at all. If you are doing your job, you
deliver on time, just give an honest answer.

can
rarely

【在 i*********f 的大作中提到】
: Forgive me for not being able to type Chinese on my PC.
: I always feel irritated when my co-worker or collaborator asks me "when can
: you finish xxxx". I feel this kind of questions are condescending. I rarely
: ask other ppl such questions.
: How do you guys feel about such questions? And how do you respond?

i****k
发帖数: 804
12
很正常的问题。如果反过来,你需要依赖对方的deliverable,你一样应该问这个问题
。团队合作的基本技能。
如实回答就好了。如果你无法准确估计,就告诉对方这是一个estimate。

can
rarely

【在 i*********f 的大作中提到】
: Forgive me for not being able to type Chinese on my PC.
: I always feel irritated when my co-worker or collaborator asks me "when can
: you finish xxxx". I feel this kind of questions are condescending. I rarely
: ask other ppl such questions.
: How do you guys feel about such questions? And how do you respond?

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