D*********t
发帖数: 370 | 1 Sorry, haven't been here for long…
She graduated last year and moved to a different city. She's not my student
– I was on her thesis committee. I had written a (good) rec letter for
her postdoc application. She's lovely girl and we had a good relationship,
but nothing special.
Today I (quite unexpectedly) received a delivery of a large bouquet of fresh
flowers (mostly pink roses) from a local flower shop. Apparently she had
ordered the delivery.
She had written on a hand-written card, "Con |
a**n
发帖数: 3801 | 2 很暧昧
student
,
fresh
xxx”
【在 D*********t 的大作中提到】
: Sorry, haven't been here for long…
: She graduated last year and moved to a different city. She's not my student
: – I was on her thesis committee. I had written a (good) rec letter for
: her postdoc application. She's lovely girl and we had a good relationship,
: but nothing special.
: Today I (quite unexpectedly) received a delivery of a large bouquet of fresh
: flowers (mostly pink roses) from a local flower shop. Apparently she had
: ordered the delivery.
: She had written on a hand-written card, "Con
|
o****y
发帖数: 790 | 3 Congrats!
Get a promotion, be proud, cherish it, and cheer for it. I also sense your
urge to share the "belated" joy with us, and we are happy for you, as we
too are looking forward to such a day.
My question: why so elusive? :) |
a**********d
发帖数: 2293 | |
D*********t
发帖数: 370 | 5 That's a waste of money :-) More tangible than flowers, though.
【在 a**********d 的大作中提到】
: 去买钻戒。
|
D*********t
发帖数: 370 | 6 What do mean by "elusive"? You mean the way she sent me flowers? She's
married (to someone else). I don't think she wants to have a relation (with
me).
【在 o****y 的大作中提到】
: Congrats!
: Get a promotion, be proud, cherish it, and cheer for it. I also sense your
: urge to share the "belated" joy with us, and we are happy for you, as we
: too are looking forward to such a day.
: My question: why so elusive? :)
|
o****y
发帖数: 790 | 7 I mean the way you let us know you got promoted. :)
Don't be mad, get glad.:)
with
【在 D*********t 的大作中提到】
: What do mean by "elusive"? You mean the way she sent me flowers? She's
: married (to someone else). I don't think she wants to have a relation (with
: me).
|
l*****o
发帖数: 140 | 8 the first time I saw DrBiologist has a question to ask ...haha...
student
,
fresh
xxx”
【在 D*********t 的大作中提到】
: Sorry, haven't been here for long…
: She graduated last year and moved to a different city. She's not my student
: – I was on her thesis committee. I had written a (good) rec letter for
: her postdoc application. She's lovely girl and we had a good relationship,
: but nothing special.
: Today I (quite unexpectedly) received a delivery of a large bouquet of fresh
: flowers (mostly pink roses) from a local flower shop. Apparently she had
: ordered the delivery.
: She had written on a hand-written card, "Con
|
p*********e
发帖数: 27 | 9 At the first glance, glad was mistaken for laid. Sorry.
I think it is ok to send dark pink roses for thanks, please see the meaning
of pink roses in the following link:
http://www.proflowers.com/flowerguide/rosemeanings/pinkrose-meanings.aspx
A thank you card will be good but do not reply with LOVE.
【在 o****y 的大作中提到】
: I mean the way you let us know you got promoted. :)
: Don't be mad, get glad.:)
:
: with
|
a**********d
发帖数: 2293 | 10 Honestly, if you don't feel comfortable telling your LD, then there is
probably something 暧昧 about it. |
|
|
D*********t
发帖数: 370 | 11 Thanks a lot, Prince!!! The flower guide is useful. If I were to send (or
receive) flowers in the future, I will definitely consult it again.
I will send a thankyou card by mail, and sign it without LOVE. :-)
meaning
【在 p*********e 的大作中提到】
: At the first glance, glad was mistaken for laid. Sorry.
: I think it is ok to send dark pink roses for thanks, please see the meaning
: of pink roses in the following link:
: http://www.proflowers.com/flowerguide/rosemeanings/pinkrose-meanings.aspx
: A thank you card will be good but do not reply with LOVE.
|
D*********t
发帖数: 370 | 12 I don't tell LD everything. LD is too sensitive, can make a big fuss out of
nothing, let alone if there is something ambiguous.
【在 a**********d 的大作中提到】
: Honestly, if you don't feel comfortable telling your LD, then there is
: probably something 暧昧 about it.
|
a**********d
发帖数: 2293 | 13 Understood. That's why I put in the word "probably", hehe
.
of
【在 D*********t 的大作中提到】
: I don't tell LD everything. LD is too sensitive, can make a big fuss out of
: nothing, let alone if there is something ambiguous.
|
f****b
发帖数: 314 | 14 congratulations on your colorful life...:) |
O******e
发帖数: 4845 | 15 Congrats to your promotion. Tenured?
Don't get involved too much with this girl. You two seem to like each other
a bit, which could be really dangerous......
student
,
fresh
xxx”
【在 D*********t 的大作中提到】
: Sorry, haven't been here for long…
: She graduated last year and moved to a different city. She's not my student
: – I was on her thesis committee. I had written a (good) rec letter for
: her postdoc application. She's lovely girl and we had a good relationship,
: but nothing special.
: Today I (quite unexpectedly) received a delivery of a large bouquet of fresh
: flowers (mostly pink roses) from a local flower shop. Apparently she had
: ordered the delivery.
: She had written on a hand-written card, "Con
|
s******y
发帖数: 28562 | 16 You should send a thankyou note back for sure. DOn't sign "love", it is
weird.
And don't think too much why she signed "love", maybe she loves you like the
way
she loves her father or grandfather. So don't over-analyze it.
By the way, congratulations to your promotion! In case I cannot find a job,
maybe I can wash galsswares for your lab?
student
,
fresh
xxx”
【在 D*********t 的大作中提到】
: Sorry, haven't been here for long…
: She graduated last year and moved to a different city. She's not my student
: – I was on her thesis committee. I had written a (good) rec letter for
: her postdoc application. She's lovely girl and we had a good relationship,
: but nothing special.
: Today I (quite unexpectedly) received a delivery of a large bouquet of fresh
: flowers (mostly pink roses) from a local flower shop. Apparently she had
: ordered the delivery.
: She had written on a hand-written card, "Con
|
D*********t
发帖数: 370 | 17 I wanted to keep a low profile... Thx!
【在 o****y 的大作中提到】
: I mean the way you let us know you got promoted. :)
: Don't be mad, get glad.:)
:
: with
|
e****g
发帖数: 4434 | 18 结婚了么，没结婚估计他不敢让你洗试管
万一你也送花咋办
the
,
【在 s******y 的大作中提到】
: You should send a thankyou note back for sure. DOn't sign "love", it is
: weird.
: And don't think too much why she signed "love", maybe she loves you like the
: way
: she loves her father or grandfather. So don't over-analyze it.
: By the way, congratulations to your promotion! In case I cannot find a job,
: maybe I can wash galsswares for your lab?
:
: student
: ,
|
D*********t
发帖数: 370 | 19 It's been a while. Thx for the advice.
other
【在 O******e 的大作中提到】
: Congrats to your promotion. Tenured?
: Don't get involved too much with this girl. You two seem to like each other
: a bit, which could be really dangerous......
:
: student
: ,
: fresh
: xxx”
|
D*********t
发帖数: 370 | 20 You are too humble :-) I'm sure you will have your ideal job in the near
future.
(Fatherly) bless to you!
the
,
..
【在 s******y 的大作中提到】
: You should send a thankyou note back for sure. DOn't sign "love", it is
: weird.
: And don't think too much why she signed "love", maybe she loves you like the
: way
: she loves her father or grandfather. So don't over-analyze it.
: By the way, congratulations to your promotion! In case I cannot find a job,
: maybe I can wash galsswares for your lab?
:
: student
: ,
|
|
|
O******e
发帖数: 4845 | 21 Man, you are not that old.....
【在 D*********t 的大作中提到】
: You are too humble :-) I'm sure you will have your ideal job in the near
: future.
: (Fatherly) bless to you!
:
: the
: ,
: ..
|
F****r
发帖数: 345 | 22 Petitprince’s suggestion is very sensible.
To OP, why do you use the word embarrass? Look, I am an AP who has never
received any flower from a female student. This is an emotionally
embarrassing situation for me. But yours is definitely something worth
celebrating. You served on her committee, wrote her a strong rec letter,
helped her in her career. Any normal graduate student will find one way or
the other to express her gratitude.
The LOVE word caused a little emotional stir for us who are n
【在 p*********e 的大作中提到】
: At the first glance, glad was mistaken for laid. Sorry.
: I think it is ok to send dark pink roses for thanks, please see the meaning
: of pink roses in the following link:
: http://www.proflowers.com/flowerguide/rosemeanings/pinkrose-meanings.aspx
: A thank you card will be good but do not reply with LOVE.
|
v*******y
发帖数: 5530 | 23 原来lz也会纠结
我还以为lz已经很超脱世事了呢
student
,
fresh
xxx”
【在 D*********t 的大作中提到】
: Sorry, haven't been here for long…
: She graduated last year and moved to a different city. She's not my student
: – I was on her thesis committee. I had written a (good) rec letter for
: her postdoc application. She's lovely girl and we had a good relationship,
: but nothing special.
: Today I (quite unexpectedly) received a delivery of a large bouquet of fresh
: flowers (mostly pink roses) from a local flower shop. Apparently she had
: ordered the delivery.
: She had written on a hand-written card, "Con
|
h*****n
发帖数: 924 | 24 Just write back very professionally. It is good for both, and even makes the
memory sweeter -- Unavailable things are sweet, you know...
student
,
fresh
xxx”
【在 D*********t 的大作中提到】
: Sorry, haven't been here for long…
: She graduated last year and moved to a different city. She's not my student
: – I was on her thesis committee. I had written a (good) rec letter for
: her postdoc application. She's lovely girl and we had a good relationship,
: but nothing special.
: Today I (quite unexpectedly) received a delivery of a large bouquet of fresh
: flowers (mostly pink roses) from a local flower shop. Apparently she had
: ordered the delivery.
: She had written on a hand-written card, "Con
|
a******8
发帖数: 231 | 25 很正常啊
我博士老板当年 获奖了 发了牛文章了 也有很多人送花祝贺 大多是女性，可能女生
更细心体贴些，喜欢送花些，男性一般是送点实物啥的。
礼貌回复，自己别想多就行了吧。 |
N****L
发帖数: 632 | 26 well well well, it depends on where you want this relationship go. If you
are looking for something aggressive, you can go: the smell of you reminds
me of something wonderful. if you are not, just pick some formal words and
you can get a piece of crap that is going to make her love you even more. |
c******a
发帖数: 633 | 27 俺以为要是异族就是一个非常普通的感谢。要是国人的话搂主可要三思，任何暧昧的回
复都可能引来麻烦。 据俺观察，国人对国人用Dear都很小心，更不用说love啦^-^ |
f*****x
发帖数: 2748 | 28 这是惯例吗？具体说说吧。
今年我老板(非论文老板但教过我我跟他合作过两篇文章，我已经毕业)评上
两院院士，我只在前面那次发了一封简短的邮件祝贺，是不是太说不过去了？
有没有什么办法补救一下或是没这个必要了？我和老板都是男的。
【在 a******8 的大作中提到】
: 很正常啊
: 我博士老板当年 获奖了 发了牛文章了 也有很多人送花祝贺 大多是女性，可能女生
: 更细心体贴些，喜欢送花些，男性一般是送点实物啥的。
: 礼貌回复，自己别想多就行了吧。
|
j********q
发帖数: 1001 | |
d**********d
发帖数: 28 | 30 Isn't it obvious? She is testing the water. She surely is interested in
you, yet she doesn't want to be too direct, because 1) you are both married
and 2) she is a girl. Roses plus an ambiguously signed "Love" said
everything she needed to say, yet at the same time she could back out
without losing her face or causing embarrasment between you two if you are
not interested. Now she is just waiting to see how you respond. I bet if
you "Love" back, there will be an affair going on. Look, a po
【在 j********q 的大作中提到】
: 你想太多了
|
|
|
R**N
发帖数: 453 | 31 不sure的同学找个老美问问，女的签名写love是啥意思。 |
i*****e
发帖数: 2810 | 32 就是啊。想得太多，心里有点不阳光。
有些美国女孩有的就是喜欢用LOVE签名，可能是从小养成的习惯吧。我第一次收到这种
卡片时还是TA的时候，也觉得有点怪怪的。后来习惯了，也知道没什么意思之后，就好
了。
有一次看儿子从学校拿回来的卡片，几个女孩签写了LOVE，儿子还专门说她们给好些人
都这么写，没什么别的意思。俺就说俺知道。哈哈。
【在 j********q 的大作中提到】
: 你想太多了
|
o****y
发帖数: 790 | 33 This is what I call imaginative creativity. Very nice quality to have when
doing ground-breaking research, almost imperative when connecting dots
that have deeply hidden causal relations.:)
married
【在 d**********d 的大作中提到】
: Isn't it obvious? She is testing the water. She surely is interested in
: you, yet she doesn't want to be too direct, because 1) you are both married
: and 2) she is a girl. Roses plus an ambiguously signed "Love" said
: everything she needed to say, yet at the same time she could back out
: without losing her face or causing embarrasment between you two if you are
: not interested. Now she is just waiting to see how you respond. I bet if
: you "Love" back, there will be an affair going on. Look, a po
|
J********6
发帖数: 100 | 34 她(国女?)暗恋你吧?
这信怎么回决定在你的态度.你想发展成什么关系, 你自己看着写吧
student
,
fresh
xxx”
【在 D*********t 的大作中提到】
: Sorry, haven't been here for long…
: She graduated last year and moved to a different city. She's not my student
: – I was on her thesis committee. I had written a (good) rec letter for
: her postdoc application. She's lovely girl and we had a good relationship,
: but nothing special.
: Today I (quite unexpectedly) received a delivery of a large bouquet of fresh
: flowers (mostly pink roses) from a local flower shop. Apparently she had
: ordered the delivery.
: She had written on a hand-written card, "Con
|
i*****k
发帖数: 2576 | 35 同意。
我想这个女学生所做的就是为了人际关系(不是贬义的）。她现在做博士后，也许以后
申请教职会申请LZ所在学校也不一定。或者有机会一起发PAPER之类的。LZ就当普通同
事回复就行了。
【在 j********q 的大作中提到】
: 你想太多了
|
r****f
发帖数: 1041 | 36 你想得太多了。
女生写个love合适，你写则weird。
别自作多情闹笑话。 |
h****i
发帖数: 9 | 37 we need pics to see what you need to do... |
r****f
发帖数: 1041 | 38 从回复看，中国WSN当上发考题还是那么WS。
读了半辈子死书，要社交没社交，要见识没见识，一个再普通不过的花束和卡片都能引
来WSN的臆想。
真TM笑死人。 |
s******6
发帖数: 38 | 39 More likely she want to keep a good connection with you for career purpose,
but also can not totally rule out if she actually has romantic interest in
you too.
No need to give special thank back gifts, just email her and let her know
your appreciation for the gift ("I like these roses!" blah blah, need to
talk about the gift with a passion). You can also ask how she is doing with
her career, ask if there is anything you can help. Actually, your help
with her career is the best gift you can giv
【在 D*********t 的大作中提到】
: Sorry, haven't been here for long…
: She graduated last year and moved to a different city. She's not my student
: – I was on her thesis committee. I had written a (good) rec letter for
: her postdoc application. She's lovely girl and we had a good relationship,
: but nothing special.
: Today I (quite unexpectedly) received a delivery of a large bouquet of fresh
: flowers (mostly pink roses) from a local flower shop. Apparently she had
: ordered the delivery.
: She had written on a hand-written card, "Con
|
a********2
发帖数: 1261 | 40 俺还见过又是love又是kisses的呢
人家都婚了，楼主安啦
你回信表示感谢是应该的，至于落款，就按照自己的习惯，此致敬礼都可以拉
,
with
also
【在 s******6 的大作中提到】
: More likely she want to keep a good connection with you for career purpose,
: but also can not totally rule out if she actually has romantic interest in
: you too.
: No need to give special thank back gifts, just email her and let her know
: your appreciation for the gift ("I like these roses!" blah blah, need to
: talk about the gift with a passion). You can also ask how she is doing with
: her career, ask if there is anything you can help. Actually, your help
: with her career is the best gift you can giv
|
|
|
w***8
发帖数: 465 | 41 WS是与生俱来的,该不掉,haha
【在 r****f 的大作中提到】
: 从回复看，中国WSN当上发考题还是那么WS。
: 读了半辈子死书，要社交没社交，要见识没见识，一个再普通不过的花束和卡片都能引
: 来WSN的臆想。
: 真TM笑死人。
|
K*****y
发帖数: 1793 | 42 I am ur LD, I will contact your student and send a complain letter to bother
her hubby as well.
I will take care ur ass very well 2nite.
of
【在 D*********t 的大作中提到】
: I don't tell LD everything. LD is too sensitive, can make a big fuss out of
: nothing, let alone if there is something ambiguous.
|
b***p
发帖数: 1398 | 43 good article
Dark pink roses are symbolic of gratitude and appreciation, and are a
traditional way to send a message of thanks.
meaning
【在 p*********e 的大作中提到】
: At the first glance, glad was mistaken for laid. Sorry.
: I think it is ok to send dark pink roses for thanks, please see the meaning
: of pink roses in the following link:
: http://www.proflowers.com/flowerguide/rosemeanings/pinkrose-meanings.aspx
: A thank you card will be good but do not reply with LOVE.
|
c**0
发帖数: 535 | 44 我也看走眼了！
【在 p*********e 的大作中提到】
: At the first glance, glad was mistaken for laid. Sorry.
: I think it is ok to send dark pink roses for thanks, please see the meaning
: of pink roses in the following link:
: http://www.proflowers.com/flowerguide/rosemeanings/pinkrose-meanings.aspx
: A thank you card will be good but do not reply with LOVE.
|
o****y
发帖数: 790 | 45 In light of popular request, I hereby change
==> Don't be mad, get glad.:)
into
==> Don't be mad, get laid.:)
Cheers!
【在 c**0 的大作中提到】
: 我也看走眼了！
|
tj
发帖数: 957 | |
n*******x
发帖数: 88 | 47 是老中还是老美？
student
,
fresh
xxx”
【在 D*********t 的大作中提到】
: Sorry, haven't been here for long…
: She graduated last year and moved to a different city. She's not my student
: – I was on her thesis committee. I had written a (good) rec letter for
: her postdoc application. She's lovely girl and we had a good relationship,
: but nothing special.
: Today I (quite unexpectedly) received a delivery of a large bouquet of fresh
: flowers (mostly pink roses) from a local flower shop. Apparently she had
: ordered the delivery.
: She had written on a hand-written card, "Con
|
m****m
发帖数: 395 | 48 That Chinese girl is quite bold to do that. Obviously, she know what she is
doing and how you will feel. There do be a good relationship between you.
But you don't need to think too much of how to response, because either way
you two will have no result of love in future. If you response very
positively, you could become "红颜知己". If you need someone in your life
like that, it's a good chance. But nothing bad will happen if you control
well. If you response negatively or plainly, she will know tha |
N*****0
发帖数: 123 | 49 Don't use "Love", 如果你不想跟她暧昧。一般的感谢就可以了。象所有的Thank you
letter 一样。
student
,
fresh
xxx”
【在 D*********t 的大作中提到】
: Sorry, haven't been here for long…
: She graduated last year and moved to a different city. She's not my student
: – I was on her thesis committee. I had written a (good) rec letter for
: her postdoc application. She's lovely girl and we had a good relationship,
: but nothing special.
: Today I (quite unexpectedly) received a delivery of a large bouquet of fresh
: flowers (mostly pink roses) from a local flower shop. Apparently she had
: ordered the delivery.
: She had written on a hand-written card, "Con
|
S*P
发帖数: 7575 | |
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A********a
发帖数: 1846 | |
m*h
发帖数: 2750 | 52 这女的想当小三。
把花转送你老婆，然后跟准小三发email，说你一wsn不能消受那么好的玫瑰拉，转送了
她师母，她很喜欢，让你转达致谢。
如果你有意发展小三，那就说你老婆结婚N年都没这么体贴过，咱那天回请你这红颜知
己。
你啥都明白，问什么问。自己选择吧 |
a******8
发帖数: 231 | 53 中国社会还是人情味很浓的吧，自己不要想偏就行了。 |
M********G
发帖数: 1207 | |
D*********t
发帖数: 370 | 55 I decided to call her to express my appreciation.
She said she experienced some difficult time the past year adapting to a new
environment. Missed her graduate school horribly, to the point of becoming
depressive. She wanted to do a few things (including sending the flowers
to me) but didn't have enough courage. She eventually did it, after talking
to her friends. Now she feels relieved... (She didn't tell me what other
things she wanted to do.)
I actually regretted calling, because I ran |
o****y
发帖数: 790 | 56 Thanks a lot for the Baozi!
I always consider myself well-versed in such boy-girl situation, yet, I am
baffled by the complexity you described. Without too much background
information, I certainly can not offer any meaningful suggestion, nor can
draw any conclusion. However, one thing is crystal-clear to me,
she IS somewhat emotionally attached to you, maybe purely platonic. When
someone is stressed, she/he doesn't just randomly pick a shoulder to lean on
.:)
I do think you did the right thing b |
s**********0
发帖数: 1128 | 57 She must be a ABC, a lonely grill!
PS: She's not American, can converse in Chinese, but not good enough to read
or write. I don't think she knows about mitbbs. |
z****y
发帖数: 6864 | |
m*******n
发帖数: 338 | 59 yes I got baozi twice, thanks :)
I think it might be a good idea to invite her for dinner someday, you know,
to add some memory to your life.
From your description you must have helped her a lot, maybe even build her
confidence and career. You can take the chance to give her more advice as to
how to pursue further in her career. |
v*s
发帖数: 946 | 60 不管有没有暧昧，毕业了还能让学生记住还是很值得自豪的。
我决定这个xmas也给以前的导师写个卡片送点礼物，虽然毕业了好多年了。 |
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h*****n
发帖数: 924 | 61 Glad to see the progress and thanks for the baozi.
As said before, I always give conservative suggestions on such issues. It ca
uses troubles, personally or professionally, at least distraction from resea
rch. Still more troublesome for married guys. Distance is a good thing.
This is also a good feedback to those malicious replies posted here (some ev
en challenged the entire population of Chinese APs using your sutff...what t
he feck the morons).
new
becoming
talking
other
and
have
【在 D*********t 的大作中提到】
: I decided to call her to express my appreciation.
: She said she experienced some difficult time the past year adapting to a new
: environment. Missed her graduate school horribly, to the point of becoming
: depressive. She wanted to do a few things (including sending the flowers
: to me) but didn't have enough courage. She eventually did it, after talking
: to her friends. Now she feels relieved... (She didn't tell me what other
: things she wanted to do.)
: I actually regretted calling, because I ran
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v*******y
发帖数: 5530 | 62 没拿到包子
new
becoming
talking
other
and
have
【在 D*********t 的大作中提到】
: I decided to call her to express my appreciation.
: She said she experienced some difficult time the past year adapting to a new
: environment. Missed her graduate school horribly, to the point of becoming
: depressive. She wanted to do a few things (including sending the flowers
: to me) but didn't have enough courage. She eventually did it, after talking
: to her friends. Now she feels relieved... (She didn't tell me what other
: things she wanted to do.)
: I actually regretted calling, because I ran
|
rh
发帖数: 3901 | 63 恭喜升迁
以后经常收到学生送花送礼就不会意外了
可以随意发封email或者卡片表示感谢即可 |
V******9
发帖数: 1281 | 64 还有下文吗？怎么好象还有没讲完得故事。如果真的 nothing special，我是不会献花
还签什么 LOVE 的。
小声问：她离得远吗？可以去看吗？
再小声问：还有包子吗？
new
becoming
talking
other
and
have
【在 D*********t 的大作中提到】
: I decided to call her to express my appreciation.
: She said she experienced some difficult time the past year adapting to a new
: environment. Missed her graduate school horribly, to the point of becoming
: depressive. She wanted to do a few things (including sending the flowers
: to me) but didn't have enough courage. She eventually did it, after talking
: to her friends. Now she feels relieved... (She didn't tell me what other
: things she wanted to do.)
: I actually regretted calling, because I ran
|
j*e
发帖数: 392 | |
f*****x
发帖数: 2748 | 66 同样感觉。
关键语句：“She wanted to do a few things (including sending the flowers to
me) but didn't have enough courage. ”
依我说love back，静观事态发展。
不然辜负了人一片心意。
【在 V******9 的大作中提到】
: 还有下文吗？怎么好象还有没讲完得故事。如果真的 nothing special，我是不会献花
: 还签什么 LOVE 的。
: 小声问：她离得远吗？可以去看吗？
: 再小声问：还有包子吗？
:
: new
: becoming
: talking
: other
: and
|
k*****r
发帖数: 21039 | 67 no wonder your stress level is only 15.
student
,
fresh
xxx”
【在 D*********t 的大作中提到】
: Sorry, haven't been here for long…
: She graduated last year and moved to a different city. She's not my student
: – I was on her thesis committee. I had written a (good) rec letter for
: her postdoc application. She's lovely girl and we had a good relationship,
: but nothing special.
: Today I (quite unexpectedly) received a delivery of a large bouquet of fresh
: flowers (mostly pink roses) from a local flower shop. Apparently she had
: ordered the delivery.
: She had written on a hand-written card, "Con
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R********r
发帖数: 65 | 68 看出来发考题WS了，送束花这么普通的事，竟能搞出这么多联想。 |
a****e
发帖数: 1662 | 69 已经很明显的暗示啦。你那电话打得很糟，本来发考题很占优势，但你的“温油”会使
那学生得寸进尺。你当心吧，不要到时候你本来好人却被她反咬一口。。。赫赫
太多例子。。。都是名利均失...不信你就试试吧,赫赫
你本来就一句话：我老婆谢谢你送花。 Please be professional.
看来你还是有意跟她发展关系....
student
,
fresh
xxx”
【在 D*********t 的大作中提到】
: Sorry, haven't been here for long…
: She graduated last year and moved to a different city. She's not my student
: – I was on her thesis committee. I had written a (good) rec letter for
: her postdoc application. She's lovely girl and we had a good relationship,
: but nothing special.
: Today I (quite unexpectedly) received a delivery of a large bouquet of fresh
: flowers (mostly pink roses) from a local flower shop. Apparently she had
: ordered the delivery.
: She had written on a hand-written card, "Con
|
e****g
发帖数: 4434 | 70 呵呵，偷不如偷不着
【在 a****e 的大作中提到】
: 已经很明显的暗示啦。你那电话打得很糟，本来发考题很占优势，但你的“温油”会使
: 那学生得寸进尺。你当心吧，不要到时候你本来好人却被她反咬一口。。。赫赫
: 太多例子。。。都是名利均失...不信你就试试吧,赫赫
: 你本来就一句话：我老婆谢谢你送花。 Please be professional.
: 看来你还是有意跟她发展关系....
:
: student
: ,
: fresh
: xxx”
|
|
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f*******l
发帖数: 8811 | 71 又不是他的学生，没什么大不了的吧？
崔教授都屁事没有。
【在 a****e 的大作中提到】
: 已经很明显的暗示啦。你那电话打得很糟，本来发考题很占优势，但你的“温油”会使
: 那学生得寸进尺。你当心吧，不要到时候你本来好人却被她反咬一口。。。赫赫
: 太多例子。。。都是名利均失...不信你就试试吧,赫赫
: 你本来就一句话：我老婆谢谢你送花。 Please be professional.
: 看来你还是有意跟她发展关系....
:
: student
: ,
: fresh
: xxx”
|
f*****x
发帖数: 2748 | 72 有什么好怕的？目前又不是师生关系。
能咬到啥？jj?
【在 a****e 的大作中提到】
: 已经很明显的暗示啦。你那电话打得很糟，本来发考题很占优势，但你的“温油”会使
: 那学生得寸进尺。你当心吧，不要到时候你本来好人却被她反咬一口。。。赫赫
: 太多例子。。。都是名利均失...不信你就试试吧,赫赫
: 你本来就一句话：我老婆谢谢你送花。 Please be professional.
: 看来你还是有意跟她发展关系....
:
: student
: ,
: fresh
: xxx”
|
a*******i
发帖数: 11664 | 73
good point ah
【在 f*****x 的大作中提到】
: 有什么好怕的？目前又不是师生关系。
: 能咬到啥？jj?
|
r*******7
发帖数: 1144 | 74 还有包子吗？我都帮你把信写好了，copy paste 就行了。
Dear XX,
Thank you for your warm congrats. My wife loves the flowers that you kindly
send in. We are very happy about the promotion.
Best wishes for your XXX (job search, project, etc) too!
XXX
我也顺便祝贺你，love 007. |
w******t
发帖数: 1422 | 75 Do not put yourself in a less professional situation. here is another copy
XXX,
Thanks for the gift. Best regards with your career.
XX |
