S**b 发帖数: 1883 | 1 https://m.reddit.com/r/AsianMasculinity?count=25&page=1&after=t3_3mg8y9
可以看到ABC们的心理状态,很多帖子和军版思想不约而同。
看看这个贴,你发现很多abc在美国还是被看作外国人:
It's not just about food. I'm tired of being a minority here in the US,
tired of being seeing as "an Asian guy" rather than just "a guy." I'm tired
of the stereotypes.
When I traveled in Asia it honestly felt like going back to a "home" I never
had. For once I could just be like everybody else. I felt connected to
other people in a way I never felt like in the US (it helps I speak the
language). It was only after coming back to the US that I felt like a
foreigner again.
I wouldn't say I'm not assimilated into Western culture. I don't have an
accent, and I'm sure that in my personality/demeanor I probably come off as
more like a Westerner than an Asian. It's not like I wear my Asian-ness on
my sleeve. But in more superficial things sure I'm not very American. For
example my family never watched sports at home. As a result I don't care at
all about NFL/fantasy football, but it's the only thing my coworkers talk
about. Could I go learn that shit, sure, I could spend all my free time
studying NFL stats and pretending to care about it to be more "American",
but why bother? I'd rather spend time on things I like.
Re: my wife, yes she's practically Asian now, like I said we only cook/eat
Asian food. I probably like Western food more than she does. Will she feel
like a foreigner over there, I guess, but I had to feel like a foreigner
here in the US my entire life. Kids - that's thinking way too far out, but
who says they would have a better life in the US vs. in Asia. If they end up
looking Asian, they're going to have the same problems in the US that I did. | f******t 发帖数: 19544 | 2 You have an accent. 会说中文的ABC说英语都有一种特别味。 | f*******g 发帖数: 1290 | 3 是,asian 都有口音。可是他们偏偏最爱说他们do not have an accent. I was like:
come on guys!
【在 f******t 的大作中提到】 : You have an accent. 会说中文的ABC说英语都有一种特别味。
| f******t 发帖数: 19544 | 4 accent不算啥大事,我有中西部小城里出来的朋友,说话像含糖块,正经美国人听着都
费劲,人不是该干啥干啥。
like:
【在 f*******g 的大作中提到】 : 是,asian 都有口音。可是他们偏偏最爱说他们do not have an accent. I was like: : come on guys!
| f*******g 发帖数: 1290 | 5 是这个道理啊,但是他们急着怕别人不知道似的表白说自己英语没口音,实质是表白自
己不是FOB,根本原因还是因为他们自己觉得长得像。美国哪儿的人说话没口音啊,只
是asian另加一股味儿,无所谓嘛。
【在 f******t 的大作中提到】 : accent不算啥大事,我有中西部小城里出来的朋友,说话像含糖块,正经美国人听着都 : 费劲,人不是该干啥干啥。 : : like:
| h****g 发帖数: 11365 | 6 黑人有黑人口音,白人有白人的口音,亚洲说英语也有口音。这还都是说母语。
广播里又的台一听就知道是什么人在播报。abc何必自卑。 |
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