r****o
发帖数: 373 | 1 Just let everything go,forgive and forget everything! This is not only
do other a favour,also do yourself a favour .....be a hater.fighter,what u r
fighting for.? What u r accusing for ? When peace .love and forgiveness
shine,your life will be blessed😀
sorry,,my cell can not type Chinese. |
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a*****c
发帖数: 3525 | 2 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: agostic (π-packing), 信区: Military
标 题: (中英文)原子弹下无冤魂：B29飞行员查尔斯•斯韦尼将军1995国会演讲
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Aug 15 20:13:42 2012, 美东)
只有记忆才能带来真正的原谅，而遗忘就可能冒重复历史的危险。
One can only forgive by remembering. And to forget, is to risk repeating
history.
学英文是为了更好地了解历史。文章很长，有兴趣学英语同时了解历史的同学，希望耐
心地看完（也可以拷贝下来仔细研读）。不仅仅是学英语，更重要的是学如何写作，如
何摆事实，讲道理，反驳质疑。可以学的东西(中英文)原子弹下无冤魂：B29飞行员查
尔斯•斯韦尼将军1995国会演讲很多，就看你是否能够用心去领悟。这是一篇难
得的informative/historical/linguastic article. Enjoy and welcome to ... 阅读全帖 |
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l*****9
发帖数: 9501 | 3 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: lqm1989 (Jeremy Lin), 信区: Military
标 题: 中国之所以悲催是因为中国人缺乏宽容和妥协的精神
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon Aug 12 17:29:19 2013, 美东)
清末最佳路线应该是模仿英国的虚君立宪：驱除鞑虏导致国家分裂，外毒入侵，于是达
成最坏的结果：苏共的代理人中共建立了共产独裁制度。
满蒙联盟在明末战争中胜出，中国拥有了有史以来最大的版图，清朝摊丁入亩一项，就
足以秒毙以前的历朝历代。满族接受了汉族先进文化，说清代明是民族融合，不算汉人
阿Q。如果清末汉人有原谅满蒙的心胸，得益最大的其实是汉人。
To forgive others is to forgive oneself. 不知何时汉人才能有这样的心胸和智慧 |
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P*****l
发帖数: 438 | 4 颇难人非常怀疑俄国人 and "We will never let this go , forgive or forget as
we did with Katyn!"
破烂人还要自己到俄地去调查。
后续发展飞常有趣，比他马神马好赖污大片有趣多了。
PiotraS 3 minutes ago
I am Polish and i really hope that Russia was't involved in any way in this
horrible tragedy. I think russian govermnet must and needs to prove to
Polish ppl that, cuz if they are involved in dead of our President and other
elites of Poland, God help us all. We will never let this go , forgive or
forget as we did with Katyn! There is few things that m |
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W*******a
发帖数: 1769 | 5 原文题目：关于艾格尼斯•刚察•博亚丘又名特蕾莎修女的被宣福
作者：Erik Möller
发表时间：2003年10月19日
网址：http://www.heise.de/tp/r4/artikel/15/15888/1.html
【提要】
一个堕胎和避孕的狂热反对者，全面隐瞒其资产和工作的性质，这么一个人如何能长时
间受到自由世界批判性媒体的青睐呢？
克里斯多弗•希钦斯（Christopher Hitchens）把她称为“媒体圣徒”。直到今
天，要想寻找关于她的批判性报道，仍然需要放大镜。关于她的书有成百上千，是为基
督徒和非基督徒所写的生活建议，美其名曰“献给被遗弃者的一生”、“加尔各答的圣
者”、“无畏无瑕的嬷嬷”或者“爱的力量”等等。
每个德国学生在上政治课时都会学到，媒体有启蒙的任务和自我要求，不受专制的控制
和审查，进行深入的调查，即使对貌似不可触动的、就是“上边的人”也提出批判性的
问题，保护我们免受权力滥用和操控的损害。而每一个青年人都可以在最近的一个报亭
学习到，媒体带来的大标题是“Michelle Hunziker：她想和... 阅读全帖 |
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m*****e
发帖数: 10963 | 6 我就是看你弱智骂了你的娘。
forgive me,, 你懂得，“forgiving is definitely brave” |
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l****u
发帖数: 3130 | 7 实行统一的生活工资，不管什么职业，都要有一个统一的生活工资(没有明确究竟要多
少钱，要达到什么样的生活标准)；为了实现统一的生活工资，要结束自由贸易；建立
政府支付的统一的医疗卫生系统；免费教育，包括上大学；免去所有的债务包括房屋贷
款、信用卡债务、学生贷款(言下之意，美国人不再欠任何债务)；废除信用报告制度(
也就是说，没有人知道谁欠债多少或是否破产过)；投资一万亿美元到基础设施；逐步
停止使用石油、煤炭能源并同时减少核电站。
http://occupywallst.org/forum/proposed-list-of-demands-for-occu
Demand one: Restoration of the living wage. This demand can only be met by ending "Freetrade" by re-imposing trade tariffs on all imported goods entering the American market to level the playing field for domestic famil... 阅读全帖 |
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l**********r
发帖数: 4612 | 8 【 以下文字转载自 Stock 讨论区 】
发信人: laodou (别拿豆包不当干粮), 信区: Stock
标 题: 占领华尔街运动的官网提出政治述求 (有link)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Oct 14 16:15:30 2011, 美东)
实行统一的生活工资，不管什么职业，都要有一个统一的生活工资(没有明确究竟要多
少钱，要达到什么样的生活标准)；为了实现统一的生活工资，要结束自由贸易；建立
政府支付的统一的医疗卫生系统；免费教育，包括上大学；免去所有的债务包括房屋贷
款、信用卡债务、学生贷款(言下之意，美国人不再欠任何债务)；废除信用报告制度(
也就是说，没有人知道谁欠债多少或是否破产过)；投资一万亿美元到基础设施；逐步
停止使用石油、煤炭能源并同时减少核电站。
http://occupywallst.org/forum/proposed-list-of-demands-for-occu
Demand one: Restoration of the living wage. This demand can only be met by ending "Fre... 阅读全帖 |
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a*****c
发帖数: 3525 | 9 只有记忆才能带来真正的原谅，而遗忘就可能冒重复历史的危险。
One can only forgive by remembering. And to forget, is to risk repeating
history.
学英文是为了更好地了解历史。文章很长，有兴趣学英语同时了解历史的同学，希望耐
心地看完（也可以拷贝下来仔细研读）。不仅仅是学英语，更重要的是学如何写作，如
何摆事实，讲道理，反驳质疑。可以学的东西(中英文)原子弹下无冤魂：B29飞行员查
尔斯•斯韦尼将军1995国会演讲很多，就看你是否能够用心去领悟。这是一篇难
得的informative/historical/linguastic article. Enjoy and welcome to comment.
(中英文)原子弹下无冤魂：B29飞行员查尔斯•斯韦尼将军1995国会演讲
英文版来源：
http://www.archive.org/stream/smithsonianinsti00unit/smithsonia
Fulltext of Charles W. Sweeney's Hea... 阅读全帖 |
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l*****9
发帖数: 9501 | 10 清末最佳路线应该是模仿英国的虚君立宪：驱除鞑虏导致国家分裂，外毒入侵，于是达
成最坏的结果：苏共的代理人中共建立了共产独裁制度。
满蒙联盟在明末战争中胜出，中国拥有了有史以来最大的版图，清朝摊丁入亩一项，就
足以秒毙以前的历朝历代。满族接受了汉族先进文化，说清代明是民族融合，不算汉人
阿Q。如果清末汉人有原谅满蒙的心胸，得益最大的其实是汉人。
To forgive others is to forgive oneself. 不知何时汉人才能有这样的心胸和智慧 |
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m*********t
发帖数: 242 | 11 Paula Deen Fired: Food Network Cancels Show After Racism Scandal
SAVANNAH, Ga. — The Food Network said Friday it's dumping Paula Deen,
barely an hour after the celebrity cook posted the first of two videotaped
apologies online begging forgiveness from fans and critics troubled by her
admission to having used racial slurs in the past.
The 66-year-old Savannah kitchen celebrity has been swamped in controversy
since court documents filed this week revealed Deen told an attorney
questioning her unde... 阅读全帖 |
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m*********t
发帖数: 242 | 12 SAVANNAH, Ga. — The Food Network said Friday it's dumping Paula Deen,
barely an hour after the celebrity cook posted the first of two videotaped
apologies online begging forgiveness from fans and critics troubled by her
admission to having used racial slurs in the past.
The 66-year-old Savannah kitchen celebrity has been swamped in controversy
since court documents filed this week revealed Deen told an attorney
questioning her under oath last month that she has used the N-word. "Yes, of
course,"... 阅读全帖 |
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b*******y
发帖数: 491 | 13 上帝说，不饶恕人的，上帝也不饶恕他。
forgive our debts as we forgive our debtors
为什么你咄咄逼人，你们没有孩子吗？
看到那个孩子在那么激烈的环境下，你们旁边就没有一个有同情心的人吗
退一万步讲就算一个大人随地大小便，你们为什么用言语和行为折磨那个孩子
我只想说shame on you hongkong |
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N******K
发帖数: 10202 | 14 while true
step1：黑鬼把你爆头
step2：黑鬼忏悔：forgive me father for I have sinned
step3：牧师：I forgive you
go to step 1 |
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c********e
发帖数: 4283 | 15 圣经里讲，对别人的的错误要forget and forgive.
其实宽恕别人，也是对自己的一种解脱，当然说起来容易，做起来难。
华人，信耶稣的不少，但能做到forget and forgive的不多。 |
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l*********r
发帖数: 204 | 16 新道教成立声明，宗旨
名称： 新道教
宗旨： 自然无为，真实诚信，慈故能勇，发展不殆，中庸非攻
现成立宗教组织：新道教。目标是续先贤之绝学，弘扬中国古典道家儒家墨家，宗教哲
学文化。
1. 自然无为。道法自然，敬畏自然，自然即神，神不干涉人，神以规律示人。
不拜人神。人法道，无为恶。
2. 真实诚信。科学态度，实事求是。 不欺不诳，不骄不躁。见素抱璞，少私寡欲.。
尊法守法，自由意志。
3. 慈故能勇。仁，勇，恕，友，悌。 重感恩，轻怨恨。
4. 发展不殆。自强不息，慎终如始。
5. 中庸非攻。尚贤中庸，尚守非攻。
教会建设的目标是社区的建设，社区的建设的目标是人的建设。
请志同道合的朋友们私信我。
－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－Translation－－－－－－－－－
An Ancient Religion, Modernized for Chinese Americans
Name: Middle Taoism (新道教)
To address the religious void for many Chinese American immigrants, we are
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l*********r
发帖数: 204 | 17 【 以下文字转载自 SanFrancisco 讨论区 】
发信人: leetforever (53), 信区: SanFrancisco
标 题: 华人什么时候出口自己古老独特的宗教？
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Dec 30 22:01:15 2015, 美东)
新道教成立声明，宗旨
名称： 新道教
宗旨： 自然无为，真实诚信，慈故能勇，发展不殆，中庸非攻
现成立宗教组织：新道教。目标是续先贤之绝学，弘扬中国古典道家儒家墨家，宗教哲
学文化。
1. 自然无为。道法自然，敬畏自然，自然即神，神不干涉人，神以规律示人。
不拜人神。人法道，无为恶。
2. 真实诚信。科学态度，实事求是。 不欺不诳，不骄不躁。见素抱璞，少私寡欲.。
尊法守法，自由意志。
3. 慈故能勇。仁，勇，恕，友，悌。 重感恩，轻怨恨。
4. 发展不殆。自强不息，慎终如始。
5. 中庸非攻。尚贤中庸，尚守非攻。
教会建设的目标是社区的建设，社区的建设的目标是人的建设。
请志同道合的朋友们私信我。
－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－－Translation－－－－－－－－－
An Ancient Reli... 阅读全帖 |
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m**c
发帖数: 7349 | 18 Forgiveness—deliberately letting go of negative feelings toward someone who
has harmed you—appears to have significant health and wellness benefits
for the person giving it. In an early seminal study, Luskin and his
colleagues led a workshop for five women from Northern Ireland who had lost
children to sectarian violence.
After one week, not only did the women feel dramatically less hurt, their
depression scores fell by 60 percent. Six months later the women reported
feeling half as stressed as ... 阅读全帖 |
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I*******g
发帖数: 7600 | 19 【 以下文字转载自 Joke 讨论区 】
发信人: rbs (jay), 信区: Joke
标 题: 捉奸在床，这个黑牧师杯具了
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Jan 31 13:46:49 2017, 美东)
A police report says a prominent Florida pastor was forced to run out of a
house naked after a woman's husband came home to find him having sex with
his wife.
The Tallahassee Democrat reports ( http://on.tdo.com/2kmThSX ) police documents show a woman's husband found her in bed with Pastor O. Jermaine Simmons in the middle of the afternoon on Jan. 17. The woman told police that her hus... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 1 | 20 我刚刚知道了 Forgive 的定义，就是没有忘记那些事，但是感情上已经不愤怒了。。。
remember but not anger=forgive..
原谅自己很重要，需要一个过程。。。 |
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b********n
发帖数: 38600 | 21 Barack Obama's Speech at John McCain's Funeral
To John's beloved family, Mrs. McCain, to Cindy and the McCain children,
President and Mrs. Bush, President and Secretary Clinton, Vice President and
Mrs. Biden, Vice President and Mrs. Cheney, Vice President Gore, and as
John would say, my friends. We come to celebrate an extraordinary man. A
statesman, a patriot who embodied so much that is best in America.
President Bush and I are among the fortunate few who competed against John
at the highest l... 阅读全帖 |
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z******a
发帖数: 366 | 22 美元真实价值是废纸，那么美元市场价格变废纸之前美国人不是净赚？
美联储的资产负债表现在是25% 的 GDP，明年要达到50% 的GDP (12T,2008 年之前~1T)
明年国债要增发50%，各国央行都在出售美国国债
美联储将吸收国债90% 的net issuance.
这在别的国家 就已经是debt monetization 了
美元想通过大贬值把债务赖掉， 结果越钱越发越多， 中国照单全收， 怎么有这么傻
逼的政府，美国人乐坏了， 下面马上就要来的，UBI，student loan forgiveness，
最好再来个mortgage forgiveness. |
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R****y
发帖数: 456 | 23 补充一部，Handsome Harry
Handsome Harry is the story of Harry Sweeney’s journey to find forgiveness
from an old Navy friend. One day Harry (Jamey Sheridan) gets a call from an
old Navy buddy, Kelly (Steve Buscemi), who is on his deathbed. At first
Harry wants nothing to do with Kelly, but soon memories and guilt overcome
him and he goes on a journey to confront his old friends. First he goes to
meet Kelly in a Philadelphia hospital. Kelly asks Harry to seek forgiveness
from David on his behalf. Kelly... 阅读全帖 |
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g********d
发帖数: 4174 | 24 Former Minnesota Senate majority leader Amy Koch has been a vocal opponent
of gay marriage, and in 2009, she tried to amend the Minnesota Constitution
to add language stipulating that “a marriage between a man and a woman is
the only domestic legal union that shall be valid or recognized in Minnesota
.” Because she cares a whole super lot about the sanctity of marriage, and
wished to see it not be taken lightly, or diluted by the gays.
Except! Apparently not her own. Koch was carrying on in secr... 阅读全帖 |
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a***u
发帖数: 100 | 25 You kept on sending people to church to negotiate some deal. As a matter of
fact, you still put me under your control. You ask me for forgiveness, is it
ridiculous? You just threaten me for forgiving you. You still play the game
with CIA and somebody else. I just tell you it does not work. You can not
count on lie and black magic to do the job.
Some of you theat me to jail me all my life. It is all right.
You only have three choices:
1. kill me
2. jail me
3. let me go.
Whatever you did on tha ba |
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l*******g
发帖数: 28502 | 26 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
amaru (雅歌) 于 (Fri Nov 25 13:47:46 2005) 提到:
it will be a littele while, because I am slow.
That means in heaven, in earth, this world, next world, life or death,
and whatever, I don't want to associate with you anymore.
Is it clear now?
☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
amaru (雅歌) 于 (Fri Nov 25 15:19:02 2005) 提到:
see, the differece lots of arabs and us is when we find we may get hurt
by you with some jews behind, arabs blame jews, and we bl... 阅读全帖 |
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R***c
发帖数: 648 | 27 You are very young and naive and clearly is not married and has no kids.
Years later, you will be ashamed of what you said today. You will regret and
say to yourself:"Oh, God,how could I have been such a shallow person with
no heat and soul and how could I have been so cold-blooded to those
disadvantaged people?" "Oh, God,please forgive my naivety. Please forgive my
sin."
Hahahahaha |
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l****z
发帖数: 29846 | 29 October 07, 2011|By MARK STEYN
Michael Oher, offensive lineman for the Baltimore Ravens, was online
Wednesday night when his Twitter feed started filling up with tributes to
Steve Jobs. A bewildered Oher tweeted: "Can somebody help me out? Who was
Steve Jobs!"
He was on his iPhone at the time.
Who was Steve Jobs? Well, he was a guy who founded a corporation and spent
his life as a corporate executive manufacturing corporate products. So he
wouldn't have endeared himself to the "Occupy Wall Stree... 阅读全帖 |
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l****z
发帖数: 29846 | 31 by wheatington
Allah, so Muslims tell me, is the Most Compassionate and Most Merciful. Upon
further questioning, Muslims do not understand mercy as we do. Quelle
suprise! When shown the definition of mercy Muslims knit their brows. It is
different in Arabic, they stammer. How can a man be excused a punishment?
It disturbs the Muslim mind that sinners would escape justice. Mercy to
Muslims means that Allah's justice is meted out.
The Koran tells us that
If Allah had willed he could have given... 阅读全帖 |
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l****z
发帖数: 29846 | 32 Government-funded film critics do grotesque damage to freedom of speech.
By Mark Steyn
I see the Obama campaign has redesigned the American flag, and very
attractive it is too. Replacing the 50 stars of a federal republic is the
single “O” logo symbolizing the great gaping maw of spendaholic
centralization. And where the stripes used to be are a handful of red daubs,
eerily mimicking the bloody finger streaks left on the pillars of the U.S.
consulate in Benghazi as its staff were dragged out by ... 阅读全帖 |
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w*****2
发帖数: 1458 | 33 After Obama reelection, Murray Energy CEO reads prayer, announces layoffs
http://www.washingtonpost.com/business/economy/after-obama-re-e
For the chairman and chief executive of Murray Energy, an Ohio-based coal
company, the reelection of President Obama was no cause for celebration. It
was a time for prayer — and layoffs.
Robert E. Murray read a prayer to a group of company staff members on the
day after the election, lamenting the direction of the country and asking:
“Lord, please forgive me a... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 12623 | 34 Anthony Weiner (D)的老婆Huma Mahmood Abedin (D)是个沙特移民的穆斯林民主党大
左逼，给Hilary Clinton (D)长期做贴身女马仔，有可能已经被Hilary女同化。所以
Anthony和Huma长期没有性生活，当然Bill和Hilary也在二十几年前就没有性生活了。
2011年Anthony还是纽约州House Rep的时候跟网友短信调情发dick照被抓到引咎辞职一
年后和Huma有小孩，猜测一方面是为了支持所谓"I forgive and support my husband"
的声明一方面是为了掩盖Huma和Hilary女同性恋情侣，为Hilary的2016年总统竞选铺路。
但是不争气的Anthony在辞职后并且是老婆怀孕期间，再次跟女网友短信调情，据说言
语污秽程度可以让加州的A片编剧汗颜。Huma这次再次声明"I forgive and support my
husband“
其实如果美国这个社会已经彻底liberal左逼无底线化，Huma跟Anthony离婚跟Hilary结
婚，Anthony跟Bill变成双性恋一起搞男女混交o... 阅读全帖 |
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l****z
发帖数: 29846 | 35 Texas executes man who killed ex-wife, her brother
September 10, 2014 - 9:07 PM
By MICHAEL GRACZYK, Associated Press
HUNTSVILLE, Texas (AP) — A man convicted of gunning down his former common-
law wife and her brother more than two decades ago in Houston was put to
death by lethal injection Wednesday evening.
Willie Trottie's execution was carried out about 90 minutes after the U.S.
Supreme Court rejected his last-day appeals. He had contended he had poor
legal help at his trial and questioned t... 阅读全帖 |
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j****n
发帖数: 4358 | 36 Trump 太让人失望了，平常不去church,到选举时才去。奥莱利让他学会作为基督徒一
样应该有的forgive 希望trump forgive . Trump 拒绝。Trump 根本就是伪共和党。 |
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发帖数: 1 | 37 O'Reilly asked Trump to forgive. Both are respectable men. But how to
forgive？Fox至少应该公平一点。
Trump接到Fox的辩论简要才拒接参加的，因为他觉得此次辩论明显就是fox news专为而
他设的陷阱。
Fox News 和 Google还邀请了一个仇恨Trump的穆斯林。
Fox News and Google have invited three YouTube personalities to ask
questions at the Jan. 28 GOP debate — including a Muslim advocate who
describes Donald Trump as a bigot and who visually portrayed him as being in
agreement with national socialist Adolf Hitler.
“We have a presidential candidate whose loudest message ... 阅读全帖 |
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d*2
发帖数: 2053 | 38 KING: Here’s why I’m leaving the Democratic Party after this presidential
election and you should too
http://www.nydailynews.com/news/politics/king-leaving-democrati
Many of you aren't religious, so please forgive me for recalling my roots as
a preacher and starting us off with a simple verse of scripture.
"The love of money is the root of all kinds of evil."
- 1 Timothy 6:10, The New Testament of the Bible
While my practice and devotion to religion has waxed and waned across the
past few years,... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 1 | 39 链接里说可兰经里的Abraham是和圣经里不同的。 可兰经里的Abraham说 “there has
arisen, between us and you, enmity and hatred for ever, unless ye believe in
Allah and Him alone” - 如果不信阿拉和他自己，你们和我们之间就是永远的敌意
和仇恨。
In speaking of Abraham, it is important to remember that there is no
parallel in the Qur’an to Genesis 22:15-18, in which Abraham is rewarded
for his faith and told he will become a blessing to the nations: “by your
descendants shall all the nations of the earth bless themselves, because you
have obeyed my voice.” Th... 阅读全帖 |
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s*l
发帖数: 9421 | 40 一点都不荒谬。从耶稣的角度，人都是有罪的。耶稣教导基督徒要爱敌人，更何况是自
己的兄弟姐妹，特朗普已经悔过了，基督徒应该会原谅。基督徒最为提倡的一点就是
forgive，因为只有forgiveness 才能真正free自己。 |
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l****e
发帖数: 609 | 41 I didn't want to write this. I avoided making a decision as long as I could.
I schlepped my absentee ballot all over the country for almost four weeks.
I would periodically take it out of the envelope, look at it, shake my head
in disgust, and put it back in my suitcase.
I had decided to write-in my mother as a symbolic protest vote against the
Democratic and Republican nominees. I didn't want to vote for either of them.
I had hoped that a week before the election, Trump would be losing Florida
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t******r
发帖数: 8600 | 42 In spring of 1978, McDougal proposed that the Clintons join him and his wife
, Susan, in buying 230 acres (93 ha) of undeveloped land with a goal to
subdivide the site into lots for vacation homes. The four borrowed $203,000
to buy land, and subsequently transferred ownership of the land to the newly
created Whitewater Development Corporation, in which all four participants
had equal shares. The venture failed because of skyrocketing interest rate.
The Clintons lost between $37,000 and $69,000 o... 阅读全帖 |
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n*********0
发帖数: 925 | 43 Just wanted to share
Read This Slowly
Jack took a long look at his speedometer before slowing down: 73 in a 55
zone.Fourth time in as many months..How could a guy get caught so often?
When his car had slowed to 10 miles an hour,Jack pulled over, but only
partially.Let the cop worry about the potential traffic hazard..Maybe some
other car will tweak his backside with a mirror.The cop was stepping out of
his car,The big pad in hand..
Bob? Bob from Church? Jack sunk farther into his trench coat.Thi... 阅读全帖 |
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l*****g
发帖数: 837 | 44 哦，那下次就没有forgiveness，该涨了吧
forgiveness |
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s*******t
发帖数: 148 | 45 So, you think there is absolutely no other options between being generously
forgiving and divorcing? As a starter, at least make her tell the truth (as
LZ said, she now admitted that there was more than 30 minutes XX) and then
he should expect her sincere apology. Finally, he can ask her to sign some
preventive documents for possible legal motion in the future - if she does
this again or it is found that she had other affairs in the past 7 years,
she will have to leave the family with nothing, n... 阅读全帖 |
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d******2
发帖数: 1039 | 46 My husband made a stupid mistake at the beginning of our marriage too. I
thought I won't forgive him forever, but now, almost 3 years later, all bad
things gone, and the trust between us is reconstructed. Do not blame your
wife, especially when she is carrying a baby. Just do your best to love her,
to conserve your relationship. I am sure she loves you very much, because
she still keeps your marriage even you betrayed her before.
She will forgive you,sooner or later--this is the price you must p... 阅读全帖 |
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d******2
发帖数: 1039 | 47 My husband made a similar mistake at the beginning of our marriage too. I
thought I won't forgive him forever, but now, almost 3 years later, all bad
things gone, and the trust between us is reconstructed. Do not blame your
wife, especially when she is carrying a baby. Just do your best to love her,
to conserve your relationship. I am sure she loves you very much, because
she still keeps your marriage even you betrayed her before.
She will forgive you,sooner or later--this is the price you must ... 阅读全帖 |
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c*********0
发帖数: 226 | 48 I think it's more complicated than that.
I forgive my parents, I know there are reasons they act the way they do.
But forgiving does not heal the wound. It does nothing.
I just don't want to be with them any more.
I want to divorce my parents if that's possible.
Okay, I don't know how to explain this... |
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c*********0
发帖数: 226 | 49 I think it's more complicated than that.
I forgive my parents, I know there are reasons they act the way they do.
But forgiving does not heal the wound. It does nothing.
I just don't want to be with them any more.
I want to divorce my parents if that's possible.
Okay, I don't know how to explain this... |
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z********o
发帖数: 18304 | 50 【 以下文字转载自 TrustInJesus 讨论区 】
发信人: zhaowendao (嘁哩喀喳), 信区: TrustInJesus
标 题: 注意了！信基督教的配偶更容易出轨
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Aug 15 19:58:20 2014, 美东)
先摘录关键的一段："People who have faith often use it as an outlet for
forgiveness" said Dr. Eric Anderson, a sociologist at the University of
Winchester in England, "so they're more likely to cheat and less likely to
feel guilty."
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Having faith doesn't necessarily mean you're faithful... to your spouse.
A new survey conduct... 阅读全帖 |
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