u*****a
发帖数: 6276 | 1 这么说吧：同性恋支持者 forgive 没 forgive 以前教徒们对同性恋人的迫害，就是区
别同性恋支持者 wise 不 wise 的一个因素。
教徒们 supposedly 应该 forgive 每个人和事。他们应该天生就是 wise 的。 |
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M******i
发帖数: 468 | 2 我怎么觉得这件事只能证明白女都没有逻辑可言，想到哪儿做到哪儿，说不清道理。
如果真是阴险，一早想尽办法报案了
发信人: PigKid (Pig Kid), 信区: Chinese
标 题: Re: 虚伪丑陋的美国白人
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sun Aug 12 04:26:13 2007)
美国白人,尤其是美国白女人,是我在美国见过的最虚伪,最可怕的人种.
有个白女人 被人强奸,她也知道是谁,却没有积极报案. 20年后强奸犯良心发现, 给她
写信道歉.她就步步引诱别人说出 rape 这个词, 随后以这些为证据报案. 这个无所谓,
最令人厌恶的是这个女人一再强调, I already forgive him, but I still want
him to get punished. 宗教上强调 forgive, 这个白女人是信教的,所以要口口声声说
forgive, 但实际行动不是这么回事.
在工作中接触了一些白女人,也感到了她们的阴险可怕. |
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s*******w
发帖数: 2257 | 3 哈佛大学推荐20个快乐的习惯 (中英双语）
(2015-07-31 20:01:22)
1. Be grateful.
要学会感恩。
Slow down, look around you, and pay attention to the little details in your
life – the delicate purple flower on the sidewalk, the beautiful sunset,
the hot shower that washes away your long day, and the smile in your partner
’s eyes…
让自己变慢脚步，看看你的四周，关注生活中的细微之处：人行道上淡紫色的花，美丽
的日落，洗去你一天疲惫的淋浴，伴侣眼中的笑容。
When you have a grateful heart that is appreciative of life’s beautify,
wonder and blessings, you’re automatically filled with happines... 阅读全帖 |
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O*****0
发帖数: 228 | 4 What is the difference between 包容 (or all things listed in the 愛篇) and "
forgive & forget" ? Did the bible tell us to "forgive & forget"? If not,
why not? Does human not capable to "forgive & forget"? |
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p**********u
发帖数: 15479 | 5 能学会forgive，能认识到世界本不完美，能愿意真心treat others，nyc的成功黑木耳
裤带已经松了。这是成功接盘最重要的心理素养。因为这些女人，你可能干的不多，都
是完美主义者。所以喜欢买名包名鞋。做人做事都特别认真。但是，人在江湖，种种原
因，最后华丽的表面都有伤痕的过去。她们也不想黑木耳。所以，有guilty感。只能深
埋在成功的背后。
所以四句话，forgive。treat others as yourself,就像我们说黑木耳啊外f女啊，人
家淡淡一笑，那你呢？换你做女人，都不知道贱到哪去了。Give to the poor.还有就
是世界总有各种不完美的地方，所以要珍惜裆下。
我觉得你至少是能面对事实，听的进去的人。像我这样eb1b绿卡，还是海归又归海的，
也算是有些人生经历。走过风雨，重头再来。
要想到，是白人创造了美国，才有我们的一片容身之处。就像是上海人创造了上海。上
海人看外地人，外地人要有原罪感。白人看老中，老中要有原罪感。要学会感恩。要向
外f女被战斗过的地方敬礼！那是自我救赎的过程。当然，千万不要舔b,有毒，嘴巴会
长溃烂的。
: 要学会... 阅读全帖 |
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W********n
发帖数: 778 | 6 Sorry
Is all that you can't say
Years gone by and still
Words don't come easily
Like sorry like sorry
Forgive me
Is all that you can't say
Years gone by and still
Words don't come easily
Like forgive me forgive me
But you can say
baby Baby can I hold you tonight
Maybe if I told you the right words
At the right time
you'd be mine
I love you
Is all that you can't say
Years gone by and still
Words don't come easily
Like I love you I love you
But you can say baby
Baby can I hold you tonight
Maybe if... 阅读全帖 |
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M****o
发帖数: 4860 | 7 http://www.hothothoops.com/2015/6/18/8775327/why-dwyane-wade-co
There are multiple reasons why Dwyane Wade would leave Miami for LeBron. The
real question is would you forgive him if he does so.
The relationship between Dwyane Wade and LeBron James is one that the NBA
has never seen before. Sure, Magic Johnson was friends with Larry Bird, as
was Michael Jordan with Charles Barkley but in this social media driven age,
have you seen anything like the public affection that Wade and James have
share... 阅读全帖 |
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d******s
发帖数: 674 | 8 Driver 还是有很大区别的吧。pro就不会用我的FTIQ 即使它比FT9更新更贵。Pro要的
是worKAbility 我这样的 average Joe 要的是forgiveness。如果楼主想换杆的话，试
试从forgiveness比较比较。比如说试试俺现在用的FTIQ. Taylormade 网站上有一个详
细的比较。可以去看看。我的fav R7 CGB Max 3wood 就是maximum forgiveness. 估计
因为这所以才打的好一点 |
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t******e
发帖数: 2009 | 9 无聊之作，请大家随便吐槽。
如果说顶尖的putter是高尔夫器材界的jewelry on the crown的话，好的blade iron就
可以说是器材界的king。有人说一个品牌的江湖地位基本上就是由这个公司出的blade
iron的质量来决定的。这样的说法虽然略有夸张，但也不失一定的道理。Nike 这个大
俗品牌能在高尔夫界占下一席之地，跟高质量的VR系列是很有关系的。PING一直处在坐
三望二的位置，始终被Taylormade和callaway压得死死的，就是因为输在了顶级blade
这个绝对不能输的战场上。当然了，这不是PING无能，这是宿命，因为PING的崛起跟
blade的没落是很有关系的。
早期铁杆的设计几乎全部都是forged blade，跟后世的各种设计相比，这些杆子只要打
中了甜点，球的飞行轨迹更有穿透力，飞得更远，杆子击到球的那一瞬间的感觉更柔顺
，而最大的好处，就是做球更容易，所以blade又一个绰号叫"player's clubs"。但是
blade最大的缺点就是forgiveness几乎为0，一旦错失甜点，手震得厉害不说，球还飞
的东倒西歪，所谓失之毫厘，... 阅读全帖 |
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b*****p
发帖数: 2670 | 10 forget 容易 forgive 难
只有想明白才能forgive 最近发现自己对过去已经能完全forgive，能够for give的感
觉很好
我就记性特坏。但还是烦恼一堆
其实烦恼是心头火苗，觉得与记忆关系不大。
可能是过去经历太丰富的人，记忆就容易沉渣泛起的原因吧。。 |
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i**y
发帖数: 829 | 11 刚刚关于该飞机再次算了一次（是总的第二次），结果如下：
Question:Is THE plane Flight 370 in the ocean?
『牌阵名称』：圣三角
◎使用【偉特牌普及版】占卜◎
◎使用78张占卜◎
◎底牌是【金币３】【正位置↑】◎
◎不使用象征指示牌◎
────────────────
1==过去
【圣杯５】【正位置↑】
------------------------------------------------
2==现在
【权杖９】【逆位置↓】
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3==未来
【恋人】【正位置↑】
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●●●统计表●●●
正位2张 逆位1张
大牌1张
宝剑0张
权杖1张
圣杯1张
金币0张
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尝试解读：
最重要的大牌出现在【未来】 是关于duality，阴阳，循环，【过去】已经是 完成时... 阅读全帖 |
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M********s
发帖数: 24729 | 12 【 以下文字转载自 WaterWorld 讨论区 】
发信人: Sande710 (SD主妇), 信区: WaterWorld
标 题: 【哈佛大学推荐】20个快乐的习惯
关键字: 快乐 智慧
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Mar 19 13:57:53 2015, 美东)
1. Be grateful.
要学会感恩。
Slow down, look around you, and pay attention to the little details in your
life – the delicate purple flower on the sidewalk, the beautiful sunset,
the hot shower that washes away your long day, and the smile in your partner
’s eyes…
让自己变慢脚步，看看你的四周，关注生活中的细微之处：人行道上淡紫色的花，美丽
的日落，洗去你一天疲惫的淋浴，伴侣眼中的笑容。
When you have a grateful heart that... 阅读全帖 |
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c*********g
发帖数: 660 | 13 看看世界上有多少孔子学院吧
我不是批判基督教，相反我觉得基督教非常有利于家庭内部的和谐。因为基督教提倡
forgive.
丈夫做错，妻子要forgive. 哪怕十恶不赦的人，只要他临终前忏悔，就能得到forgive.
这些我觉得与佛教完全相背离。佛教里有十八层地狱，有阎罗判官。人死后都要到阴间
受审判，好人入天堂，坏人坠地狱。惩恶扬善方能让人一心做好人。
基督教里，当坏人太容易了，反正所有的恶有基督替他们受苦，做了坏事只要忏悔一下
就好了，那这个社会岂不是很疯狂？ |
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y*****n
发帖数: 11251 | 14 孔子学院干什么的？有啥具体的事迹没?
社会本来就很疯狂，佛家不是也讲放下屠刀立地成佛么。基督教的forgive其实是幌子
，口头上
forgive实际上是秋后算账的一大堆。
当然了基督徒会说这个是某个假基督徒的错，或者受了诱惑什么的。
forgive. |
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G****e
发帖数: 11198 | 15 The Darker Side Of God
If you ask Christians to describe their quasi-chosen god of worship,
you’ll often hear such descriptors as “wonderful” and “loving.” This
choice of selective designation seems commonplace within the Christian
community. In fact, most churches ignore the Old Testament all together so
that the members feel comfortable propagating this view. Fueled by such
blatant omission, this lengthy chapter will fill the void by offering a look
at the volume of horrendous acts perfo... 阅读全帖 |
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S******0
发帖数: 1183 | 16 1. Be grateful.
要学会感恩。
Slow down, look around you, and pay attention to the little details in your
life – the delicate purple flower on the sidewalk, the beautiful sunset,
the hot shower that washes away your long day, and the smile in your partner
’s eyes…
让自己变慢脚步，看看你的四周，关注生活中的细微之处：人行道上淡紫色的花，美丽
的日落，洗去你一天疲惫的淋浴，伴侣眼中的笑容。
When you have a grateful heart that is appreciative of life’s beautify,
wonder and blessings, you’re automatically filled with happiness.
当你的感恩之心能够欣赏生活的美，思考和祝福，你自然就充满了幸福感。
2. Choo... 阅读全帖 |
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H******7
发帖数: 34403 | 17 一百亿个安慰小段子，今天先发200个
1. No one can prepare you for a loss; it comes like a swift wind. But take
comfort in knowing that he/she is now resting in the arms of our Lord. Our/
My deepest condolences to you and your family.
2. When we lose a loved one here on earth, we gain an angel in heaven that
watches over us. May you take comfort in knowing that you have an angel to
watch over you now. We/I extend our/my most sincere condolences to you.
3. I/We am/are deeply saddened by the loss of your (insert re... 阅读全帖 |
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m****G
发帖数: 26 | 18 分手至理名言呀.
The stupid neither forgives nor forgets.
The naive forgets and forgives.
The smart forgives but never forgets. |
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d*********n
发帖数: 818 | 19 You need a bigger heart. We human beings have shortcomings, we made bad
choices, did stupid things, wronged right persons, especially when we were
young.
As long as the mistake is not life and death, I do not think there is
nothing you cannot forgive.
As I mentioned, whether you forgive more not has little influence on the
other party, but have profound impacts on yourself: it is all about if you
want to carry the hurts for the rest of your life.
By being forgiving, you make yourself a more beau |
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D********n
发帖数: 1161 | 20 First, I do think that you have good points.
Second, we may have difference on what we should forgive.
What I am referring to is not an issue of love matter. What I am referring
to is mistakes that a good person made or an evil that an evil did.
We have to forgive mistakes that a good person made.
We should never forgive an evil that an evil did. Otherwise, we can not
distinguish us from evil.
being |
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s**i
发帖数: 4448 | 21 Right, when the person who wronged you is out of your life, this is a way of
forgiving. A self initiated closure.
If that person, for whatever reason, be he your life partner, spouse etc, is
part of your life, then forgiveness has to come from both parties proper
action.
Without true repentance and forgiveness, the hurt and resentment are not
resolved but repressed, buried and temporarily ignored. It festers
underneath the normalcy of daily life and may implode with much bigger force
sometime do... 阅读全帖 |
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G****e
发帖数: 11198 | 22 【 以下文字转载自 WaterWorld 讨论区 】
发信人: GoBlue (Wolverines), 信区: WaterWorld
标 题: The Darker Side Of God
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sat Jul 12 13:10:33 2014, 美东)
The Darker Side Of God
If you ask Christians to describe their quasi-chosen god of worship,
you’ll often hear such descriptors as “wonderful” and “loving.” This
choice of selective designation seems commonplace within the Christian
community. In fact, most churches ignore the Old Testament all together so
that the members feel comfortable propagatin... 阅读全帖 |
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c**r
发帖数: 10001 | 23 正巧看书看到下面这段跟childhood wounds和forgiveness有关的，跟我以前想说
的意思比较接近，摘录一下。
这一段之前讲的是一对夫妻的therapy情况，妻子因为从小被母亲情感虐待，长大后
觉得自己是damaged很痛苦，又在同时以damaged作为武器对丈夫情感虐待。最后两
人一起寻求counselling来解决问题。所以后面才提到这段childhood wounds的话，
这个case显然跟mm的情况相差很多，不过childhood wounds和desire for justice
这些是共通的，摘录下来送给所有版上的因为childhood wounds而仍然痛苦，寻求解
脱方法的朋友们，bless....：
This has interesting implications for forgiveness. When we stand up and
confront ourselvs in ways our parents have not, a desire for justice makes
it harder to forgive them in so |
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i**e
发帖数: 19242 | 24 来自主题: PsychoAnalysis版 - 我和我妈妈 我觉着，love也好，forgiveness也好，感情上的事不能速成。如果自己还是不能
forgive，还是有怨恨的时候，应该validate it，把它说出来，用一种不危害别人的方
式发泄出来。如果一个劲地跟自己说要forgive，其实是又一次地在denial/压抑自己的
emotion，which 又是心理问题的主要根源。 |
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c******i
发帖数: 2427 | 25 You are still living in guilt. You are blaming yourself, aren't you? We
all make mistakes. Sometimes some mistakes are not amendable. You are paying
the price for this mistake by torturing yourself. Here are some suggestions:
1. Forgive yourself. Stop blaming yourself.
Without forgiving yourself, you can not move on. You won't be able to start
another relationship even you meet someone fit for you. Forgiving doesn't
mean that you can make similar mistake again though.
2. Distract yourself whenev |
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S*********L
发帖数: 5785 | 26 NASB: six verses
1.Matthew 5:48
Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.
2.Matthew 6:14
For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly
Father will also forgive you.
3.Matthew 6:26
Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns
, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable
than they?
4.Matthew 6:32
For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows
that you need them.
5.Mat... 阅读全帖 |
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s***u
发帖数: 1911 | 27 Jesus Jesus never admitted to being God himslef. You may read Luke 5 again.
The scribes and Pharisees questioned in their mind whether Jesus is God hi
mself (Luke 5:21). Jesus told them clearly that he is the Son of man with a
uthority (Luke 5:24). 5:21 And the scribes and Pharisees were
having an
argument, saying, Who is this, who has no respect for God? who is able to g
ive forgiveness for sins, but God only?
5:22 But Jesus, who had knowledge of their thoughts, said... 阅读全帖 |
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s***u
发帖数: 1911 | 28 Jesus also told us not to reason about whether he is God.
read Luke
5:21 And the scribes and Pharisees were having an argument,
saying, Who i
s this, who has no respect for God? who is able to give forgiveness for sins
, but God only?
5:22 But Jesus, who had knowledge of their thoughts, said to them
, Why ar
e you reasoning in your hearts?
5:23 Which is the simpler: to say, You have forgiveness for your
sins; or
to say, Get up and go?
5:24 But so that ... 阅读全帖 |
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l*****a
发帖数: 38403 | 29 Seven sayings
The seven sayings form part of a Christian meditation that is often used
during Lent, Holy Week and Good Friday. The traditional order of the sayings
is:[13]
Father forgive them, for they know not what they do (Luke 23:34).
Truly, I say to you, today you will be with me in paradise (Luke 23:43).
Woman, behold your son: behold your mother (John 19:26-27).
My God, My God, why have you forsaken me, (Matthew 27:46 and Mark 15:34).
I thirst (John 19:28).
It is finished (John 19:30).
Fat... 阅读全帖 |
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l*****a
发帖数: 38403 | 30 【 以下文字转载自 LosAngeles 讨论区 】
发信人: Omi2010 (Ni Ni), 信区: LosAngeles
标 题: 想问基督徒一个问题
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Sep 9 01:23:49 2011, 美东)
What is the difference between 包容 (or all things listed in the 愛篇) and "
forgive & forget" ? Did the bible tell us to "forgive & forget"? If not,
why not? Does human not capable to "forgive & forget"? |
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C****i
发帖数: 1776 | 31 CHAPTER XXII
Of Lawful Oaths and Vows
I. A lawful oath is a part of religious worship,[443] wherein, upon just occ
asion, the person swearing solemnly calleth God to witness what he asserteth
, or promiseth, and to judge him according to the truth or falsehood of what
he sweareth.[444]
II. The name of God only is that by which men ought to swear, and therein it
is to be used with all holy fear and reverence.[445] Therefore, to swear va
inly, or rashly, by that glorious and dreadful Name; or, to ... 阅读全帖 |
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l**********t
发帖数: 5754 | 32 Chapter 2.1 Some Further Distinctions
Two aspects of the resurrection are mentioned in the two sections, in
chapters 4 and 6. In Romans 4:25 the resurrection of the Lord Jesus is
mentioned in relation to our justification: “Jesus our Lord... was
delivered up for our trespasses, and was raised for our justification.”
Here the matter in view is that of our standing before God. But in Romans 6:
4 the resurrection is spoken of as imparting to us new life with a view to a
holy walk: “That like as Chr... 阅读全帖 |
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l**********t
发帖数: 5754 | 33 Chapter 3.1 Our Death With Christ A Historic Fact
Romans 6:1-11 is the passage before us now. In these verses it is made clear
that the death of the Lord Jesus is representative and inclusive. In His
death we all died. None of us can progress spiritually without seeing this.
Just as we cannot have justification if we have not seen Him bearing our
sins on the Cross, so we cannot have sanctification if we have not seen Him
bearing us on the Cross. Not only have our sins been laid on Him but we
our... 阅读全帖 |
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l**********t
发帖数: 5754 | 34 Chapter 2.1 Some Further Distinctions
Two aspects of the resurrection are mentioned in the two sections, in
chapters 4 and 6. In Romans 4:25 the resurrection of the Lord Jesus is
mentioned in relation to our justification: “Jesus our Lord... was
delivered up for our trespasses, and was raised for our justification.”
Here the matter in view is that of our standing before God. But in Romans 6:
4 the resurrection is spoken of as imparting to us new life with a view to a
holy walk: “That like as Chr... 阅读全帖 |
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l**********t
发帖数: 5754 | 35 Chapter 3.1 Our Death With Christ A Historic Fact
Romans 6:1-11 is the passage before us now. In these verses it is made clear
that the death of the Lord Jesus is representative and inclusive. In His
death we all died. None of us can progress spiritually without seeing this.
Just as we cannot have justification if we have not seen Him bearing our
sins on the Cross, so we cannot have sanctification if we have not seen Him
bearing us on the Cross. Not only have our sins been laid on Him but we
our... 阅读全帖 |
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G*****9
发帖数: 3225 | 36 Don't get bothered by Christians' comments on you. In many cases, they even
don't know what they are talking about. Churches are the gathering of
sinners after all.
I believe that you are wasting your time if you keep talking with Christians
staying in the extreme ends. If you have time to spare, I strongly suggest
that you attend an American church and talk about your situations with
Christians there.
Fresh believers from the main land China often find it fabulous to have a
religion filled in t... 阅读全帖 |
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G*****9
发帖数: 3225 | 37 Don't get bothered by Christians' comments on you. In many cases, they even
don't know what they are talking about. Churches are the gathering of
sinners after all.
I believe that you are wasting your time if you keep talking with Christians
staying in the extreme ends. If you have time to spare, I strongly suggest
that you attend an American church and talk about your situations with
Christians there.
Fresh believers from the main land China often find it fabulous to have a
religion filled in t... 阅读全帖 |
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G*******s
发帖数: 4956 | 38 【 以下文字转载自 Church 俱乐部 】
发信人: Godwithus (神与我们同在), 信区: Church
标 题: 海德堡要理问答主日07
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Apr 4 17:14:42 2012, 美东)
发信人: Godwithus (神与我们同在), 信区: BibleStudy
标 题: 海德堡要理问答主日07
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Apr 4 17:13:21 2012, 美东)
海德堡要理问答主日07
来自CCWiki中国基督徒百科(Godwithus神同在网)
目录
1 英文版
2 英文2011版
3 赵中辉版
4 陈达/王志勇版
5 钱耀诚版（暂缺请帮忙补充）
6 基督教要义圣经课程版
7 参考链接
英文版
7. Lord's Day
Q. 20. Are all men then, as they perished in Adam, saved by Christ?
A.
No; (a)
only those who are ingrafted into him, and, receive all his b... 阅读全帖 |
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t*******r
发帖数: 2940 | 39 同意：
“NET bible 上有段解释，说认为这段说的是信徒传递福音时，信徒可以对接受福音的人
说，Your sin is forgiven。但是不是说信徒有forgive sin的能力，forgive sin还是
上帝的事。”
forgive |
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发帖数: 8336 | 40 对imputed sin的定义有争议，见下一种观点
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Question: "What is the definition of sin?"
Answer: Sin is described in the Bible as transgression of the law of God (1
John 3:4) and rebellion against God (Deuteronomy 9:7; Joshua 1:18). Sin had
its beginning with Lucifer, probably the most beautiful and powerful of the
angels. Not content with his position, he desired to be higher than God, and
that was his downfall, the beginning of sin (Isaiah 14:12-15). Renamed
Satan, he brought sin to the hum... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 8336 | 41 对imputed sin的定义有争议，见下一种观点
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Question: "What is the definition of sin?"
Answer: Sin is described in the Bible as transgression of the law of God (1
John 3:4) and rebellion against God (Deuteronomy 9:7; Joshua 1:18). Sin had
its beginning with Lucifer, probably the most beautiful and powerful of the
angels. Not content with his position, he desired to be higher than God, and
that was his downfall, the beginning of sin (Isaiah 14:12-15). Renamed
Satan, he brought sin to the hum... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 1060 | 42 1）我每次意识到自己嗔心起了，或者任何负面情绪，就会在心里说I forgive you and
I forgive myself, 这里forgive 就是let go的意思。
可能从小一直这样做，大脑已经形成了固定的套路，一说就能大部分放下/let go，挺
能帮助我的，很少积怨。
2）这几年我的嗔心蛮多的，好像对生活有些失控的感觉（无明不慧等原因造成的），
嗔心会令人产生很不好看的气质。相由心生的威力在发挥。就算为了美容，也要向善修
定慧呀。。。。。 |
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发帖数: 3612 | 43
确实，我是出国后看见forgive & forget，
觉得还是基督教的心理学比较科学，真的，当时满有感触的。
然后就想起前几十年国内的教育，有些恰好都是毒化人的教育，
著名的就是那些
“不忘阶级苦，牢记血泪仇。
忘记过去就意味着背叛，
不要好了伤疤忘了疼”等等。
都是违反心理健康规律的东西。
人们其实是用正义的名义去毒害人。
并且把宣扬仇恨写进课本里，并认为天经地义。
完全反了。
众生无明啊，好不容易上个学，还教错的学错的。
你上面那个 I forgive you ,I forgive myself，挺好的。
同时看清自己和对方两边。 |
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Y**u
发帖数: 5466 | 44 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
freeman08 (平常心) 于 (Thu Nov 3 20:00:40 2011, 美东) 提到:
这个还是要慎之又慎啊。
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嗔心浅探
释圣醒
内容提要：本文主要是对嗔心之名义、种类及其行相乃至过患、
对治方法等作一肤浅的探讨。首先简单地探讨嗔心之名义、种类及
其行相，即对嗔心的大体形象、特征作一简单的介绍；其次探讨嗔
心的过患及其苦报，以揭示嗔心对吾人生活乃至修行所带来的困扰
与重大危害。说明嗔心生起时，不仅会令吾人自损损他，并且也会
摧毁吾人之一切善法功德，吾人之所以失戒坏德、破坏名闻等亦无
不由此而致。其不仅会给吾人的现生之修行带来极大的违缘，更障
碍吾人之究竟解脱，果报更是令人毛骨悚然。所以本文接着探讨对
治嗔心之方法，揭示我执乃是吾人嗔病生起之根源，以示吾人欲拔
除嗔病之根，必须先要修无我观以淡化私我之执，令嗔心不生。又
说明修学慈忍是对治嗔心的... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 18403 | 45 1895-1945: China-Japan Feud
In more recent history, China first knew our neighbor Japan's most
delightful side as the great Asian power, after losing the first Sino-
Japanese war (1895). Japan demanded war reparations to the tune of 13,600
tons of silver, equivalent of 2x Chinese government's year revenue. We were
forced to pay high interest loans and lost Taiwan and Diaoyudao with the
same treaty.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/First_Sino-Japanese_War
The huge payments to Japan hobbled the C... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 5385 | 46 来自主题: _BibleStudy版 - 我很无奈 以前有朋友对我说：“知道你的一个优点是什么么？上帝给了你一个礼物，就是你
forgiving” 那时的我，自己从没发觉。
一年半前一个很要好的朋友，在美国认识，中国人，基督徒，我那时以为我找到了一生
最好的朋友，我信任她，尊敬她，甚至崇拜，我觉得别人都说海外找知己是很难的，可
是我觉得很幸运，有这么一个朋友，一直以为很幸运，直到那天的晴天霹雳，发现她一
直在盗用我信用卡的事实，无法接受的一个事实，，，一切结束了，最后留下的只有无
法没灭的伤痛和流不尽的眼泪。但是，我原谅了她。那段时间，痛过，哭过，觉得我长
大了，我可以自己一个人处理一些以前从来没在我身上发生的事情，以前都有爸爸妈妈
，可是现在只有一个，一个人独立。
我现在想再次原谅，可是为什么，我的心现在竟然是这么硬了，这么痛苦，我的forgiving去了哪里？我还是需要什么事情都forgiving么？ 那么，我是不是永远都不会吸取教训，永远
都是好了伤巴忘了痛。 我觉得撒旦好像迷惑了我，我现在的心，不像以前那样软，这
个世界本来就是这么丑陋，这么多欺骗，我的善良还能存活多久，一次又一次的打击，
谁来告诉我怎么不让自己被污染，怎么不受 |
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G*******s
发帖数: 4956 | 47 海德堡要理问答主日07
来自CCWiki中国基督徒百科(Godwithus神同在网)
目录
1 英文版
2 英文2011版
3 赵中辉版
4 陈达/王志勇版
5 钱耀诚版（暂缺请帮忙补充）
6 基督教要义圣经课程版
7 参考链接
英文版
7. Lord's Day
Q. 20. Are all men then, as they perished in Adam, saved by Christ?
A.
No; (a)
only those who are ingrafted into him, and, receive all his benefits, by a t
rue faith. (b)
(a) Matt.7:14; Matt.22:14. (b) Mark 16:16; John 1:12; John 3:16,18,36;
Isa.53:11; Ps.2:12; Rom.11:17,19,20; Rom.3:22; Heb.4:2,3; Heb.5:9;
Heb.10:39; Heb.11:6.
Q. 21.
What is true faith?
A.
True fa... 阅读全帖 |
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a*****c
发帖数: 3525 | 48 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: agostic (π-packing), 信区: Military
标 题: (中英文)原子弹下无冤魂：B29飞行员查尔斯•斯韦尼将军1995国会演讲
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Aug 15 20:13:42 2012, 美东)
只有记忆才能带来真正的原谅，而遗忘就可能冒重复历史的危险。
One can only forgive by remembering. And to forget, is to risk repeating
history.
学英文是为了更好地了解历史。文章很长，有兴趣学英语同时了解历史的同学，希望耐
心地看完（也可以拷贝下来仔细研读）。不仅仅是学英语，更重要的是学如何写作，如
何摆事实，讲道理，反驳质疑。可以学的东西(中英文)原子弹下无冤魂：B29飞行员查
尔斯•斯韦尼将军1995国会演讲很多，就看你是否能够用心去领悟。这是一篇难
得的informative/historical/linguastic article. Enjoy and welcome to ... 阅读全帖 |
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